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Question

Ok, so i always see a ton of questions on here asking the exact same thing, like what do u like in a girl/guy and stuff like that. I want to ask something different to see how everyone's answers differ from one's I've read and answered before. So here's a senario:::

Let's say a girl and a guy haven't met but they talk a lot through email. They are just friends but they know they both like each other but know they would be having a long distance relationship. One person is athletic the other is not so athletic(chubbier), but that shouldn't matter. the guy won't commit and the girl thinks he may be cheating on her even though they are just friends. He bought her a really cool gift for christmas but she didn't really like it. Now she doesn't know if they should be friends or not, or maybe try and be more than friends. She says he may just want to "do it" and doesn't really like her, but he says he does. Plus he's older than her and he wants to meet her someday.

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She's shy and doesn't know how to talk to him but he's very outgoing. so they are quite the opposite but they have some stuff in common. He talks about doing stuff but when she asks him about it he says he's just joking and he would never make her do anything he didn't want to do...On the other, the girl ignores him sometimes and he's not sure if she likes him anymore. He wants them to stay friends because he thinks she's a cool person and a good friend. So what should they do?

haha i tried to get a bunch of different things in there. if i left any out let me know!

well i was bored and had nothing to do and most of the questions on here have some aspect out of the senario. but if all of that really did happen then yeah that would be weird.

Answer 1

First of all they are just friends for right now so she is really getting ahead of herself because you can't cheat on your friend. Secondly why would she pursue a relationship with someone who lives far away. She doesn't really know him but through e-mail meaning you don't know him at all because any one can lie through a computer screen.On top of that she already doesn't trust him. Thirdly if she has the concept that all he wants is *** then there should be no thought of wanting to get with him because you are judging a man you don't even know. Last at least he bought her a Christmas gift. Did she buy him one?That shows he's thinking about you while you his FRIEND. You don't have to like him in that manner to be friends with him so just be friends. Then this might change after you become closer.But ealier statements still stand so BE CAREFUL!