Ok well i am going on a date with my boyfriend on sunday. he was going to give me my first kiss on new years but his friends were getting annoing so we didnt. Ok this would be my frist kiss and his so is there anything i can do to help it go better?
any tips would help
2007-01-05 15:00:49 · 11 answers · asked by fashion90s 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Keep the first one sweet and short. Keep your lips closed, and press into him just a little bit.
Kissing well takes a lot of practise. You can tell him just that. See if he'd be willing to practise with you.
2007-01-05 15:19:05 · answer #1 · answered by Anastasia 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My best advice would be to not rush it. My first kiss was right after I got an engagement ring. My husband of one year is the only man I have ever kissed and it is AMAZING. It is definitley not something many people do, but I can tell you from experience, and from talking with my other friends who have kissed many boys, that it is TOTALLY worth it. However, since most will not take this route, I suggest at least not rushing it with this boy. It sounds really great that you didn't because his friends were being annoying. However, do not think that your first kiss will be absolutley amazing. Many people (and movies) make it as if first kiss (and first time having sex) are practically perfect and magical. While my first kiss (and first time having sex on my honeymoon) were WONDERFUL, they were not perfect, and they have gotten better EVERY single day. Both of those things are beautiful when done with the right person and in a relationship with a marriage commitment. Just have low expectations of your first kiss, no matter when it happens. It won't be life changing, but it probably (hopefully) won't be bad either. Just wait for the right time, relax, and enjoy spending time with your boyfriend and getting to know him. Once things get physical the level of physicalness only escalates and the relationship tends to revolve around it. Embrace this time with your boyfriend: enjoy his personality, allow him to enjoy yours. Do things together, have fun, laugh, and TALK. You'd be surprised how much conversation ceases when kissing (and beyond) become the purpose of relationships. Relationships are meant to prepare you for marriage, and people do not divorce because of lack of kissing experience. But they do divorce due to lack of communication experience and effectiveness. Use this dating time to improve upon those skills. I promise you it will be well worth it.
Good luck sweetie <3
2007-01-05 23:12:13 · answer #2 · answered by A123456789 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Don't plan the moment. Just let it happen naturally. If you have too many thoughts in your head and try to make it work, you'll probably just end up being too nervous. Just relax. Go with the flow. Have fun. :-)
2007-01-05 23:04:42 · answer #3 · answered by Me 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i was really worried about my first kiss too, but let me tell you something i think will help you de-stress a little... for me, kissing that first time turned out to be just like breathing... nobody teaches a baby to breath, they just KNOW.... i think the same will happen to you.. so don't worry, cuz if you really like him it will just come out naturally... good luck and enjoy! :)
2007-01-05 23:06:59 · answer #4 · answered by 215 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
How cute. For cryin' out loud! Just kiss, already!
2007-01-05 23:02:56 · answer #5 · answered by OU812 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Good breath and tasty lip gloss. Oh, and don't be too shy and too quick. Be passionate about it. But, uh, not TOO passionate, it might lead to sex.
2007-01-05 23:03:11 · answer #6 · answered by *~*RaChAel*~* 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Relax and be calm. Give it everything you got except saliva.
2007-01-06 00:02:54 · answer #7 · answered by narcisscus24 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u should kiss him like u never kissed anyone before
2007-01-05 23:02:41 · answer #8 · answered by shelbeywood 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
tasty lip gloss
2007-01-05 23:01:49 · answer #9 · answered by roxy j 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yep there is: enjoy it and don't worry about it, it only comes once in a lifetime
2007-01-05 23:02:57 · answer #10 · answered by Lone Hunter 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋