What if their fathers are in the picture?

Question

But the youngest child's father is abusive and I do not want to split the kids up or take them from their grandmother (my mother) who does not have custody, but does have guardianship.

Answer 1

He can be in their life but not split the kids up...he can go see the child, call them, send them photos or gifts. It not good to take a child from a good homelife and move them to an unstable home_

Answer 2

Guardianship IS a form of custody. I don't know how or why she got guardianship but it is obvious that neither one of these children have a reliable biological parent. If one of the father's is planning on attempting to get custody that IS his right that doesn't mean he is guaranteed it but there might be a chance he could get custody and that YOU and your mother would HAVE to comply with the court's ruling or be held in contempt of court and be put in jail. That's life. YOU chose to have sex with these men and in so choosing you chose to make babies with them. Maybe you should hold off having sex until you are more discretionary in your choice of men.

Answer 3

i kind of got abused by my father even though its ok now because he mellowed out in his old age it is best to band his guardian ship i would give anything not to feel the way i do at least if you take the kid away from the father she wont hate you for leaving her in that relation ship if you take your youngest child it will be hard but she wont live the rest of her life in fear. then one day when she askes you questions about it dont lie.

Answer 4

you need to contact a divorce/family lawyer and get an order of protection , establish abuse, build your case, otherwise, the biological parent may gain access and custody of the child.

Answer 5

ur problem is a little bit complicated.U need professional advice.