For the past year I've been having lunch with a married man. I felt it was getting too serious (we never had sex). Long story short, I told him I didn't want to see him again until he settled things at home. That was almost two months ago. Although we stopped seeing each other we still keep in contact via email (We work for the same company). I am leaving the company soon and am wondering if I should tell him. If this man is ever single I would want him in my life but I am afraid that if I will continue to keep in contact I will lose control. I don't know what to do. I've kept my distance but still want him in my life, even as a friend, more if he is is ever available.
2007-01-05 14:48:17 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
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2007-01-05 14:50:19 · answer #1 · answered by . 1 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Oye, Ima be real with yea... Never get with a married man... What did you initially expect?? That he would leave his wife and get with you?? You already know his morals are shot if he is virtually having an affair with you and is married... Sigh.. don't sell yourself short lady. It's just not right. You are worth far more than that. Look within and see that, and know it, and run with it, and run far and long. Please do me, a stranger, a favor, could you do that? Do you have the follow through and the self control? Would you? Know I am asking for you, doing you a favor.
2007-01-05 22:53:00 · answer #2 · answered by Sw33tT4rt 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
MARRIED GUYS ARE ALWAYS MARRIED GUYS. He wants his cake and eat it too. Be grateful that you have a new job, who knows you might meet a nice single guy at your new job.
Do not be contented with a half of a person when you can have the whole person. Don't fool yourself, I am sure that you would not want him to be your husband, because he would be doing the same thing that he is doing now with you.
What goes around, comes around, and back in your face.
2007-01-05 22:56:03 · answer #3 · answered by D S 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No do not tell him you are leaving. He is NOT single now and probably has no intentions of ever being single in the future. Focus your sights on your new job and the people there are give up what wasn't there in the first place with this job.
2007-01-05 22:52:12 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
You said you want him in your life as a friend...then you should tell him that is what a friend would do...no harm no foul just tell him your leaving_
2007-01-05 22:51:21 · answer #5 · answered by Chickybabe 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
new job new life its time.
2007-01-05 23:03:41 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋