he likes another girl and i dont know what to do
2007-01-05 09:00:59 · 42 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
be sincere PPLLEASE say that you've grown apart
2007-01-05 09:02:06 · answer #1 · answered by Cody F-D 3 · 1⤊ 4⤋
do you really know that he likes another girl. Did you ask him? And if you do then say this " since I know you like another girl I don't want to be going out with you anymore. When I have a yriend I want him to day dream about me all day, not another girl. And I want him to be able to LOVE ME. So that is exactly why this is not going to work. " Say that, and if he asks the other girl out and gets dumped and then he starts to call you or eratate you becuase he wants you back tell him that he could have had you instead of that other little b***h ( don't use that language if you are not old enough ! ) THAT SHOULD DO IT! Hope that I helped !
2007-01-05 09:14:15 · answer #2 · answered by funky_monkeyjac 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well dumping a guy is complicated,first NEVER break up with them threw a text message,beacuse that's rude and if you don't have the confidence to say something just say it face to face anyway.The guy will keep dating you if you don't say anytihng.Be nice and don't be cruel.Just say you really like him but it would be nice if you BOTH got a chance to see other people.
Don't to anything to the girl beacuse the guy your dating will be dumping you.
2007-01-05 09:06:48 · answer #3 · answered by Samantha P 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just go up to him and and tell him you need to talk then give him a reason of why you are dumping him but dont go into details about other reasons why you are dumping him because then you can ake the break up easier so there might be a possiblity that you could stil be friends. good luck!
ps: this is rose
2007-01-05 09:04:53 · answer #4 · answered by roseeee 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell him you have been cheating on him... its the only way you can break it off and keep him away for good. If you wanted to take the next step, then just cheat on him for real... this will change your attitude around him automatically, and without you even trying. He will figure out that something is up and he will start asking questions. Tell him you have been cheating on him. You will then have dumped him.
2007-01-05 09:05:27 · answer #5 · answered by Alex T 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just don't say anything for a week and if he comes to u and askes whats the matter? say "sorry dont talk to guys that i dumped"!!! or if u see him with another girl and he thought u did. say "what the heck r u doing because i don't talk to you doesn't mean im busy"
2007-01-05 09:08:22 · answer #6 · answered by Michaela S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i personaly think that the best way to dump a guy is the full blown truth tell him why its over because he needs to know what went wrong treat him like a friend and dont ever burn the bridges in the ex relationship
2007-01-05 09:04:19 · answer #7 · answered by Day Dreamer 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i dont think you should dump a guy for that?..you cant help if he likes someone. you need to talk with your boyfriend about this before dumping him. and if his response is rude, ignorant, or not the answer your looking for then just say i think we need to see other people cause obviously look what your doing..! i hoped that helped youuuuu!!!!!!!
2007-01-05 09:05:42 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Use the Sandwich effect: 1st you have the bread: be nice and tell him how fun it was and how cool he is. 2nd is the meat: tell him how it is, things are not the same as they used to be. 3RD the last bread: tell him it was fun while it lasted and you could still be friends. IT ALL DEPENDS ON WHAT YOU TRULY WANT. If you dont want some thing I said, leave it out or change it. Good Luck.
2007-01-05 09:06:31 · answer #9 · answered by FOXRACING 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it comes down to you not being happy with your relationship, just tell him the truth: you don't want to be in a relationship with him if he's going to go ofter other girls.
Give him the decision of whether or not he's going to buck up and make the relationship work, or else he just wants to leave you and if he does the don't worry about it anymore.
2007-01-05 09:05:55 · answer #10 · answered by DatingZion 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he likes someone else then isn't the relationship already over? Just tell him you want to see other people since he's basically into someone else. That's all you can do. This should be easy since he doesn't want the same things as you. Sorry. Good luck!
2007-01-05 09:04:19 · answer #11 · answered by meghanw1 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋