do marry lady have many problem
2007-01-05 15:03:36 · 13 answers · asked by kadora 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Buying Bud Lite is more important.
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2007-01-05 15:04:43 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
The problem is that too many women pick men for the wrong reasons - the promises, the excitement, the looks, the sex, etc - and they "know" he will not be a responsible father and husband but he is theirs and what if they don't score again with such a stud. If we could ask any woman who is about to marry if she has any question about whether or not this man will support his children if they divorce and be totally honest, I believe they could pinpoint it. But, the spectre of the wedding and all the romance is so overwhelming that women marry these bad men KNOWING how it is going to be. I am absolutely convinced that the women who marry these men hope against hope that she can change him or that he will be an exception. And all you ladies out there know that is the way it was.
A good man with morals, ethics and decency in his upbringing will follow through unless drugs, booze, extramarital sex, temper w/ abuse, etc. come into his life then he will revert to what he would have been had he not had a decent upbringing.
2007-01-05 23:17:18 · answer #2 · answered by ALWAYS GOTTA KNOW 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Here are the real numbers Moms are more likely to be dead beats than dads.
"Census figures show only 57 percent of moms required to pay child support -- 385,000 women out of a total of 674,000 -- give up some or all of the money they owe. That leaves some 289,000 "deadbeat" mothers out there, a fact that has barely been reported in the media.
That compares with 68 percent of dads who pay up, according to the figures."
-source US Census
2007-01-05 23:51:05 · answer #3 · answered by hogie0101 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because we live in a culture of death and men think that the woman should have just murdered their child and then he wouldn't have to be working to pay for it.
MARRIAGE is supposed to come BEFORE sex and BEFORE children, you can't have your cake and eat it too, sweetheart.
All he wanted was sex in the first place with no responsibilities or consequences and that is what today's modern woman has given him. Welcome to America!!
2007-01-05 23:06:20 · answer #4 · answered by Last Ent Wife (RCIA) 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i do but there are many lazy slobs who think their kids come last they should lose their rights to the kids and be thrown in jail
2007-01-05 23:07:53 · answer #5 · answered by merlin2000666 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most men aren't ready for responsibility.
2007-01-05 23:06:19 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't label all men, because of your experience. I'm am damn good dad and my father was as well
2007-01-06 13:27:40 · answer #7 · answered by t t 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because they arent MEN sweetie- they havent matured yet they are still BOYS.
2007-01-05 23:08:06 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
my ex is a dead beat dad owes over $80,000 in back childsupport and could careless about our children...he is selfish and only thinks about himself_
2007-01-05 23:06:29 · answer #9 · answered by Chickybabe 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do woman have kids with man who is loser?
2007-01-05 23:14:00 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋