I have a friend who is married legally but currently separated from her husband. She has gotten involved with a married man whom she is having unprotected sex with. They have only known each other for a month and a half. She has a 8 month old daughter and I express my concerns about this married man coming to her home around her daughter being that they barely knows each other. I have also expressed concerns to her about her having sex with this married man.She often brags about the sex her and this married man have and to be honest, I do not entertain it by not making any comments about it. The point I am trying to make is I find myself distancing myself from her. I am not saying that I am perfect but I am tired of her whining about her soon to be ex-husband and the financial burden he has caused and then turn around and brag about sleeping with some other woman's husband. Do you think it is wrong for me to feel this way?
2007-01-05 09:39:21 · 6 answers · asked by Shay 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Hey Shay
This freind sounds like shes trying 2 get back at her husband. If she bring him home in front of her daughter there could b 2 things she wants 2 get caught with him or she is trying 2 wreck his married life. Men that cheat all ways get caught. the point is if she is distancing her self from u now when this all falls apart she will need u more than ever. Shes loving the sex because its new with a new man and more than likly its not that great. let her have her fun but just remember what goes around cums around would she like her husband sleeping around on her ?
2007-01-05 09:53:47 · answer #1 · answered by Daniel M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-12 04:47:02 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not at all! She's a tramp if you ask me! Why is she bragging about sleeping with someone else's husband anyway. She should keep that on the hush if she gonna trick off like that. Wonder what will happen if this guy's wife finds out.
2007-01-05 09:49:15 · answer #3 · answered by saturn man 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it is normal for you to feel this way. It is something you believe strongly about, so your reaction is normal. I agree with your choice of not saying anything, rather than perhaps saying or judging verbally, when you may not understand the situation fully. I learned the hard way that we never know the reasons for peoples decisions---even if they are wrong ones. But, I also learned that you sometimes have to distance yourself if you feel strongly about a situation.
2007-01-05 09:43:21 · answer #4 · answered by donnabellekc 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do not feel bad for your morals. You have already expressed your disapproval to her. Now if she doesn't change then you move on with your life.
2007-01-05 09:59:25 · answer #5 · answered by Lady Mandeville 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have got it going on and are wise beyond your years. Drop her ASAP.
2007-01-05 09:43:17 · answer #6 · answered by flutterby_bluesky 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋