rejection ,,,and how do i get over it,,i still feel helpless?

Question

Rejection and how do i get over it, i still cry alone?
i had this crush since we were elementary, until highschool until 2nd year college, i dont see him everyday, but he left special memories and i took it as a sign that he likes me too, but i was so wrong, i wrote and told him what i felt inside, he did not reply or anything, i was just so devastated by it
i ended up thinking i made it up
he told me loved me, but men do that
it was all a joke to him
but all i felt was real
im still crying whenever i remember it,
i dont like him anymore , its just that it cut my heart
what could i do to get back on track
i seem to have lost interest in relationships because of him

Answer 1

Sounds like your first love, which can be hard to get over. After some time passes you will meet new people and probably realize that that person was not as ideal as you once thought they were. And some people you meet will probably have good qualities that your old love didnt have... Just give it some time.

Answer 2

I understand what you are going through. It's really hard when you really love someone. Just keep the memories for yourself and don't try to contact him again. You probably need more time. My ex screwed my mind up by a few times acting like she didn't want to be with me then she did then she didn't etc. I finally got sick of it and told her forget it. It still hurts alot but I know it was for the best for both of us. It's hard for me too sometimes but I know I will meet someone who really wants to be with me and knows what they want.

Answer 3

Thats hard. But the only way you CAN get over this is by realizing how wonderful you are. You have to, HAVE TO love yourself!

Answer 4

Meh, the guy strategy is to become a complete asshole. Maybe that'll help.