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Well me and my boyfriend have been going out for 6 months so far and we are totally in love. No sex or anything. But Im just 14 going to be 15 next month and my dad said i cant date till 16 due to pass incidents with phonecalls from boys. I totally understand that but what am I to do now that me and my boyfriend are head over heals for each other? Im scared that my dad wont except it. What should i do, should i tell him or what. I really need help because that would actually make our relationship even better.

2007-01-05 15:29:01 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

10 answers

Sit down and talk to him.

2007-01-05 15:32:12 · answer #1 · answered by zen522 7 · 1 1

I think your dad is afraid that his little girl will get hurt. When you get older and have children, you will understand the intense need to protect your kids. It's like an instinct! If you want your dad to cut you some slack and be more understanding, you have to show him that you are mature enough to handle a relationship as serious as the one you're describing. Simple things like helping out around the house without being asked, helping your younger siblings instead of picking on them, always making it home by curfew, etc. will do a world of good as far as making your dad see that you're growing up and can handle a little more freedom. By all means, do not holler and scream if you don't get your way, and think before you speak at all times. Even if your dad won't budge at first, if you continually prove to him that you can be trusted, he will come through in the end. If this is the right boy for you, and you are meant to be, everything will work out.

2007-01-05 15:44:03 · answer #2 · answered by Angelia 2 · 2 1

I don't understand why you won't ask your DAD(adult) for advice instead of a stranger(adult). Children usually trust their own Dad before anyone else. He limits you on dating only because he loves you more than anything else in the world. So for now, just make your Dad happy and be friends with that guy ( I hope he's also under age). I know you won't believe me now, but what you have with this guy is not "being in love". At your age people call that "infatuation". Please listen to your Dad is my best advice.

2007-01-05 15:45:56 · answer #3 · answered by pn3drb 2 · 0 1

Sit down and talk with your dad. Tell him about your boyfriend. It's NEVER good to lie to your parents about anything...I tell my kids, I probably will be mad if you tell me but will be furious if I find out any other way.
I think it's a good idea to have your dad meet your boyfriend. As long as your boyfriend is an honest, respectable boy then you have nothing to worry about. You said nothing about a mom or other female in the house. Maybe you can talk with a female adult who can in turn talk to your dad (after you talk to him) if your dad does not want to accept him.
Good luck......I hope things work out for you.

2007-01-05 15:42:52 · answer #4 · answered by pamomof4 5 · 0 1

Well, you have to respect your father's wishes. And if you say that you're head over heels to your dad. He's going to say "it's just puppy love, now do as your told". So you pretty much have to wait until you're 16. He's not going to change his mind. If your boyfriend can date you for 6 months, he can wait another year or so. Or you could always secretly continue dating him, and tell him when you are 16. But, you just have to make sure that's what you want. 'Cause if your dad finds out, he'll be quite upset with you.

2007-01-05 15:36:39 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0 3

i am turning 14. my parents allow dating but just no making out ( but me and my gf do it anyway everytime we see each other ) just sit down with ur father, and talk to him. BE HONEST if u r honest to ur father and tell him the truth, than he wont get as mad. depends on what type of father he is. just be truthful to ur dad! Good Luck!

2007-01-05 15:35:00 · answer #6 · answered by jOe RuLeS!!! 2 · 1 0

You need to respect your father's rules. If you really love each other, then you can wait until you're 16. True love will last, but infatuation won't!

2007-01-05 15:32:25 · answer #7 · answered by grandm 6 · 0 1

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2016-10-06 12:33:22 · answer #8 · answered by ? 4 · 0 0

Do not tell your father not yet any ways.Try to hide him as long as you can.The closer you are to 16 the easyer it will be for your father to except.If he does find out you been dating this guy tell him he is your friend and you don't like him like that. Add that he likes your girlfriend and you are giving him advise about your girlfriend that's why the two of you talk so much.

2007-01-05 15:46:31 · answer #9 · answered by Teenie 7 · 0 3

Maybe he will let you invite your BF over to watch TV, watch movies and play boardgmes. That way he can get to know him and you will be supervised.

He is trying to protect you. You will understand when you have kids of your own.

2007-01-05 15:33:41 · answer #10 · answered by amoss311 3 · 0 1

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