Family & Relationships - 5 January 2007

I used to feel very connected to other ppl and wanted to be involved socially, have friends and employment that required interpersonal relationships, until I came to terms with how I really felt about myself from the inside. Now...I just dont even want much to do with anyone anymore. Things dont seem to have much appeal that requre a great deal of group interaction. It seems Ive moved to a period of my life (gradually but not suddenly), where I seek protection from exposure instead of involvement. I cant even imagine myself doing, liking or even succeeding in things I once did. A person that used to be high energy, I've moved to a very slow pace, but seem to seek that. I used to even desire the requirement of being in front of others--and now I choose activities that allow me to hide. What over time, makes a person this way?

2007-01-05 15:06:45 · 3 answers · asked by josh_rittinger 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

just curious

2007-01-05 15:06:32 · 7 answers · asked by alycat 2 in Singles & Dating

she's kindhearted and truly a good friend. but she always contradict with herself and makes herself seem like a passive liar... sometimes she would say this and then two days later, her whole outloook is different.. what should i do?

2007-01-05 15:05:22 · 9 answers · asked by lelenguyen05 3 in Friends

I'm not ugly. I'm not mean. I just want to, you know, love someone.

2007-01-05 15:05:18 · 7 answers · asked by meh 1 in Singles & Dating

I really appreciate all the advice and answer in my previous post.

I did try a few time to break up with her but, she won't let me.

I already told her that I am lost interest in her. But, she still insist to continue.
After the above conversation, she will give way to me for a few times. Then, the whole story repeat agian.

I don't know how to tell her off in a very nice way.

Please give me your advice.

2007-01-05 15:04:43 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i am in high school, and have never had a incentive to date, even though i have had crushes.

2007-01-05 15:04:25 · 12 answers · asked by ;) 2 in Singles & Dating

So in the beginning of the year i made friends with this new girl. i introduced her to my BFF and she rele liked her. lets call my BFF sally and the new girl Sue. So sue rele liked sally. she started to get really clingy to her. it got so bad that now sue wants sally all to herself. one night sue told sally i was talking bad about sally but i wasnt. sally believed sue though. now theyre both mad at me wut do i do?

2007-01-05 15:04:01 · 9 answers · asked by 22 Mercedes 1 in Friends

do marry lady have many problem

2007-01-05 15:03:36 · 13 answers · asked by kadora 1 in Marriage & Divorce

ive been dating him for 2 years.. but sometimes he can be so bright and intelligent.. and sometimes he needs some growing up to do.. how can i help him & offer some constructive criticism..

2007-01-05 15:03:12 · 8 answers · asked by lelenguyen05 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-05 15:02:48 · 11 answers · asked by I am Sunshine 6 in Singles & Dating

Is it like once a day or many times a day? Has this ever lead to an actually relationship?

2007-01-05 15:02:41 · 7 answers · asked by jw 2 in Singles & Dating

seventh graders

2007-01-05 15:01:32 · 9 answers · asked by shelbeywood 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-05 15:01:10 · 8 answers · asked by dezrt_i2002 1 in Friends

What should I do? I really love and want to marry both of them.

2007-01-05 15:00:58 · 14 answers · asked by Sandstorm222 2 in Singles & Dating

I recently took in my brother-in-laws 2 kids they are 1 and 3 me and my husband are doing the kinship foster care for them. The one year old cry's constently unless I am holding him. What is the best way to break him of that? I understant it takes some adjustment but we have had them for three weeks now.

2007-01-05 15:00:54 · 6 answers · asked by Christie J 2 in Family

Ok well i am going on a date with my boyfriend on sunday. he was going to give me my first kiss on new years but his friends were getting annoing so we didnt. Ok this would be my frist kiss and his so is there anything i can do to help it go better?

any tips would help

2007-01-05 15:00:49 · 11 answers · asked by fashion90s 1 in Singles & Dating

I have been dating my ex-husband again after a divorce two years ago due to him having an affair with a girl at work. Their relationship is over, and he came back wanting to "casually" date eachother again. Well, he wants to go to dinner and a movie tomarrow night, but only if he can go out drinking tonight with his sister and her party friends! Is he looking for somehting better to come along? What am I supposed to react to this?

2007-01-05 15:00:39 · 9 answers · asked by kelly l 2 in Singles & Dating

Ever since my divorce, my mother has treated me worst than my husband did. Every day she is fighting me about something. I understand I am a mother but I am also trying to rediscover who I am in the process. I used to not have any friends and now I am making some. She called me a "hooker" because I gave my number to a guy I was interested in. I am in my mid 30's so I feel unembarressed to do that. She really makes me feel so low. Also, most nights I will put my daughter to bed (2 times a night) and go off afterwards to study or to go to a coffee shop with my friend. She yells at me as I am leaving the door. I am always back by 9:30 never later because my friend works and I go to school so I am not out later than that.
help! I really really don't like my mother too much these days.

2007-01-05 15:00:32 · 9 answers · asked by La Mexicana 3 in Marriage & Divorce

I'm just wondering.

2007-01-05 15:00:22 · 16 answers · asked by Little one! 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-05 14:59:52 · 3 answers · asked by mizz~sexii 1 in Singles & Dating

Bride and groom are 50; 2 children and maybe a few others. We want to be unique but not bizarre.

2007-01-05 14:59:25 · 10 answers · asked by Princess Fallopia 2 in Weddings

there is just a feeling when i see her that makes me want to kiss her

2007-01-05 14:59:08 · 15 answers · asked by obi wan kenobi27 1 in Singles & Dating

I am in So Cal. my sister is married to a alcoholic, marijuana user, verbal abuse and physical, we have done everything to get her to leave him any ideas?? Any free counseling around So Cal you know of?? I cant take it anymore I want him to go away forever but since I can not make that happen ..How do I convince her!!

2007-01-05 14:58:59 · 14 answers · asked by ?asker 3 in Marriage & Divorce

and not just a crush anymore?

2007-01-05 14:58:38 · 3 answers · asked by you_breeze 1 in Singles & Dating

There is a girl that I have been interested in for quite a while, we have been friends for a long time even though we don't hang out on a regular basis. I decided that I was going to get the courage to ask her out. I called her a few times and talked to her on AIM for three hours one night. I felt that we were beginning to get connected so I asked her if she would like to get dinner some time, or go to a movie. Being in highschool I done so on the way to class. She responded apathetically with a "I guess" and passed me into her classroom never looking at me the whole time, giving me the cold shoulder basically. I was not confident when I done it and was very hesitant at first. Have a blown my chance?

2007-01-05 14:58:05 · 19 answers · asked by Feanor 1 in Singles & Dating

this guy I meet a year ago ..... Would not leave me alone so I try to date another guys ... He would not let me .... So i dated him ... Yes i like him but he has a problem with his anger ...he still has his baby mother call him too ... But want let me have another guy too call me .....Jelous of me real bad .... But when he gets pissed he says he will whip my *** .... Iam scared of him he isreal big .... I think that he beat the mother of his kids ... Why they didnt make it !!! what do u think ...

2007-01-05 14:57:55 · 9 answers · asked by Kim B 1 in Singles & Dating

i kick him alot but it doesn't work

2007-01-05 14:57:52 · 5 answers · asked by $patman! 1 in Friends

He is soooooo cute i dont know how to tell him. Im too shy to tell him how i feel hes three years older. He is really sweet we both like the same music but im tooo shy what do i do. Im afraid if i dont say anything ill miss out but i dont want to lose him if there is any chance what do i do??????????????Help

2007-01-05 14:57:00 · 7 answers · asked by Un-Happy Gilmore 4 in Singles & Dating

how often does this happen to other girls? i get it quite a bit, from most of my male teachers actually. it doesn't really bother me at all ive had my butt grabbed or spanked a few times though, it was kinda weird but i just played along and smiled/giggled cause i didnt really know what to do.

2007-01-05 14:56:42 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-01-05 14:55:47 · 13 answers · asked by inlovewithwoody 2 in Singles & Dating