ive been dating him for 2 years.. but sometimes he can be so bright and intelligent.. and sometimes he needs some growing up to do.. how can i help him & offer some constructive criticism..
2007-01-05 15:03:12 · 8 answers · asked by lelenguyen05 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well all men are immature children. they never grow up. but just tell him how you feel be honest. just tell him it's pissing you off. and you need him to change. believe me not talking about things that bother you in a relationship makes it worse even if it's something like this.
2007-01-05 15:34:46 · answer #1 · answered by model_for_christ 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no matter how old the guy is they all have a nine year old inside waiting 2 come out at any moment. but when a guy acts like that i just give them a look that says "MY bf doesn't act like that" or ur such a child, UGHH" . or a simple glare or stink eye works just as well. even the most cluless guys get the picture(most of the time).
2007-01-05 15:14:12 · answer #2 · answered by brunette babe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think of he's afraid that his dad has a woman pal, and he's not particular anymore. he knows he has a affliction, and at age 5, he in all probability thinks he's not particular like another young toddlers and perhaps his very own father might attempt to interchange him. i don't think of he's spoiled, yet would not experience substantial. My eldest cousin (who's very common and puzzling) has upload, the oldest of 5 siblings... whilst he is going to treatment, he cries relating to the lack of ability of the attention as a infant his dad and mom gave him...even however they did lots. (he's eighteen) appropriate is to declare how substantial he's to u and to you're boyfriend. not basically, his affliction makes him experience not particular, yet at age 5, it is totally considered needed to nicely known that they are enjoyed. My brother and that i are 4 a million/2 years aside and my brother wasn't helpful that our dad and mom enjoyed him whilst my mom first have been given pregnant w/ me. whilst u are pondering foster care, u might desire to look ahead to some years whilst Julian attends college with different boys and ladies to relish different indiviuals. i'm hoping the wonderful for u, your boyfriend, and little Julian.
2016-10-30 03:17:14 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
my boyfriend is like that the best thing to go is act just how he is then when he tells you are actin like a kid tell him he acts the same way or just leave it alone and hope he grows out of it or you grow out the relationship
2007-01-05 15:08:48 · answer #4 · answered by J' Taime 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he needs some maturing to do. Just dont tell him striaght out that he is immature cause that is a huge dis. Tell him to be serious and not joke around like that.
2007-01-05 15:06:03 · answer #5 · answered by Pablo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can never "help" anyone to change. Change comes from within ourselves, and no one can change us, but ourselves.
If his habits really bother you, I suggest you decide whether you can live with them for the rest of your life. He won't change, but you may very well change enough that you are no longer able to tolerate his little peccadilloes.
2007-01-05 15:08:48 · answer #6 · answered by Anastasia 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry no advise my B-friend is the same way
2007-01-05 15:05:14 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it sounds like a normal situation to me. i think he just needs to pick better times to play around and use better content. that's what keeps things interesting. lighten up... sheesh
2007-01-05 15:09:40 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋