Family & Relationships - 5 January 2007

attach. the last 30% he lived a long time until yesterday. Now he is gone. I keep telling me to call my dad and realize that he is no longer there. It is sooo hard to except how would or did you deal with it?

2007-01-05 14:54:46 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I've been "seeing" a new man for a couple months now. He is very into his studies - as well as a lot of important previous commitments. He is making more time to spend with me which is great but sometimes I feel as if he doesn't REALLY want to hang out. He is very respectful and considerate - and very nice. But I believe he has never had a real girlfriend before (so busy). I talk to him a lot and sometimes I feel like I am talking to him too much and I feel like an idiot. Also, he is very nervous to be intimate with me. That is something that will take time but how do I create more interest from him??? He tries but I want him to feel like he needs to see me because he really really wants to. Maybe we are doing the same old boring thing..going to dinner too much? Running out of things to say. But most of the time, we have a good time :) I miss him. I just want to be closer?
Also, should I refrain from speaking to him so much or will that lead him to think I'm no longer interested?

2007-01-05 14:52:58 · 13 answers · asked by ashley r 1 in Singles & Dating

My husband was in Afghanistan for Christmas & asked that I get his mother a nice gift from L'Occitane. I LOVE the store! It's an amazing (and expensive) boutique carrying THE BEST body products. My husband bought my mother a L'Occitane gift a year ago and she STILL can't stop talking about how much she loved it. She, like myself, has been addicted since.

(visit usa.loccitane.com)

I know my mother-in-law loves shea butter so I got her a body lotion, a hand & a foot cream, and a bar of honey soap. (about $70 total). I gave it to her on Christmas eve. She didn't call me for Christmas but that's another issue. It's 11 days after Christmas & I was wondering why she hadn't said anything about it. She had my car for a while & just gave it back. She came by today to get her things out of my trunk. I looked in the trunk and realized the gift was thrown in there UNOPENED & UNTOUCHED. It was still in the bag! I'm offended and just want to keep it for myself. How would you feel and react?

2007-01-05 14:52:44 · 17 answers · asked by Aniyah 2 in Marriage & Divorce

My ex-boyfriend was nice to me, but a little too possesive. He did somethings for me when we were together. But his problem was he hold secrets like ice.(Always got to let someone else hold it.) I found out that he told my brother my secret so I had to let him go. Now he wants me back and will do anything to get me back. What should I do?

2007-01-05 14:52:43 · 8 answers · asked by J' Taime 1 in Singles & Dating

Okay. I have a crush on this guy who is a year older than me. But he is my soon to be step brother's friends brother. What should I do. He is really cute.
Thanxs,
binkytheboo <3

2007-01-05 14:52:20 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

email me at bebba4life@yahoo.com

2007-01-05 14:51:47 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ok so i like these 2 girls 1 is goth and the other is a complet girly girl who do i pick most of my friends say go for the goth girl what do i do? plz help

2007-01-05 14:51:38 · 16 answers · asked by plztakemylife 1 in Singles & Dating

My friend told me she wish she could have a boyfriend like me, so would that mean she wants or thought about being with me?

2007-01-05 14:51:26 · 17 answers · asked by Dollar_Menu 1 in Singles & Dating

I want to send a text msg to this guy that I've had sex with twice before......what would be a good one? I want it to be very sexy and suggestive, but not skanky...and I want it to be something he can't turn down:

My own suggestion:

Wanna know what I can do with a silk scarf and a strand of pearls?

What do you think?

2007-01-05 14:51:24 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

So my mom past away, what does my dad call her family (their not really that close) when he has a new girlfriend?
And my boyfriend too. He had a wife that died, what does he call her family. Its sorta wierd that he calls them in-laws still right?

2007-01-05 14:51:10 · 5 answers · asked by frankenstien 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I'm in second marriage. My wife and I have a 20-month boy together. I also have a 5yrs old daughter from previous marriage. she lives with my ex and thousand miles away from me. We see each other two or three times a year and call each other once a week. Even like that, I can tell my wife is still not happy about pretty much what I did for my daughter including the weekly phone call. We argue a lot about this. She said I did maximum I can do. I don't agree. Am I doing too much for my daughter and not fair to my wife and our son or married a wrong person?

2007-01-05 14:51:05 · 12 answers · asked by fanleeprc888 2 in Marriage & Divorce

My friends are usally good people never get into fights never cheat on there girls but theres one thing that bothers me soooooo bad, to tell you the truth I'm not friends with them anyomre for this. They like to say things about people that there not really shere of. For example about 2 days ago one of my friends was talking to my girlfriend over the phone and he was saying things about me that I never did and that I wounld never do in my life. How can I help my ex friends understaind that they can say one thing about someone that isn't true and that one thing could make their life a living hell????? HELP HELP HELP!!!!!! PLEASE

2007-01-05 14:51:02 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2007-01-05 14:50:37 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-01-05 14:50:36 · 5 answers · asked by Matt 1 in Singles & Dating

can someone help me please and tell me how can i tell my neighbor to get lost?
i have been rude to her , telling her i am busy , and leave her alone in the family room and go to chat on line or call someone on the phone.
telling her that my hubby does not like to have people over when he is home ! and still she is not getting the hell out . we stopped opening the door to her, and she keep calling me, i changed my cell phone number cuz of her .
i do not want to change the home as it is too much to call so many people and so many doctors and hospitals and you know the drill ,
but please help me how can i get rid of her?

2007-01-05 14:49:54 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I am divorcing and have always wanted to move west but hubby was involved w/ family businesses so it could never be a consideration. My children and me have severe allergies so we would be happier and healthier living in Arizona. I can't afford to remain in the community where I currently reside. I would like to move and pursue a college degree. Hubby currently sees kids every other weekend and Weds. night for dinner. Would it require an enormous legal battle to get the okay from a judge? How should I strategize to make this happen? Likely, I have 1-2 years before the marital residence, where I currently reside, sells. Please give me ideas for a plan. Is there a standard for how typical custody arrangements are designed between parents living in diff.states? I would be game for having kids visit w/ their dad for holiday breaks and 1/2 of the summers...is this reasonable? Who pays for children's transpor.? I am a devoted mother.What R potential consequences?

2007-01-05 14:49:43 · 5 answers · asked by bob 2 in Marriage & Divorce

OK IM IN HIGH SCHOOL ND I RELE,RELE LIKE THIS DUDE, BUT IDK HOW TO TELL HIM. I THINK THE ONLY REASON IM SCAIRED TO TELL HIM B/C IM SCAIRED OF REJECTION. BUT I AM ALMOT SURE HE FEELS THE SAME WAY I DO. B/C HE ALWAYS COMES UP TO GIVE ME A HUGG. BUT IDK.. HOW DO U COME OUT AND SAY THAT TO SUM1? ND HOW DO U THINK HE WILL REACT?

2007-01-05 14:49:13 · 9 answers · asked by xobrightdivaox 1 in Singles & Dating

i met this guy a year ago.... i inmediately new he had a crush on me, but i just saw him as a friend. we started hanging out a lot, and eventualy we made out. that kinda made it an official dating, but i left like 3 days after cuz we had vacations and i was making a trip with my best friend to NY. on our last night i got really drunk and made out with a guy. i cried so much, and when i saw my guy afterwards he asked me "if i did something worng" and i didn't have the heart to tell him a lie. we didn't see each other much after that, but then we began an on again-off again dating... we have really busy schedules both, and i've made other long trips (i haven't done anything else, by the way)... after a while i figured this wasn't working out and told him so but he said he really likes me and wants to try. now his on a trip... what do you think will happen when he comes back? did i screw everything with what happened before? (ps. his ex cheated on him for a year..take a hint)

2007-01-05 14:49:11 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am Living Together with my Girlfreind for about 4 years.
Initially, I intend to settle down with her.
But, Our sex life is not really smooth lately.
She is not interested in Sex anymore.
As for me, I can't take the smell during intercourse.

Now, I am lost interest in her.
I just feel and find out that she is not my type and she is not the one that I want to settle down with.

If I marry her, I am afraid that we will divorce one day as we are frequently quarrel.
Our like and dislike are totally opposite too.

Please kindly give me an advice what to do and how to tell her.

Serious answer only please.

2007-01-05 14:49:00 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

please help me.

2007-01-05 14:48:18 · 51 answers · asked by elmophoobear 2 in Friends

For the past year I've been having lunch with a married man. I felt it was getting too serious (we never had sex). Long story short, I told him I didn't want to see him again until he settled things at home. That was almost two months ago. Although we stopped seeing each other we still keep in contact via email (We work for the same company). I am leaving the company soon and am wondering if I should tell him. If this man is ever single I would want him in my life but I am afraid that if I will continue to keep in contact I will lose control. I don't know what to do. I've kept my distance but still want him in my life, even as a friend, more if he is is ever available.

2007-01-05 14:48:17 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

help me choose??

2007-01-05 14:47:15 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2007-01-05 14:47:08 · 24 answers · asked by Taylor S 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-05 14:47:05 · 6 answers · asked by san 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

But here it is a crime and if someone over 18 is dating someone under 18 it is a crime - is this really fair as long as both sides consent.

2007-01-05 14:46:15 · 18 answers · asked by whitney 1 in Singles & Dating

im the best man in a wedding tommorrow and i cant come up with a speech(toast).im out of time and i want things to go well,please help me.by the way my sister is the bride.i need a speech now.

2007-01-05 14:46:11 · 12 answers · asked by brunettehairapy25 2 in Weddings

myself tell me what i should get for her birthday?
this girl i am dateing is 21 and im an idiot i bought her a teddy bear i dont even know she if likes bears she dose like 80s music and i was thinking about a cd or a book tell me i have only been on 2 dates with her

2007-01-05 14:44:52 · 38 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am 31 and got divorced 4 years ago. He is 42 and has been divorced for over 10 years. We have been living together for almost all the time we have been together. I am ready for marriage but, I don't know how to say it to him/ bring up the subject. He has said in the past that he is happy with the way things are but, he has also said he has been feeling a spiritual type pressure because we are not married. I am so confused on his thoughts. We have never really talked seriously about this. Please Help! Thanx in Advance!

2007-01-05 14:44:46 · 8 answers · asked by Birdy 1 in Marriage & Divorce

But the youngest child's father is abusive and I do not want to split the kids up or take them from their grandmother (my mother) who does not have custody, but does have guardianship.

2007-01-05 14:44:20 · 5 answers · asked by Karate Mom 1 in Marriage & Divorce

...In the winter I'm talkin (girls)

2007-01-05 14:43:29 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating