before christmas break my bf like broke up with me and like stoped talking to me and then today we were passing a note during science class and then he actually walked next to me and then he said "bye" the way he used to say it when we were going out and he like flirts with me all the time...and during algabra my friend sits behind him and she asked him if he still likes me and he said "maybe" so does that mean that he still likes me or what because this whole thing is EXTREMELY confusing...somebody PLEASE help me!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2007-01-05 09:41:28 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Ignore his dumb ***. He just wants to have "options" and if something doesn't work out, then he can come back to you. Don't give it to him...I'm telling you from experience. Move on, the guy is a jerk.
2007-01-05 09:43:32 · answer #1 · answered by Living for today and a good wine 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I know how you feel. Same thing happened to me. But trust me once you brake up it's really hard to get back to from where you let of. Things will not be the same. But my advice to you is, don't show him that you're intersted in him let him come to you. And if he was the one who broke up with you then let him show you that he really desrives you, and that his willing to get you back. And if you broke up with him then I'm sure you had a reason so think about it do you really want him back? And just remember that when two people are meant to be at the end they will be but if there not then at the end they won't. And well for me getting back with my ex it didn't work out. Like I said before once you brake up once it's hard to get what you had back. And don't worry If things don't work out with him there truely are lot's of fish in the sea. You just have to be patient and the right one will come to you.
2007-01-05 17:54:44 · answer #2 · answered by Carmen 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
More than likely he is really interested in another girl and wants to keep you as a back-up...unfortunenatly. This is how dudes strategize. He is keeping you intrested just in case his plans fall through. Or maybe he feels it is more important to have the appearence of a relationship to prop up his status/ego. Unfortunately I don't think there is much can be done if someone is nolonger interested. Best to be friends for now and pursue other people. You seem young..so ...you'll have a life filled with more interesting people who are genuinely more interested in you. Best of Luck
2007-01-05 17:51:20 · answer #3 · answered by Ryan 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
He broke up with you because he didnt want to buy you a present for Christmas its the oldest trick in the book and he might want to be afriend with benefits hes not worth your time. I would say the same to my daughter I am a young dad and I have no reason to lie
2007-01-05 17:50:22 · answer #4 · answered by amliera 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like he does want to get back with you again. But you cant just let this guy walk all over you changing his mind all the time, if you want to get back with him, make him sweat a little dont just give him what he wants, make him jump through a few hoops and if he goes through that maybe then id consider taking him back.
Your young believe me in 5 years you wont even remember his name...
2007-01-05 17:55:59 · answer #5 · answered by Delete 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he's on an ego trip and wants you to run after him. If he's an ex, it was for a good reason. Trust your instincts. I would say move on too. You can do better than a guy who plays games with the heart.
2007-01-05 17:51:56 · answer #6 · answered by NanaCat 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Simply tell him how you feel. Tell him you still like him and made a mistake. Tell him you don't need to know how he feels about you right this minute but you would like him to think about it and let you know shortly. Tell him that it took a day or two for you to appreciate him and you won't let it happen again. And then don't let it happen again. Good luck to you.
2007-01-05 17:45:46 · answer #7 · answered by kpd2020 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If he/she is not involved in an intimate relation, then you could try your best; reminding him / her with the good times you had together and how much you were in love with one another...
Try a special occasion to initiate such a move; i.e., his / her Birthday...etc.
He or she who has a true heart will respond reasonably...
2007-01-05 17:47:53 · answer #8 · answered by FOREVER AUTUMN 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yes he still likes you but boys are silly. Cause they wanna know if you still like them. I like her if she stuill likes me. That's goofy I know but that's how they are . . . silly.
He's telling you by walking past your desk and saying bye the way he use to. Funny huh. You do SMILE and he does too! . . . . . See what I mean? You gotta tell him that you know he still likes you cause you like him . . . . . then back to usual.
Beside you probably broke up about somethin silly or can't remember what the fuss was about.
It's EASY . . . . . . . HE STILL LIKES YOU!!!
2007-01-05 17:51:18 · answer #9 · answered by Babe 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Ah, the games we play in love, haha!
Sounds like he is intrested but maybe isnt sure if he wants to make it official yet so hes startly slowly and seeing how you react.
2007-01-05 17:43:43 · answer #10 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋