how often does this happen to other girls? i get it quite a bit, from most of my male teachers actually. it doesn't really bother me at all ive had my butt grabbed or spanked a few times though, it was kinda weird but i just played along and smiled/giggled cause i didnt really know what to do.
2007-01-05 14:56:42 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
(im 15 sophomore in high school btw) i dont wanna report them i mean theyre not mean or anything and theyre just guys i mean its pretty natural
2007-01-05 15:25:53 · update #1
You need to talk to your super attendant or the school board ASAP.
2007-01-05 14:59:10 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 5⤊ 0⤋
It actually happens much more often that you would think. I've had that happen. I don't think that you should ignore it, though. Don't smile and giggle because that will send them the wrong message. By giggling you're telling them that it's OK to grab or slap your butt. You should tell them it bothers you and ask them to stop. If that doesn't work, go to the principle or tell other teachers (preferably female) that you're close with. In high school the teachers that hit on you can't really do anything to you. In college, on the other hand, it is very possible that the professor might fail you if you push them away or if you ask them to stop. So, I think that you definitely shouldn't ignore it and should seek help from other adults.
2007-01-05 15:04:34 · answer #2 · answered by gotasya 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do not play along and smile. This only lets them know that they continue their behavior and that you have no issue with it! You need to let them know that you are uncomfortable, or this can get carried too far. This is sexual harassment and indecency with a minor. I suggest you talk to someone immediately, you are too young to handle this situation alone and it is very important that another trustworthy adult knows what is going on. Next time, don't smile or giggle. Please. Good luck and do the right thing, butt grabbing and spanking is absolutely crossing the line in a school environment.
2007-01-05 15:01:44 · answer #3 · answered by ultra _ girl 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Report the teachers to the principal. It's not okay, even if you're flirting with them, but for future reference, don't flirt with them or give them any idea that you would react in favor to their hitting on you. Not saying that you would or have, but absolutely don't giggle if this ever happens again. Report them. Who cares if they get mad at you? They'll leave you alone, as they should, if they don't get fired, which they should. They are there to teach you, not to taint you.
2007-01-05 15:01:58 · answer #4 · answered by Laura Renee 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
what's the point of learing to be a better person if you can't stand up to your teacher.Remember the Universal Law states that everyone has the right to express their feelings.
Anyway back to reality, your male teacher is a monster and is taking advantage of you. He might see you as weak so suprise him by telling him to back off...
2007-01-05 20:58:02 · answer #5 · answered by pixyteen91 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He needs a piece of reality broken off for his Pervy a**!
TELL THE PRINCIPAL!!!!! He has NO right to touch any part of your body for any reason! This just burns me!!! When I was in 5th grade I had a size 34c chest (mountain girls grow quicker!)
and my male teacher used to stare at them! We started passing notes in class (so he would read them out loud) that said.....Mr. Staley is a rubber eye so cover your boobs! He fell for it and got totally embarrassed and sent me to the Principal, and I told him what was happening!
2007-01-05 15:34:26 · answer #6 · answered by Knuckledragger 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is sexual harassment. It is totally inappropriate and illegal!!! You should not have to put up with that. I had that happen to me growing up and it was terrible. Talk to your parents. Talk to the school administration. Talk to your counselor. Talk to the police. Talk to anyone, but do not let this go on any longer. No one should touch you in any way you don't like without your permission. Take care of yourself.
2007-01-05 14:59:26 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
The teacher who did that should be reported IMMEDIATELY.
Teacher/student relationship should NEVER go beyond platonic respect, that is an abuse of the system.
2007-01-05 15:00:11 · answer #8 · answered by Last Ent Wife (RCIA) 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
how old are you? its not even about your age, just the fact that they are educators, thats not right...and why dont you respect yourself as a Woman? I dont mean to offend you but just think about how these Men are degrading you by spanking your ***...
2007-01-05 14:59:54 · answer #9 · answered by just curious 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If he has touched you, YOU NEED TO REPORT IT!! There might be a good chance your not the only one.
2007-01-05 15:01:16 · answer #10 · answered by andy 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋