There is a girl that I have been interested in for quite a while, we have been friends for a long time even though we don't hang out on a regular basis. I decided that I was going to get the courage to ask her out. I called her a few times and talked to her on AIM for three hours one night. I felt that we were beginning to get connected so I asked her if she would like to get dinner some time, or go to a movie. Being in highschool I done so on the way to class. She responded apathetically with a "I guess" and passed me into her classroom never looking at me the whole time, giving me the cold shoulder basically. I was not confident when I done it and was very hesitant at first. Have a blown my chance?
2007-01-05 14:58:05 · 19 answers · asked by Feanor 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
no---
gee this sounds like one of my friends...
omfg....
no an I guess... is pretty good
lol--- just ask again--- with more details...
2007-01-05 15:00:06 · answer #1 · answered by The greatest and the best. 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Give her some space. Don't try to be too over friendly with her just yet. Let the fact that you asked her out sink in. It seems that she was not too overly happy with you asking her out sorry. But if she can't see what a great guy you are and jump at the chance to get to know you in a romantic way, then she may not be the one you need to ask out. You may have blown your chance or you may not have. Only time will tell. But until then just lay low and don't be overly friendly. When you see her just say a quick hello - at least until she comes to you to talk about you asking her out.
2007-01-05 23:03:43 · answer #2 · answered by fancyface1 l 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Doesn't sound like you have done anything. Maybe she views you as a friend only and doesn't want to or isn't confident about crossing over into something more. Best thing to do is ask her if she would like to go on a date with you. In person. Gauge her reaction, if it is slow to come or she seems 'not really interested' chalk it up to a learning experience and just remain friends. Then again, she could just have other things going on right now.
Hope this helps
2007-01-05 23:01:53 · answer #3 · answered by betterthanhers 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry to say this, but it looks like she is not really interested in you, and it's her loss, because you sound like a nice guy. You may try again in a little while, say that there's this movie that you would like to see, if she might join you? If she doesn't bite. move on. plenty of girls would love the chance to go out with you.
2007-01-05 23:01:43 · answer #4 · answered by artist-oranit.com. 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
honestly, this is a tricky situation. if she talks to you on AIM and the phone, then obviously she doesnt mind your friendship/company. in real life though, she might be too shy or insecure or just feels weird about it when you asked her, girs can act one way one time and we change our minds and may seem like we dont like you. she may have been shocked that you asked her, and just felt too shy and scared about it....if she is a good match for you she will come along, otherwise dont waste your time, continue to be her friend but keep your eyes open for another sweet girl. good luck.
2007-01-05 23:03:59 · answer #5 · answered by ultra _ girl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, i don't think that you have blown it. Do a followup (call her) and let her know that you are still interested in going to the movies and say how about this weekend.
2007-01-05 23:03:04 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
its not that youve blown it, it just seems that she is only interested in you as a friend. i dont mean to sound rude, its just what it sounds like. if thats not the case, it is very possible that she is nervouse or scared or afraid. good luck hun. hope everything works out.
2007-01-05 23:00:55 · answer #7 · answered by jenay4867 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no, probably not.
ask her again, and don't hesitate. You like her-than ago.
but don't walk around her all the time- that's annoying for her.
Be a good friend, that'll help you to see a guy in you.
good luck
2007-01-05 23:03:13 · answer #8 · answered by Sweet_summer_breeze 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You blew your chance. Give up. All is lost.
Why don't you actually just talk to her about what's on your mind? You would be amazed at what communication can accomplish.
2007-01-05 23:00:52 · answer #9 · answered by OU812 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No she was probably just as scared and confused as you were... don't worry fail fast forward.. that means screw up enought times and you'll get to your destination quick enough!
sweet of you to ask her out though!
2007-01-05 23:00:33 · answer #10 · answered by jmilil 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
U maybe have a chance but the chance on her decision.
2007-01-05 23:04:11 · answer #11 · answered by Alex 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋