My ex-boyfriend was nice to me, but a little too possesive. He did somethings for me when we were together. But his problem was he hold secrets like ice.(Always got to let someone else hold it.) I found out that he told my brother my secret so I had to let him go. Now he wants me back and will do anything to get me back. What should I do?
2007-01-05 14:52:43 · 8 answers · asked by J' Taime 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Trust is the most important thing in a relationship. It has to be earned... it's not just automatically given.
If he doesn't have your trust, then you should just move on.
2007-01-05 15:07:12 · answer #1 · answered by Me 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are at a point in your life where you have totally forgiven him for betraying you and you feel in your heart that you can trust him again 100% with all the secrets that you hold dear in your heart - then give him another chance. If you are not at this place, then you are not ready to take him back.
2007-01-05 14:56:04 · answer #2 · answered by fancyface1 l 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
secrets to not huret you or ones that hurt u weight that out if u take him back no secrets or else eveyrone deserves a 2nd chance love isnt smooth always its tuf adn ya learn to grow and know boundries./
2007-01-05 15:02:26 · answer #3 · answered by gypsygirl731 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sure doesn't sound like he's a very good secret keeper to me.
Why do you want to be with this guy, anyway?
2007-01-05 14:56:43 · answer #4 · answered by Last Ent Wife (RCIA) 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Trust is huge in a relationship. If you feel as though you can two can work things out then go for it.
2007-01-05 14:58:02 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stay with the guy that is currently crushing on you! yes, that cute one that keeps looking at you and you've wondered if you should smile or what! Go for it, and don't look back!
2007-01-05 14:59:00 · answer #6 · answered by Knuckledragger 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
think ..think...Be smart ...If u still luv him , @ can accept also his bad attitudes go for it.But be ready @ accept for all prob that will comes.Now if u don't , talk to him @ tell him whats on ur mind.good luck
2007-01-05 15:05:35 · answer #7 · answered by jeayuma 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
depends on how serious the secret was.
2007-01-05 14:55:26 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋