please help me.
2007-01-05 14:48:18 · 51 answers · asked by elmophoobear 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Congratulate her then find a new BF and friend.
2007-01-05 14:50:51 · answer #1 · answered by ♥ Cassie ♥ 5 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Is it true, or is someone playing with you. Either way you need some better friends. I think you should dump your boyfriend. Try to find a project or fill in your time with a hobby until the hurt you are feeling starts to subside. If you have been close friends with the girl for a long time and you want to stay friends with her, ask her about it, maybe the boy just used both of you. If she is not sorry, look for some new friends. Best wishes.
2007-01-05 14:56:53 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If the guy was with you at the time save yourself get rid of him if not it is really up to you to decide to stay or not maybe you all 3 could be happy there are always options in life dont stay stuck because you think there is nothing better the grass can be greener on the other side.
2007-01-05 14:51:24 · answer #3 · answered by Dan B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
good god...i'm so sorry. that sucks. well dump your bf. he should def. be out of the pic. but as for your friend. take your space from her and then sit her down at lunch or something and talk to her. have a nice long friend to friend discussion. you know she needs help getting through this. and even though it was your boyfriend shes very vulnurable and prolly knows she made a mistake. i hope this helps a little bit. again i'm so sorry. good luck and keep a positive attitude!!
2007-01-05 14:54:05 · answer #4 · answered by MAAR 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you love them both and can find it in your heart to forgive them, then.. you'll help, but if this really hurt you let them deal with it themselves.
You did not deserve to be cheated on. I don't understand how your friend could do something like that or your boyfriend. You should let them take care of the baby themselves, and hopefully they'll learn their lesson.
2007-01-05 14:55:12 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hate to say this, but leave them both, they obviously didnt think of you..I value love above all else, so It's not easy to say that, in most cases I'll say try to work it out before you drop them, but what they did to you is just wrong, your boyfriend and "friend" obviously have no honor for you and arent exactly trustworthy people...Basically I'd tell your friend she's on her own, and that the kid is her's to deal with, and tell your boyfriend to get out of your life..I know It's not easy, but ask yourself, can you trust any of them? Also I wouldnt exactly hesitate to spread the word of what they did, one, for vengence, they'll look like whores, and much less trustworthy, I know, childish, but hey, they obviously didnt think of you, why should you watch their reputation for them?
2007-01-05 14:56:10 · answer #6 · answered by Ethernaut 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A) Dump him. B) Dump her. C) find someone who will treat you like you deserve, and D) realize that they are both very young, and raising a child...heck, giving birth to a child is very hard! They're in for a shock if they think it's easy.
2007-01-05 14:53:01 · answer #7 · answered by Lisa E 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Certainly neither of these people are your friends. If they cared about you, they would not have gotten into this mess.
It is up to you to decide if you want a boyfriend who is paying child support to another woman. I think you would be crazy to put up with a man who has so little respect for you. You also have to decide if you want to continue a relationship with a woman who also has no respect for you.
2007-01-05 14:52:22 · answer #8 · answered by krinkn 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
two things.
1. find a new friend
2. find a new boyfriend someday (no hurry)
you need a fresh start, dear. Away from both of those people. Staying involved in that situation will poison your life.
2007-01-05 14:51:02 · answer #9 · answered by lifeisagift 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not much of a friend or a bf you had. I guess be glad you aren't pregnant by him and move on. As for your friend it is pretty obvious she can't be trusted. You really don't need that kind of friend.
2007-01-05 14:50:25 · answer #10 · answered by logan 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
if she was your feiend she wouldn't hurt you like that and i believe that she shouldn't have had sex anyway you should have it after your marriage, because these are the kind of things that happen and a half of the teenagers in this generation get abortions that is just terrible
2007-01-05 14:50:40 · answer #11 · answered by smashleyy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋