Family & Relationships - 5 January 2007

Over the holodays I was takeing a shower my sis came into the bathroom I thought to get some tampon or some s**t but no she jumped into shower with me. We only have one bathroom and we were runnign late, She was like "we gotta hurry, this will save time". And never said anthing more about it. I don't think mom and dad knew but I'm not sure, I havn't brought it up. We are in our 20s. Is this weird or bad?

2007-01-05 15:38:36 · 14 answers · asked by Naythen 1 in Family

2007-01-05 15:38:09 · 16 answers · asked by dopepink 1 in Singles & Dating

I was married for 14 years to my first love and we were together for a total of 20 years. Last year he divorced me. He and I both were first loves and I never doubted his love for me. He just married this awful looking woman with a horrible personality and she is very controlling. Should I just give up and move on or do you think he still loves me. Our marriage ended over major money problems. He absolutely adored me when we were married. I never dreamed this would happened. Please give me your opinion.

2007-01-05 15:37:44 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

So do i dump my friend because some other friends think I should or should i disregard what they say and just tell my friend that we need to be nicer.

2007-01-05 15:37:40 · 7 answers · asked by dancer24_7 1 in Friends

My relationship started out with lies. He would never invite me to his house although he said that he lived alone. He claimed that his home was too dirty. About a month after we started dating, I received a phone call from his live in girlfriend. I confronted him about it and he confessed to living with her but not being happy. He told me that she uses drugs and alcohol and because he is a recovering alcoholic/addict, the relationship was very unhealthy for him to be in. I had empathy for him, and allowed him to move in with me only because I had recently been in a similar situation. I too am a recovering addict and my x boyfriend was using drugs. Once he moved in, all was good for a while until one day he lost his temper when I accidently cut his fingernail too close. It scared me. Now, noticing all the little things, I notice that he is very lazy. He won't water the grass, he can't wash clothes, and he won't help out around the house. What should I do?

2007-01-05 15:36:55 · 16 answers · asked by Asknushallreceive 1 in Singles & Dating

intercourse but doesnt go all the way? Especially if the man expresess no interest in her for almost two months and finally something started again but he lost interest and woman didn't get what she needed...basically can women get sick or sick feeling if they crave sex and when they're making out and feel like they'll be going all the way just to get pushed at the last minute...its a terrible feeling, anyone have this happen to you>?
this woman is healthy and nothing wrong w/her stomach or anything of why she might feel nauseaus or not ok.
what can she do to get over it :(
she feels like she cant go on anymore sleeping with him, its driving her crazy b/c she loves the man and wants to make love to him but he won't do it anymore...and she tried to talk w/him but he doesnt provide any helpful explanation.

2007-01-05 15:36:51 · 6 answers · asked by ccmarket1 1 in Marriage & Divorce

As mentioned, only semi-unrequited, it's the classic story, boy meets girl, boy falls for girl and girl falls for boy, boy and girl date, boy and girl stop dating and become friends for no apparent reason, boy continues to like girl for 4 years, during which boy and girl ocasionally fool around (i.e. oral sex), girl rarely tells boy she still loves him, usually when drunk, also during this period both boy and girl have other relationships, boy always feels more drawn to girl than his current significant other.

After this period of time of being in love with girl boy decides to either give it a definite shot with girl or, if that isn't an option give it up. Around this time girl gets EXTREMELY busy with work, school, and other things that boy generally accepts as higher priority than him such that even seeing her to ask her out becomes an issue, let alone dating her.

Boy then gets frustrated and goes to yahoo answers.

Now, what should I do?

2007-01-05 15:36:28 · 6 answers · asked by ‫‬‭‮‪‫‬‭‮yelxeH 5 in Singles & Dating

My friend and I were sitting at the bar in a restaurant tonight and one of the cooks kept staring at me. Then, when we were leaving, he went outside near the back door to the kitchen and waved. If he was interested, why didnt he just ask for my number instead of staring all night? I so would have given him my number but I am not about to chase a guy ever again.

2007-01-05 15:35:34 · 18 answers · asked by Kelly 2 in Singles & Dating

Rejection and how do i get over it, i still cry alone?
i had this crush since we were elementary, until highschool until 2nd year college, i dont see him everyday, but he left special memories and i took it as a sign that he likes me too, but i was so wrong, i wrote and told him what i felt inside, he did not reply or anything, i was just so devastated by it
i ended up thinking i made it up
he told me loved me, but men do that
it was all a joke to him
but all i felt was real
im still crying whenever i remember it,
i dont like him anymore , its just that it cut my heart
what could i do to get back on track
i seem to have lost interest in relationships because of him

2007-01-05 15:35:24 · 4 answers · asked by haringmarumo 6 in Singles & Dating

i want my Mr. Right:
romantic
gentle
sweet
knows how to dress
has a good job
has a car
has a good personality
funny (makes me laugh most of the time)

2007-01-05 15:35:08 · 16 answers · asked by alycat 2 in Singles & Dating

changed your mind. I sent my ex a letter yesterday telling him that and it's not that I dont but I started to think about all the stupid **** he did and I just dont want to go there with him. I mailed the letter yesterday so basically I cant get it back. What to do???

2007-01-05 15:35:00 · 14 answers · asked by *sexy mocha* 4 in Singles & Dating

that hurt you so bad and didnt beleive you that you loved her

2007-01-05 15:33:17 · 40 answers · asked by paco 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-05 15:33:14 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

He has been so honest and genuine, and we are like two peas in a pod.

2007-01-05 15:33:14 · 23 answers · asked by eyesgreensparkle 1 in Singles & Dating

If anyone says they want an honest, good, true man. If anyones say's they go by personality (above looks), someone who makes them laugh, their other half. Its all crud. Women can't handle the genuwine alticle when theysee it!

2007-01-05 15:33:12 · 24 answers · asked by andiroo_98 2 in Singles & Dating

If anyone says they want an honest, good, true man. If anyones say's they go by personality (above looks), someone who makes them laugh, their other half. Its all crud. Women can't handle the genuwine alticle when theysee it!

2007-01-05 15:32:54 · 3 answers · asked by andiroo_98 2 in Singles & Dating

tell me girls what goes on in your head

2007-01-05 15:32:13 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My husband is currently deployed, before he left we did a "Photo shoot" so he would have plenty of pictures to look at. Now that he has actually landed over there he has told me that he has been watching and getting off on porn... It really hurts me! I am 18 weeks pregnant and I have already been having the worst night-mares about him returning and not being sexually attracted to me, and being addicted to porn. He says that he does not do it that much and its just relieving, but it really does hurt. I dont want to ask him to quit masterbating because I honostly dont believe thats fair, but I dont want him to watch porn any more. I am unsure how to confront him. And then if I do how can I be sure he will continue to be honost with me? Take into consideration that I am pregnant and these hormones are FLYING, and horrible thoughts and dreams keep running through my head. Am I wrong for thinking and feeling this way?

2007-01-05 15:31:34 · 21 answers · asked by WeiNKauF 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I have been dating this guy for 3 years. We broke up for a period about a year ago because of drinking and drug use. He stopped doing drugs and drinking excessively and promised that he would not do this anymore. After telling me not to be scared and to give him another chance I decided to go back out with him. Now it is 1 year later and he has gotten drunk twice and stoned once. Each time he has tried to hide it from me by lying. He told me the other day the truth about the drugs which I appreciated but I had to trick him into confessing. I am not a 'spring chicken' and I would like to meet someone who I can trust and rely on. Can I trust this person? What does the general public think?

2007-01-05 15:31:10 · 10 answers · asked by tucker1971 1 in Singles & Dating

He lives in next room in flat with new GF who works as a flight attendant gone for 3-4 days then back for 3-4 days. I have asked her not to go to or call/email/ otherwise bother him for almost anything that comes up she persists saying I cannot imagine my life with out him. He does not care and told me she is now my responsibility and girl now and can care less if she contacts him she keeps mentioning him all the time and taking any remote chance to insist upon contact. I have said she must now choose between contacting him or being with me. Is this controlling? Does this make me a control freek? please respond soon.

2007-01-05 15:31:09 · 17 answers · asked by firewooddelivered 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

okay i am going out with this AMASING girl for 2 months now. we make out everytime we see each other. we r deeply in love with each other. but wut r the sighns of her wanting 2 have sex? please help!

2007-01-05 15:31:02 · 11 answers · asked by jOe RuLeS!!! 2 in Singles & Dating

In the movie "Waist Deep" The woman seduces the man into having sex, even though he is sick with worry over his kidnapped son.

How would you feel if a woman seduces your mind away from your kidnapped son? Would you allow a woman to do that?

2007-01-05 15:31:01 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

what do you girls whant a guy to tell you besides your name(not your BF) #1,2,3,4

1.Cutie
2.Sweetie
3.Sexy
4.Girl

If Nether tell me one

2007-01-05 15:30:19 · 9 answers · asked by DAMER 2 in Singles & Dating

I am a 24-year-old who has been single for almost two years. I have only been on one date in that time and it didn't progress because I wasn't interested in the guy. I am a pretty, intelligent, nice person with good friends and a wonderful family. I'm a graduate student and a hard worker. You'd think I'd be okay.

Thing is, I tend to be shy around guys. I hate flirting - it makes me uncomfortable. I feel like an idiot doing it. I will never meet someone in a bar - it's not my scene. I don't want to meet someone who just wants sex, either. I want someone who truly cares about me. But I am out of ways to meet people. There is no one at school. All my friends are dating, so we don't go out to "meet guys". Instead, I end up home on weekend nights while they go out with their men.

I've been told I'm picky, but if I'm not interested in someone, I'm not interested in them - I'm not going to force it.

I'm beginning to think I'll be single forever.

Advice?

2007-01-05 15:30:06 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Well me and my boyfriend have been going out for 6 months so far and we are totally in love. No sex or anything. But Im just 14 going to be 15 next month and my dad said i cant date till 16 due to pass incidents with phonecalls from boys. I totally understand that but what am I to do now that me and my boyfriend are head over heals for each other? Im scared that my dad wont except it. What should i do, should i tell him or what. I really need help because that would actually make our relationship even better.

2007-01-05 15:29:01 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

use their kids to make themselves feel good like make their kids angry and then go and say my kid has add adhd or some bs like that there is no such thing as add adhd or w/e its parents that dont know how to be parents and shouldnt have kids, its also the other family members they treat me like crap still i am 24 and they still treat me like a piece of dirt. no wonder i havent got a g/f yet my subconcience is telling me that poeple are always going to treat me like my family have. id just llike to know how many other poeple have their parents, and other family members do this to them.

2007-01-05 15:28:17 · 11 answers · asked by luckydo6 3 in Family

My boyfriend likes me (ofcourse), but is not very emotional and does not let out his feelings at all really. He is very nice and respectful but how do I get him to open up? Or how do I get him to develop better, or rather, STRONGER feelings for me. Sure, he does like me. He's a genuine guy. But I am really starting to like him. I feel like I say the wrong things to him - especially lately. (ie myself being a tad nervous).

So basically, my question is how do I get him to open up more? I don't want him to get bored with me. I want to be the lady in his life that he brags about to his friends. I want him to like me so much. He does like me. But I would like some help to develop that.


Thankyou in advance!

also note, we are not very intimate - at all actually - he is a little shy. Perhaps when we get more intimate, he'll develop stronger feelings?

2007-01-05 15:28:15 · 3 answers · asked by ashley r 1 in Singles & Dating

I'm 25 and he's 48.I'm thinking to give it a try.

2007-01-05 15:28:10 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Im having a lot of trouble picking bridesmaids dresses. I have 3, one is about a size 10, and 2 a 12. The problem is with the 2 size 12's. One is large breasted and self conscious about it, the other is small breasted and she too is self conscious. Both are self conscious about there waists and backsides. Any ideas how i can accomadate both of them?

2007-01-05 15:28:00 · 28 answers · asked by itsokitsonlyme 2 in Weddings

Hey y'all. I'm feeling depressed and am looking for sympathy or a slap in the face, either will do.
I'm in highschool, and was talking about University with my boyfriend, and realized that he's probably off to a University in the US. I'm more likely to stay here. (Not the US)

We're exceptionally close, but... I have a feeling that we won't last the ten years while both of us get our degrees.

I don't understand why I cry everytime I think of the end of G12. It's also exponentially worse now that I'm looking at universities myself.

What do you think the chances are that a relationship will last that long with little to no /real/ seeing each other?

Note: He's shy, the basic nerd and kind of reclusive, also incredibly loyal.

2007-01-05 15:27:38 · 15 answers · asked by Lisa M 1 in Singles & Dating