Family & Relationships - 5 January 2007

I want to get married, but it seems as if everytime I turn the corner someone wants to know if I will be getting a husband soon. I am in graduate school and I am attractive and smart. I feel I have accomplished a lot in my young life, but most people are fixated on if I am involved in a romantic relationship. Why are single men considered bachelors but women who want to pursue higher education and gain better jobs are considered old maids? Plus, I am not ready for kids.

2007-01-05 09:04:20 · 9 answers · asked by redbone 1 in Marriage & Divorce

he is in 8th grade and we danced with each other at the dance after that he broke up with his girlfriend! i feel like its all my falt is it i feel horible the dance was just as friends!

2007-01-05 09:04:06 · 1 answers · asked by hockeylova#1 3 in Singles & Dating

ok well i have a problem with trusting ive been let down so many times by people i thought i could trust. well my problem is this: i thought id see how trusting my boyfriend is, my boyfriend signed on the dating web page ages ago and thats how we met.....any way i put a fake profile on and a photo of a woman i found on google.well after sending a messege to him i got a fone call that evening from him saying he got a msg from the site and asked if it was me well i said no it wasnt and he believed me he said he deleted the msg.well when i loged on there was a msg from him....asking about my life ect. so i sent one back and to my horror he send a short msg saying you have a stunning face.and ive msg back saying thankyou.i asked if he was single but he spoke about his ex and so i asked the same question again, he just left hes web page a mob time asking to keep in touch as he really liked the sound of that profile.......im so confused and angry i nearly court him log on this morning!

2007-01-05 09:04:06 · 1 answers · asked by dragontears 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

I met a girl on line and we have been chatting for weeks she said she loves me, I ask could I please come to see her she keeps declining and when I offer her to come see me she has an excuse. What do I do...help

2007-01-05 09:03:36 · 9 answers · asked by Kelly J 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-05 09:03:20 · 4 answers · asked by teneta10 1 in Marriage & Divorce

and WHY?

2007-01-05 09:03:18 · 28 answers · asked by duhzz 1 in Singles & Dating

how come people can tell a girl she's skinny but you can't tell a fat girl that she's fat. i don't understand that.

2007-01-05 09:02:42 · 8 answers · asked by Gorgeous 3 in Family

he likes another girl and i dont know what to do

2007-01-05 09:00:59 · 42 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I recently moved into an old house with my family. When I first moved in I met a man who lived in the neighborhood. I came back from work early and saw this man running through my backyard. I asked my wife and she was all disheveled, she said she saw him too. She then told me that this man had died recently and must be haunting our new home! I have seen him several more times, once in my bedroom while my wife was sleeping and for a few days he was in the basement. My wife told me to stay upstairs so she could hold a seance to get rid of him, but came back in a few hours looking exhausted, saying it didn't work. I also once saw him in the grocery store at the checkout! Are there any ghost experts out there who can help me, I want to move but my wife refuses too. She says I should just ignore the ghost! Is there any way to get rid of a spectral being!?!? Please help.

2007-01-05 09:00:58 · 26 answers · asked by Wet Willie 1 in Singles & Dating

I ask because I posted an ad, got some replies and talked to a few girls. They asked what friends with benefits means to me and whether I would do things like take them out for dinner, fill up their car with gas and stuff like that. In my world, that is being a boyfriend.

Do I need to put the term "Looking for a f**k friend" in my ad just to be more clear?

2007-01-05 09:00:44 · 16 answers · asked by r s 1 in Singles & Dating

I think experience.

2007-01-05 09:00:36 · 4 answers · asked by mariablues 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-05 08:59:58 · 2 answers · asked by eldany10 4 in Singles & Dating

Women's Friends:

A woman didn't come home one night. The next day she told her husband that she had slept over at a friend's house.

The husband called his wife's 10 best friends. None of them knew what she was talking about (they claimed )


Men's Friends:

A man didn't come home one night. The next day he told his wife that he had slept over at a friend's house.

The wife called her husband's 10 best friends. Eight of them
confirmed that he had slept over, and two claimed he was still there.

2007-01-05 08:59:30 · 12 answers · asked by boredperv 6 in Marriage & Divorce

Hey i have a an ipod nano and i want a new one which one shoulkd i get
And wut cell phone
lg chocolate or something else
IM me please
my screen name is abercrombierules1892

2007-01-05 08:59:02 · 1 answers · asked by lena b 1 in Singles & Dating

you know chubby chicks...I love them when they are cute and have a nice rack..and some junk in the trunk..chubby chicks..are so soft and warm and just so much fun...so do like them or what.?

2007-01-05 08:59:00 · 2 answers · asked by Kingofreportedabuse 3 in Singles & Dating

Is it good bad or dumb to ask - a complete stranger / someone you hardly know or just meet for the first time - out on a date?

is it best to wait till you know someone betta or not?

2007-01-05 08:58:58 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-01-05 08:57:14 · 29 answers · asked by Lisa F 1 in Singles & Dating

if you do why,and if no, porque no.if you dated one what would you want him to know about you,or your culture.what could he do to make you feel special and is their anything you could do to make him feel just as special?

2007-01-05 08:56:43 · 4 answers · asked by m 4 in Singles & Dating

Alright. I like this guy and i'm 14 and he's 16. I''m a freshman and he's a junior. I've known him since i was in 5th grade and i don't know what to do because i'm crushing on him SOOOO hard. Whenever I see him i get all nervous and like me he is extremely shy and so i know he won't make the first move. I want to go out with him sooo bad.. what should i DO??????

2007-01-05 08:56:35 · 7 answers · asked by luvcrosby87 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-05 08:56:16 · 7 answers · asked by hotLove 1 in Singles & Dating

I NEED HELP.................................

2007-01-05 08:56:12 · 25 answers · asked by Paige001 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I have been with the same guy since I was 15 and I have two kids from him. He just cheated on me with his ex. Of course, I was so upset and sad that my nerves took over and I blew up his phone with messages of foul language because he wouldn't pick up his phone. However, he calls me yesterday and tells me that I have a pretty foul mouth and that he was saving the messages and showing it to his ex's mother and his friends to show what he was going through, like I was abusive to him or something. Anyone, that knows me I'm a quiet and very nice person, and I don't have any abusive bone in my body. I was just so angry and so upset that he would do that to me after 10yrs and 2 kids. I did everything for him and more. I always was there for him when he needed me or when he didn't. When I confronted him he denied it. Now he's treating like it was all my fault. How should I feel about that

2007-01-05 08:56:08 · 6 answers · asked by shortie 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-05 08:56:07 · 5 answers · asked by sweetie1341 1 in Singles & Dating

whenever i smile for a guy in the streets or in a restaurant or a bar.. he just approaches me and starts very sexual hints like caressing or kisses or asking me to go to his place...straight right of the hook without even trying to date me or anything.
i dress very modetly and don't show no skin AT ALL. i don't wear alot of make up and i don't send sexual body language like biting the lips etc...
everyone says im kind and direct.. why do guys approach me only for one nights stand?
and what can i do to attract the right kind?

2007-01-05 08:56:03 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

so i moved to Texas from Nebraska about 4 or so months ago. i HATE it in Texas, i have NO friends and i HATE my job. im visting my friends in Nebraska right now, and i leave on Monday. ive been prayin about it, and im thinkin i really want to move back up here with all my friends. ive been crying myself to sleep cause i dont want to go back to Texas. i also just asked my mom today if there is ANY possible way i could be back up here. she said that it is bascially impossible. they would be able to support me and i dont have a job up here. my question to yall is: what would u do?? i dont really have any money right now, cause i just got my job in Texas about 2 months ago, and ive been saving $ to come here. i only have in my name like 50 $$. do u think there really could be a possible way for me to move back to Nebraska. im so sad PLEASE SERIOUS ANSWERS ONLY!! im crying and depressed, please help me. God Bless♥

2007-01-05 08:55:58 · 5 answers · asked by ○HiD○ 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-01-05 08:55:16 · 2 answers · asked by lover 1 in Singles & Dating

me and my best friend have been bestfriend for 12 years. I got married 2 years ago and me and my husband have been together 5 years. When i met him she distanced herself from me for a while and now that we are married she says we stalk each other and that we are crazy and he runs my life. I try and explain to her that once you are married, you have to respect and take into consideration what your spouse says. Also we do call each other alot because we don't see each other ( we both work two jobs) so when we get a free second he or I will call and talk for about 5 mins. Nothing major. She is younger than me, but i do not think she understands what marriage entails. It's not all about me anymore. Could this be jealousy? Why is she acting this way? How can i explain to her that I have different priorities and obligations than she does? How can I get her to respect my marriage?

2007-01-05 08:54:49 · 4 answers · asked by Vanessa H 2 in Friends

Ok, so i always see a ton of questions on here asking the exact same thing, like what do u like in a girl/guy and stuff like that. I want to ask something different to see how everyone's answers differ from one's I've read and answered before. So here's a senario:::

Let's say a girl and a guy haven't met but they talk a lot through email. They are just friends but they know they both like each other but know they would be having a long distance relationship. One person is athletic the other is not so athletic(chubbier), but that shouldn't matter. the guy won't commit and the girl thinks he may be cheating on her even though they are just friends. He bought her a really cool gift for christmas but she didn't really like it. Now she doesn't know if they should be friends or not, or maybe try and be more than friends. She says he may just want to "do it" and doesn't really like her, but he says he does. Plus he's older than her and he wants to meet her someday.

continued.....

2007-01-05 08:54:46 · 1 answers · asked by angelicasongs 5 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-05 08:54:28 · 21 answers · asked by Cami 1 in Family

She hasn't gone out with guys much. Believes love s/b like in the movie Serendipity. Is terribly shy around crushes. Looks 24 and acts childish.
Is that endearing or scary? Would you give her a chance?
Be honest please.

2007-01-05 08:54:26 · 19 answers · asked by mariablues 1 in Singles & Dating