I have been with the same guy since I was 15 and I have two kids from him. He just cheated on me with his ex. Of course, I was so upset and sad that my nerves took over and I blew up his phone with messages of foul language because he wouldn't pick up his phone. However, he calls me yesterday and tells me that I have a pretty foul mouth and that he was saving the messages and showing it to his ex's mother and his friends to show what he was going through, like I was abusive to him or something. Anyone, that knows me I'm a quiet and very nice person, and I don't have any abusive bone in my body. I was just so angry and so upset that he would do that to me after 10yrs and 2 kids. I did everything for him and more. I always was there for him when he needed me or when he didn't. When I confronted him he denied it. Now he's treating like it was all my fault. How should I feel about that
2007-01-05 08:56:08 · 6 answers · asked by shortie 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Your feeling are yours.The way you feel is something you are entitled to.What he is doing is wrong and a vilation of your relationship.I think its time to try to get some child support and move on.
2007-01-05 09:00:06 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do you care what the ex's mother thinks? Youre taking care of your kids, and it sounds like he just isnt worth it...of course easier said than done
2007-01-05 08:59:42 · answer #2 · answered by Paws * 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should feel however you want and need to feel. Let his punk asss go and show peep what anger does. I bet he wont tell them that he chetated on you. Take his *** to court for child support and move on. Don't let him make you feel as if you did something wrong.
2007-01-05 09:00:14 · answer #3 · answered by Mean Carleen 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should feel upset and angry, exactly how you feel now. If you can get a lawyer, do so. Get out of there ASAP and get child support!
2007-01-05 08:59:12 · answer #4 · answered by colormecolorado 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should feel betrayed. He wronged you and now you need to teach him his lesson. Just dump him. 80 percent of cheaters dont stop after they get started, they just keep on goin.
2007-01-05 09:00:07 · answer #5 · answered by its_just_me_218 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is just feeling guilty, and wanting to put the blame on you. Just tell everyone it's none of their business, and he cheated on you, so you'll talk to him any damn way you please!
2007-01-05 09:00:39 · answer #6 · answered by purpledragonflyjrh 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋