okay so im 14 a still have not mad eout or kissed! i have had b-f before but its weird cuz we never did neither we did tha holding hands thing an hugging thing and tha rest but i think they got a vibe from me like i didnt want to be kissed an now im w/ this boy an he loves 2 make out but im petrified(sp) to cuz i have no clue how someone help me!!!!
2007-01-05 09:41:59 · 15 answers · asked by ClAiR BeAr! 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
p.s. I WANT TO!
2007-01-05 10:00:26 · update #1
Time will let you know when it right.
Don't do anything that you are not ready for.
I would suggest talking to your Mom. Really sounds
dangerous....No...She might be able to help you and give you
advice.
Tell her the other girls are talking about it and you think it sounds kinda gross...how old were you Mom....and maybe that will open the door and you will make her day. Include her...
Best wishes.....and yes it will work out....its normal for a teen to ask such questions.
Remembering when I was your age or a little younger talking with my mom or don't laugh....kissing the pillow...trying on lip gloss that tasted perfect.....:O)
2007-01-05 09:58:59 · answer #1 · answered by travelingirl005 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Instead of being embarrassed and trying to fake your way through it, tell him he's about to be the first guy you've ever kissed and you are so happy that you are sharing this special "first" with him and will always remember it. Also tell him you don't want it to lead to anymore than a sweet innocent kiss. A kiss can be sweet, or a kiss can lead to giving up more than you should. Keep it sweet. He'll know what you mean and you'll know if he's pushing too hard for more.
2007-01-05 17:49:49 · answer #2 · answered by fried_twinkie1 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't be worried. I actually hadn't either until 14 and it happened to be with someone who was very experienced. You can jus let him make the mves and once he starts, you'll catch on fast. It's not difficult but kinda hard to explain. Best part is, if he has practice, then he'll be good at it! If he knows you haven't, he'll probabaly understand. If he doesn't, jus follow his lead and when you get the hang of it, be creative in your own way. good luck!
2007-01-05 17:45:53 · answer #3 · answered by Kate 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh my gosh,
You sound just like me,
Ok I'm 15 just started dating and my boyfriend says he never knows how to kiss me because I'm so shy and I always look away really fast so over time I've gotten more comfortable and we can kiss more easily don't feel bad about being a good girl it's a good thing to many bad girls these days guys like bad girls for one night love good girls forever.
2007-01-05 17:46:46 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You sound like you're not ready for it and don't want to do it. So who's pressuring you to do this? You're only 14, you're a kid. Why do you need a boyfriend? Enjoy yourself and have fun with your friends. You've got all your adult years to worry about boys and the problems that go with relationships !
2007-01-05 17:53:18 · answer #5 · answered by skiv_77 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry. I didn't get my first kiss until I was eighteen. Sometime things just happen that way.
As for your boyfriend, he may never have kissed a girl before either and is just nervous. Let it happen naturally.
2007-01-05 17:46:14 · answer #6 · answered by CrystalEyes 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's no set age for making out with someone. It shouold be based on your feelings for the guy. If you're hesitating, it seems like you're either not sure of your feelings for him, your trust in his feelings for you, or your confidence in yourself. You should do things when you're comfortable with them. If you are okay with all these things, maybe you're just freaking yourself. Get out of your head, and just let go. Maybe think about your favorite celeb guy to get into the swing of things.
2007-01-05 17:49:15 · answer #7 · answered by macbeth00798 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait until you are ready, dont let pressure suck you into doing something you dont want. Plus when you are ready, it will make it that much more enjoyable. Good luck.
2007-01-05 17:46:27 · answer #8 · answered by Rick R 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Kiss him slowly and everything falls in place.
2007-01-05 17:47:38 · answer #9 · answered by Mobilewiseguy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I didn't get my first kiss until 11th grade. Just go with it don't stress!
2007-01-05 17:45:56 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋