I have been dating my ex-husband again after a divorce two years ago due to him having an affair with a girl at work. Their relationship is over, and he came back wanting to "casually" date eachother again. Well, he wants to go to dinner and a movie tomarrow night, but only if he can go out drinking tonight with his sister and her party friends! Is he looking for somehting better to come along? What am I supposed to react to this?
2007-01-05 15:00:39 · 9 answers · asked by kelly l 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He is a player. He isn't ready for anything serious. He has said that himself. Don't try to make it something that it isn't.
No reason to react. He hasn't made any promises. He hasn't done anything wrong.
You are reading too much into this. He doesn't know what he wants, other than a good time.
Good Luck,
C-F
2007-01-05 15:05:32 · answer #1 · answered by Crispy_Frog 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, haven't you dated since your divorce? It's really difficult to believe there aren't anyone else you could date during the two years of being divorce. And what kinda guy would go to a party with his freaking sister unless her friends are so "hot"? Come on lady! let's be smart about this. Tell him you have a date with someone else tomorrow night if he goes to his sister's party. It's your life; this is not about him. Move on and take care of yourself; that's how you're supposed to feel. I guarantee he will hook up with someone else there; if not tonight, it will be another night. "...but I love him..." I don't buy that bs. That's how you get all those headaches you don't need. Be strong! I'm a guy, I know.
2007-01-05 23:24:55 · answer #2 · answered by pn3drb 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
DONT DO IT!! Please listen and TRUST me when I say...I PROMISE you wil get COMPLETELY over him. I never thought it could be possible when I divorced my ex(CHEATER)7-8 years ago.And!I have Not loved him at all for over 5 years now. He has definitely not changed his ways either. He beat up the husband of one of the girls he is "sleeping" with...cuz the husband told him off on the phone. And he said the husband was wrong? HELLO! My ex shouldnt be "sleeping" w/ the guys wife. LOSER...I dont care for drama. GOOD LUCK..
2007-01-05 23:13:01 · answer #3 · answered by shaylea29 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl, he is only looking to use you for casual sex when he can't find anything "better". Dump him and truly move on. You're worth a lot more than that. (And he really is disrespecting you by implying that you are good for only casual encounters!)
2007-01-05 23:24:43 · answer #4 · answered by Anastasia 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should have learned your lesson already, but obviously, you haven't. Once a cheater, always a cheater!
2007-01-05 23:04:45 · answer #5 · answered by grandm 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he's cheated once he'll do it again, and it sounds like he'd do it soon. You shouldn't waste your time on him.
-Baby-
2007-01-05 23:02:54 · answer #6 · answered by Baby Firefly 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He would like his cake and he would like to eat it too if that is OK with you
2007-01-05 23:06:07 · answer #7 · answered by Mia 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd be extremely careful, and in all actuality, it may be dangerous, in the sense that if he hurts you twice, how will that affect you? Please be careful!
2007-01-05 23:03:31 · answer #8 · answered by Life after 45 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
idk, if he cheated then he is still probably a cheater unless he has turned to god.
2007-01-05 23:02:35 · answer #9 · answered by Pablo 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋