I really appreciate all the advice and answer in my previous post.
I did try a few time to break up with her but, she won't let me.
I already told her that I am lost interest in her. But, she still insist to continue.
After the above conversation, she will give way to me for a few times. Then, the whole story repeat agian.
I don't know how to tell her off in a very nice way.
Please give me your advice.
2007-01-05 15:04:43 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You can't tell her off in a nice way, you are going to have to be nasty.
If you want to be unhappy for the rest of your life, you'll have to leave her. If you have to move to another state in the middle of the night, you're a man and you have to do what's right to you.
2007-01-05 15:08:51 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I hate to say this, but some people doesn't seem to get it through their head.
For some, the only way to get rid of someone is by being an asshole and telling the person off. If you keep trying to be nice about it, she won't take it seriously.
You've tried to be nice many times, and nothing has happened, right?? Then make a 180 degree turn and be a jerk.
Unfortunately, that's the way to go sometimes
2007-01-05 23:09:20 · answer #2 · answered by joelopr20 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It doesn't matter if she refuses. She has to accept that it's over. It's her problem and not yours. It would be a complete joke to continue in a relationship without any real feelings for your partner. And she deserves someone who does truly care for her.
Be gentle but firm and tell her there is no way you are changing your mind. If you really can't get your point across, just break all ties with her. Avoid her. She'll end up getting the hint that it's over.
2007-01-05 23:11:01 · answer #3 · answered by Me 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just let her know that you have lost interest in her and that the only way a relationship can work is if two people are interested in each other. It may be hard for her, but those are her feelings. She will get over it over time. There really isn't any other way to tell her.
2007-01-05 23:07:28 · answer #4 · answered by *~*RaChAel*~* 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I know its not easy to say no..But that is the reality. pleas tell her the reason why you want to break up. It would be good tell her very softly lovingly.. dont show ur anger.. And be striaght.Tell her i dont want u to fool u . Im not interested in u. May be tell the reason why u want 2 break up..She needs to know.. becoz u were in relationship if im not wrong..But think about it take some advice of elders it would be good.. and make a wise decision.Do the best..
2007-01-05 23:16:39 · answer #5 · answered by deva 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes there is no easy way to tell a person that it is over.Just be honest about your feelings towards her. Do not prolong it. Get it done before it gets worse.If it gets worse you might have to take legal action. Restraining order. Sounds like a possible stalker in the making.
2007-01-05 23:17:00 · answer #6 · answered by Mary C 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi there find another girl maybe she see that and leave u alone if u do not want to date just explain to a Friend ( girl ) to do u a favor and make believe shes your girlfriend. just to get the other girl off your back . if u do not want to do this then tell the lady hey take a hike and leave me a alone if u see it does not work then it's time to go to court she might be stalking you. hey u already told her in a nice way tell her your for real your not kidding to leave u alone be careful always watch your back kittens like to scratch. god bless
2007-01-05 23:13:49 · answer #7 · answered by sugarlove_one 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I don't think there really is a nice way to say it. You should tell her firmly that this obviously isn't working out, but don't be a total jerk. She obviously cared about you, so maybe you could throw in an apology somewhere.
Sorry if that seemed rude, but that's my opinion.
2007-01-05 23:08:04 · answer #8 · answered by Cassie 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Someone can't just not let you break up with them. If you're really unhappy tell her that you're sorry, but it's over. Period. You need to be direct with her, because she's obviously not getting it the way you're putting it.
2007-01-05 23:08:50 · answer #9 · answered by ? 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
maybe the reason for you failed relationship with her MIGHT be your own doing - have you thought of that????
try to be a bit more sensitive to her feeling - listen to her and try to logically reason things out - trust me - it works and try to find the reasons why you fell in love with her in the 1st place. surely she must have been more than just a pretty face!
if with all that - your heart does not warm up to her - that i think - she deserves someone who REALLY cares for her and is patient enough so sort out her issues - so you will be doing her a favour by leaving her. you both deserve it!
2007-01-05 23:22:41 · answer #10 · answered by sowhatlk 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋