Serious Answer ONLY Please?

Question

I am Living Together with my Girlfreind for about 4 years.
Initially, I intend to settle down with her.
But, Our sex life is not really smooth lately.
She is not interested in Sex anymore.
As for me, I can't take the smell during intercourse.

Now, I am lost interest in her.
I just feel and find out that she is not my type and she is not the one that I want to settle down with.

If I marry her, I am afraid that we will divorce one day as we are frequently quarrel.
Our like and dislike are totally opposite too.

Please kindly give me an advice what to do and how to tell her.

Serious answer only please.

Answer 1

Don't get married. You both sound unhappy... maybe it's best to break up. But you need to talk about it with her instead of us..

Answer 2

If the two of you don't become happy after a little set down discussion then you should think of just being friends for a while. You might go into the mood again and have a different attitude. If that don't work get some time alone then come back little bits at a time. If she and you don't get back into the mood after that then you should think of breaking up and moving on with your life.

Answer 3

Ask her what is happening in her mind.Talk with her.Communication is the key in all Love's matters.Also ask yourself: what is the cause you lost interest in her.4 years are enough time to know each other.After 4 years living together; is not making any sense to say: she is not my type.Both need to discover if that relationship; was based in only to have sex,but not love indeed.It is indeed, a tough situation,but you will discover the truth facts about: what really is happen in this relationship.Good luck.

Answer 4

You need to sit down & have a serious conversation with her about breaking up. You're right - if you feel this way now, it's more complicated once you're married.

Don't feel obliged to stay with someone just because you've been together for a long time. You can both move on from here. Good luck!

Answer 5

you have been together for a little time and it is a good thing that you didn't get married. just be straight with her and let her know where your head and heart is.
maybe she is feeling the same way but too afraid to tell you.

don't make a foolish choice by staying in a relationship that is not working. you will only end up hurting yourself and your partner in the long run

good luck

Answer 6

Chances are that if you are feeling distant towards her, she's feeling the same, whether or not she wants to admit it. Be a man about it and just tell her that you don't think things are working out as well as you hoped and that you should spend some time apart to figure out what you want. Who knows, it may relieve her to know that.

Answer 7

If you don't love her, don't marry her. You'll save you and her a lot of trouble that way. Try talking to her, and see if she wants to try and work on the relationship. If you two don't have any interest in trying to make things work, get out of the relationship and move on. Life is short!

Answer 8

What exactly is this "smell" issue??
Gracious if the two of your aren't happy perhaps it's better to say your goodbyes now. Marriage is a lifelong commitment, till DEATH do you part, don't do it if your aren't 100% ready and sure.

Oh, and I would recommend not living together anymore, it ruins relationships.

Answer 9

just be honest but in such way that you don't hurt her... i mean don't take it any further if you aren't getting along right now...marriages aren't joke and you should think twice before getting into it....

let her know you have lost interest and you aren't sure if you can bring it back so you rather put an end for both

Good luck!!

Answer 10

tell her, how you feel about you 2, if you feel you dont have interest in her, you will regret it if you marry, cuz if yall have no interest in each other a bigger problem will begin before you know it, stop it now before somebody make a mistake, end it now she might be feelin the same way, or she dont know how 2 tell you.