Guys what are some reasons as to why you stay friends or "hang-out" with an ex? My ex dumped me a year ago, yet last week he called me and asked me to go see a movie with him. I went with him, he picked me up & after the movie he just took me home. Isn't it odd that after one year, he didn't wanna even have coffee after the movie? On the drive home, when I asked him why he wanted to see me, he said that he wants to see me 'every once in awhile'. BUT, we only dated for one month, so why after one year, after HE dumped me, why does he wanna hang out and see me once in awhile? By the way, we never had sex cuz he knew that I wanna save myself for marriage. In fact, it never went past kissing. Is he just keeping me on the side, or does he see me as wifey material? So what does he REALLY want and should I be worried?
2007-01-05 09:40:36 · 3 answers · asked by Hottie 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
dont worry.
tends to have this horrid effect on youthful skin.
yea.to ur question.
maybe when he dumped you, he did it for a reason, thats not nessecariy connected to NOT being attracted to you.maybe he still is...and thats why he watned to seee you again.
maybe he enjoys your company, and doesnt mind having fun and hanging out, you sound like a cool person, so i dont see why anybody wouldnt wanna ask you out , ex or not.
i never have clean breakups, all my boyfriends, keep in touch with me, we meet regularly, and it's fun, and 1 of them even cheated on me, twice!..so it seriously doesnt matter.
i wouldnt be worried about anything until he actually asks you out...or is clear in anyway, guys have a totally different mental language, they're men afterall. and they think different
what u see as a crush, may be just a friendly relationship to him
or
just ASK him clearly.ask him what hes thinking.and be calm about it
GOOD LUCK
rave
2007-01-05 09:50:31 · answer #1 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What I don't hear is what do YOU want? Is this ok with you? Are you fine with a relationship going like he seems to want it? You don't have to sit back and just go on for the ride. You can be in charge of your life. If this ok with you,then keep seeing him. But if you want more from a relationship, then tell him to move on.
2007-01-05 17:53:12 · answer #2 · answered by Teresa t 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he just enjoys your friendship and company.
2007-01-05 17:45:48 · answer #3 · answered by color me blue 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋