Family & Relationships - 5 January 2007

My husband and I have been married for 2 1/2 years and been together for 3 years. My husband parents have been divorced for a long time. My father in law seemed to like me when we where dating but shortly after my husband and I got married he started telling my husband that I had been hanging out a lot with my brother in laws and a gay cousin this is true. He accused me of cheating on my husband with my brother in laws and gay cousin and called me a whore. My husband wasn't home at the time he was deployed I could see how that came across in a bad way...but come on they are my Brother in laws. Anyway I later learned that my father in law and his other siblings didn't agree of anyone that wasn't there own blood. 2 of my brother in laws are not blood related they are my husband step brothers. All of my husband’s family except my 3 brother in laws and one uncle and aunt and cousin and mother in law are the only ones that really talk to us.

2007-01-05 09:25:26 · 3 answers · asked by LuLu 3 in Family

I have had feelings for this guy for almost two years. I had thought that when we first met there were feelings on his side too, but it was a complicated time for us to be together, not to mention we lived about 100 miles away. We kept in contact for the two years through email, but nothing ever happened, and I always had to initiate contact with him first. I eventually got fed up with it, and decided to stop contacting him. Well, we were at a mutual friends New Years Eve party and he decided to finally make a move on me. We ended up sleeping together, and now I don't know what to do. I don't know if it was just random sex or if he really wanted me. How do I know? What should I do?

2007-01-05 09:24:39 · 8 answers · asked by Sara S 1 in Singles & Dating

I know it's tasty looking but I was somewhat uncomfortable with the idea.

I let her do it.

2007-01-05 09:24:16 · 4 answers · asked by The Royal Followills 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-05 09:24:11 · 1 answers · asked by ? 3 in Singles & Dating

without having sex?
My best male friend swore off sex 2 years ago, and i could almost said he hasn't had it, but can this really happen?
Isn't it bad for the prostate or something? Men, input here!

2007-01-05 09:23:57 · 16 answers · asked by dianabarff 3 in Singles & Dating

on new years i got drunk at my girlfriends house party with a bunch of friends. i was very very drunk and dont remember most of the night. i guess i made out with one of my guy friends (somebody i used to date) for a good part of the night. i even made out with him infront of her. but i dont remember it at all (all i remember was giving him a peck when 12:00 rolled around). she is so mad at me, and said she needed time to think about us. i apologized, and feel bad i hurt her , but i think that its not so much of a big deal. i was really drunk and not myself. she knows that. what do you think? how would you feel/react in this situation?

2007-01-05 09:23:38 · 19 answers · asked by alittlelost 4 in Singles & Dating

hi i'm 16. ill start out by saying that all my life, ive always noticed boys more then girls which yeah, is sort of strange. From what i remember, i never wanted to be romantically involved with boys, i just wanted a really attractive best friend. You should know that at school, the majority of my friends are girls and ive been ridiculed and called gay and fag since the sixth grade. that's why i only have 2 male friends. In late august of 06, i was in my bed and suddenly, i had a panic attack. i couldnt breathe and all i could think was UGH I'M GAY OH NO OH NOOO. since then until now, ive been depressed about trying to find my true orientation. I spoke to my parents and they're ok with it if i'm gay and i'm very appreciative. I'm still really depressed though. i have fallen for girls before and gotten hard ons sorry, awkward ocassionally, but i cant view women as sexual icons and get turned on by looking at porn. If you don't mind, ill continue this on another entry

sorry if its long

2007-01-05 09:22:59 · 15 answers · asked by Matthew R 1 in Singles & Dating

Well, to all the girls out there, would you slap my face till it turns red if I ask u to ??

Would love to hear ur replies (and if u r interested to slap, and u live in the UAE then contact me :P)

2007-01-05 09:22:58 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my partner has said that she is going to leave me because I rang the police about a text message she sent me last night saying that she couldn't take some people anymore and wanted to die, it looked to serious for me to ignore and seemed like a cry for help and thats why I did what I did, she later messaged me and said that she was only upset and wanted to winge and that she loves me, she then messaged me to say what do you like about me? mwa which means kisses.....I have sent her an email saying that I am sorry for what I had done last night and several txts and have said that I will ring her tonight but I am looking for advice because I just dont know what she will say when I verbally tell her why I called the police....I really have no idea so if you can please give me some ideas that would be appreciated.

thanks
Mitch

note: I dont know why she sent the message like she did when all she wanted to do was have a winge, I hope she knows how much worry this has caused me :(

2007-01-05 09:22:29 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I want to try this, but is it safe? Does it hurt really bad?

I am talking about electric stimulation, not a vibrator....

2007-01-05 09:22:27 · 2 answers · asked by shutup4774 1 in Singles & Dating

I'm tired of being single in high school, and I sometimes try to talk to guys but they don't talk back! Either that or they don't exist unless they're taken or an asshole. Are there any guys that can explain your mysterious gender to me?

2007-01-05 09:21:58 · 19 answers · asked by Susie 2 in Singles & Dating

Honest answers please!

2007-01-05 09:21:56 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

This family member always has to have center of attention no matter what family function is going on. This person is loud sometimes. It seems like they do it deliberitly to take off the spot from someone to them.

2007-01-05 09:21:53 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I'm talking about really wanting or needing something sexually and being able to talk to your spouse about it without feeling embarrassed or insecure (that they'll think less or differently about you). Can you do that? And what does it say about one's relationship if they can't? And should we always confront our spouses about our sexual needs, or is it better to accept that we need to keep certain requests to ourselves and just live with the fact that we can't always get what we want?

2007-01-05 09:21:49 · 10 answers · asked by WhyNotMe 6 in Marriage & Divorce

I love my mom very much, but sometimes she wants me to live like my brother. Me and my brother have always been very different. One she has always acts like, she likes my brother more than me and has always had him in a high pedal stool. When it comes to me she always wants me to act like i am the danzal in distress, always wants me to depend on my husband, and everything i do in life is sometimes not good enough for her. This weekend I wanted to travel up and my mom started to nag me on how dangerous it is to go by myself, so I ended up not wanting to go. Should I stop telling my mom so much of my life? Should i tell her the way I feel? I avoid telling her what i feel because I do not want to make her feel bad or I dont want to disrespect her. I love her very much and i wish I can be half the mother that she was to me. what should I do?

2007-01-05 09:21:48 · 9 answers · asked by ivonne 2 in Family

I try to do everything for him.. We have a 3 year old boy I am trying to potty train, A 2 year old girl who wants to potty train and do everything I do, and a 2 month old boy who is a normal newborn, eat sleep and change diapers, I clean the house from top to bottom all the time, I fix meals, I do dishes, We have 3 dogs and 4 cats (3 cats are inside all the time), I change the litter box and feed them, I try to get to the dogs if not I ask him to do it for me, I go grocery shopping with the kids and sometime the mother in law, I am tired at night, but for him I try to stay up for him to have someone to talk to. But I see feel like he isn't thankful. He gets on the computer and look at wrestling and of course eats supper and then maybe tv but then he goes to bed. I ask him can we talk and he always said like he is bored " What about now" I am tired. He thinks my job at home is nothing compared to his. And that I should not be as tired as him. I

2007-01-05 09:21:23 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Please no nudity. (not yet!!) Just little things like eye contact. But Personal opinoins are preferred! Thanks!! xoxoxo What is it you love for girls to do? Is really my real question.

2007-01-05 09:21:17 · 6 answers · asked by ~Just_Jessica~ 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-05 09:20:56 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Met this girl a month ago, i think shes brlliant, she says shes serious about us and i feel the same too. she is the one for me. should i ask her to marry me??

2007-01-05 09:20:46 · 26 answers · asked by softie 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I need advice. My BF and I have been together for almost 5 years. We are 22 and 24. We both have good jobs making 45K and 50K, graduated college, have a new townhome, nice cars, everything. I feel like I am getting older and want to get married soon. He is really nice, puts me before everything, supportive, etc. But he smokes weed and I always ask hijm to stop but he doesnt. Its not like he does it with our friends or once in while when we drink or anything. Its like every night almost. Maybe 6 nights a week. He is like high everynight. I hate it. I feel like if he doesnt stop I want to find someone else, but I love him and feel like that would be a mistake cause everything else is perfect and worth it. I dont know. Sorry so long. Any advice?

2007-01-05 09:20:02 · 6 answers · asked by Huh? 2 in Marriage & Divorce

my gf lives with her room mate but i think there may be more to it than that.she says stuff like" me an babs had a really good time last night,im really tiered now" an she's always buying batterys. should i be worried,prob wouldnt mind if she invited me but thats a whole new box of fish!

2007-01-05 09:20:01 · 24 answers · asked by big burts bollox 2 in Singles & Dating

hes so lazy.

2007-01-05 09:19:44 · 5 answers · asked by sugarpie 3 in Family

they dont want loose women; if they say they do their lying

2007-01-05 09:19:42 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

cos for me its been ages and i wanted 2 see at what time u go clinically insane and resort to stayin in on a friday night and being on yahoo answers all night, wait a sec thats happend 2 me now. o and yea its been 7months for me and 1yr since i split frm my girlfriend, and u?

2007-01-05 09:19:36 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

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2007-01-05 09:18:50 · 6 answers · asked by prettyprincess 1 in Singles & Dating

my partner has said that she is going to leave me because I rang the police about a text message she sent me last night saying that she couldn't take some people anymore and wanted to die, it looked to serious for me to ignore and seemed like a cry for help and thats why I did what I did, she later messaged me and said that she was only upset and wanted to winge and that she loves me, she then messaged me to say what do you like about me? mwa which means kisses.....I have sent her an email saying that I am sorry for what I had done last night and several txts and have said that I will ring her tonight but I am looking for advice because I just dont know what she will say when I verbally tell her why I called the police....I really have no idea so if you can please give me some ideas that would be appreciated.

thanks
Mitch

note: I dont know why she sent the message like she did when all she wanted to do was have a winge, I hope she knows how much worry this has caused me :(

2007-01-05 09:18:04 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Did you like it or not, would you do it again, and what did you learn from this experience?

2007-01-05 09:18:01 · 2 answers · asked by simply_ch0c0late 4 in Singles & Dating

My husband and I actually get a night alone for once. What are some really nice, sexy and fun things I can plan for us? I have some ideas but we always do the same thing.

2007-01-05 09:17:28 · 5 answers · asked by nicsgirlus 4 in Marriage & Divorce

Alright so my boyfriend and I have been together for 2 years and 3 months. There's this boy in on of my classes that wrote me a note saying I was pretty and whatnot, which infuriated my boyfriend. Now this other boy wants to hang out tonight and I would like to, but I know my boyfriend wouldn't like that at all. I told the note boy that I was already taken. And I really do love my boyfriend a lot, so I wouldn't do anything funny. I just really don't hang out with anyone any more because of my boyfriend's extreme jealousy. So it just seems like a good opportunity to go out and do something for a change. And the note boy seems like a really nice guy so I would like to hang out with him, but just for like a friendly game of bowling or something, not to go over anyones' house or anything like that. I don't know what to do :( Please help.

2007-01-05 09:17:14 · 10 answers · asked by Danica 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-05 09:16:35 · 7 answers · asked by ohstrawberries 1 in Marriage & Divorce