He is soooooo cute i dont know how to tell him. Im too shy to tell him how i feel hes three years older. He is really sweet we both like the same music but im tooo shy what do i do. Im afraid if i dont say anything ill miss out but i dont want to lose him if there is any chance what do i do??????????????Help
2007-01-05 14:57:00 · 7 answers · asked by Un-Happy Gilmore 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I dont go to school with him
2007-01-06 09:10:08 · update #1
okay,
so heres the story. i liked a guy for a year, yes, a year...watching him go through about 4 girlfriends. i knew he was interested in a girl and i knew that he was making a mistake with her. sooo i told him this afternoon how i felt about him and i got an 'aw, thats sweet'. does part of me feel like crap? yes, it does. however, the other part of me is soo relieved i got it out and told him. i may have lost him waiting that long and it kills me...but im trying to do the best i can. anyway, i did it over aim and it helped a l o t so do it over something like that...easy. but please please please, dont make the same mistake i did. good luckk
2007-01-05 15:04:20 · answer #1 · answered by xidontwanttotalkaboutitx 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
first you chill out and realize how you are putting him up on a pedestal. before you go for him be careful about forgetting that we are all human, we all make mistakes, and no one is as perfect as some of them seem. with that being said, i think you should write him a note, and just say something like who do you like? keep it simple and sweet. and if you say that then its like he will know what you are getting at but he cant turn and say omg she just asked me out......so if that is still a bit much for you since you are shy and all, then the only two options you realy have is too either put what ever you got with him aside and look into some self confidence work outs, or just take a risk and do it anyway!! lol go for it.
2007-01-06 17:10:10 · answer #2 · answered by summer girl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
been there, find something you both like to do and ask him to go do that...movie, bowling, whatever. Then you will be more at ease when its time to talk.
See how it goes and how you both ACT when you are there just the two of you....then guage it from there.
I did that (first we went bowling, then a movie) - we have been together for 17 yrs now and have 3 kids !!!!
Same thing, he was 3 yrs older and I was 17 when we met ;)
Good luck !!
2007-01-08 21:23:23 · answer #3 · answered by wornoutby3 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree with Jim.....Ask him if he wants to get a coffee (or a bite to eat) with you sometime. if he REALLY wants to, he will find a way to contact you, even if he doesnt have your number. This way, if he doesnt call, you know he wasnt really up for it. If he does call you, then it is a sweet surprise! There is nothing worse then rejection, so this way, if he doesnt call you, your not being rejected face to face with a big fat "NO" .
Go for it, what do you have to lose?
2007-01-06 17:57:42 · answer #4 · answered by MazzyStar 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Write a note to him and tell someone you know from that school to put it in his locker (someone you really trust), or next time you see him give him the note.
2007-01-06 21:33:38 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Just ask him if he'd like to eat you out. If he says yes then you know you have a good chance of dating him. If he says no then he's probably gay anyway. Good luck.
2007-01-05 23:01:05 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
well to be honest when i used to like guys i would write them a letter. i am really shy. always been. so that is how i would talk to them by writing to them and telling them my feelings.
2007-01-06 17:03:46 · answer #7 · answered by ticachic 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋