My friends are usally good people never get into fights never cheat on there girls but theres one thing that bothers me soooooo bad, to tell you the truth I'm not friends with them anyomre for this. They like to say things about people that there not really shere of. For example about 2 days ago one of my friends was talking to my girlfriend over the phone and he was saying things about me that I never did and that I wounld never do in my life. How can I help my ex friends understaind that they can say one thing about someone that isn't true and that one thing could make their life a living hell????? HELP HELP HELP!!!!!! PLEASE
2007-01-05 14:51:02 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Whispers
Whispers behind Innocents back
Coming in like a silent attack
Ammunition shoots out when deceiving one speaks
Not understanding or caring what effect it will be
Projectiles of expressions flows through the heart and into the soul
There is no healing of what has now been sown
For now unjust judgments has already been made
Before Innocents had a chance to have their say
The wound cuts deep with unwarranted cause
Innocents can now only except and take the fall
For the damage of reputation really has no merit
But Innocent’s defenseless shoulders still has to carry it
Rumors flow until Innocent’s can take no more
And all hope and will falls at life’s door
Life is so tragic when it ends this way
So know Innocents before allowing rumors to go astray
Written by
Katherine Graven
September one two thousand six
You probably already knew the type of friend that this guy was before he began talking you down... Just remember that if someone is talking bad about someone who isn't there to take up for themselves that he or she is more than not talking about you when you are not around... Remember the feeling that this has given you and try not to hurt anyone (even your enemies)in the same manner because Karma will bite you in the butt ten fold...) and the only thing that I can say is you know who you are and your true friends know who you are so don't let this one bad choice of a friend drag you down to his level Hold your head up and prove once and for all that you have principals and morals.. people will figure it out...
2007-01-05 15:04:46 · answer #1 · answered by Autumns Destany 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't listen to them. be independent.
first: why aren't you friends any more? maybe they are just jealous now and want to spoil your life?
remember: your real friends will never say rumors about you, and will never believe silly things.
Good luck.
2007-01-05 22:59:38 · answer #2 · answered by Sweet_summer_breeze 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stop hanging out with them, let them know that you are not friends with people who say things to other people that are not true. then try to look for friends who don't do that, if there true friends they will apologize, and they will never let that ruin your friendship.
2007-01-05 22:56:51 · answer #3 · answered by ;) 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My best friend CRUCIFIED me to anyone who would listen. She would say things about me and my life that she knows NOTHING about. Shes no longer my best friend and now my feelings on friendship are that FRIENDS ARE OVERRATED!
2007-01-05 22:59:11 · answer #4 · answered by psst.... its me 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
in the first place they never were your friend..they backbite. they don't deserve your friendship. if i were you.. i'd drop them. just tell you're gf to trust you..and perhaps she will know that you are the one whose telling the truth..
2007-01-05 22:54:55 · answer #5 · answered by anette 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there is this movie from a few years ago, it's called GOSSIP. watch it and send them all a copy.
2007-01-05 22:53:52 · answer #6 · answered by artist-oranit.com. 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋