Family & Relationships - 5 January 2007

Other than the obvious...like love, kisses, etc.

2007-01-05 16:38:23 · 21 answers · asked by Texas Bound 2 in Singles & Dating

We're 28 now, married for 5 years. I've never been in a remotely serious relationship with anyone else. For 19, she had a fairly serious dating history and had been through a lot. She has been my best friend for the past 10 years, but over the last few years things have changed. She took a job that set her hours opposite of mine, so we only see eachother an hour a day outside of weekends. I've gotten used to the bachelor lifestyle and have made new friends and social acquintenances. I'm a totally different person than the one she married. Our interests are now totally different, but thankfully our personalities still mesh. Over the years she has let herself go and has put on over 100 lbs. I have worked hard to take care of myself, I resent she won't do the same for me. I'm also very concerned about her longterm health. I'm only emotionally connected to my wife now, its hard to say I romantically love her. I find myself strongly attracted to another woman mentally and physically.

2007-01-05 16:37:49 · 12 answers · asked by CrazyAndConfused 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Please help!! I'm so confused.

2007-01-05 16:37:25 · 31 answers · asked by Miss D 7 in Singles & Dating

Love,Relationships

2007-01-05 16:37:05 · 4 answers · asked by akakeke_akakeke 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

ssshhh
My husband has turned so insensitive...what can i do to stop hurting myself?
we have been married since 2 yrs...we fell in love anf married with lots of hardship...now i wonder attimes why did we marry....we constantly keep fighting and he has been very insenstive lately....
i recently have had real bad health...i am on many medications and i have been having all the sideeffects from all the meds...i have been really upset and all i needed was his complete support....back in those days he used to be there atleast assuring me that its going to be ok...but now he just looks away even i am suffering...and when i ask abt this,,,he says why r u sticking to me if it bothers u....today we had a big fight...he didn't want to talk abt it but i was going on asking him and what changed....he said its me who constantly nag him and thats what changed...
well...i really am hurt...u know it has been so hard for me this time of my life to accept all the medical problems,i am awayy from all my family and friends,and i am going through rough time with career and all i needed was

Additional Details
6 minutes ago
his love and care and be a listener for my comlains asit has been hard...
b4 he used to help me and be with me for most of it..he has never ever shown me any extra ordinary care but i don't expect much other than few soothing words....
now if he helps around also he just have to mention that not any one helps arund and stuff...well he has been my supporter financially for my medcns and few of my exams but he has always pointed out to me...
i don't think i can ever trust him again with anything again...he has hurt me when the time is so wrong ...all i needed was love and support and he made me feel i am a nag..and being a doctor he just doesn't even care abt my medical condition..i have hypothyroidsm ,insulin resistance and poly cystic ovaries and i am on many harmonal pills which make me feel so crazy...i feel so bad,,,i feel i should just stop expecting anything anymore...i am so hurt and i feel there is no love anymore..
i don't want to lead a life like this...
any advices please..
4 minutes ago
i don't want to be married to him if this is what my life is going to be...i really don't wnt this life....i would rather be divorced than being with him...
how am i supposed to be in controll...i feel i am being so stupid by asking him all the qs..all he did was turn aside and sing some song...i have never been treated like this way at all ever....
i miss my family...i feel bad to call and tell them all thse...my dad has heart condn and i don't want to worry him by talking all these,...help me please...we stay ina differnt country,,,
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2007-01-05 16:36:55 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My fiancée and I are young and recently engaged. She is older than me and wants to go clubbing on her 18th birthday. lol. Is that faithful? Aren't clubs places to bump and grind on guys and to meet and possibly hook up with them, as well. I'm worried and obviously insecure. I trust her, but couldn't she just wait a couple months til we're both old enough to get into the same club? =[ Any advice? Also, is there a higher chance of a taken guy going to a club and cheating or girl- statistically speaking, of course. Thanks

2007-01-05 16:35:48 · 10 answers · asked by baby_wrestler 3 in Singles & Dating

I've been alone for a long, long time, too long really, I try to keep a positive outlook on it, I know when it comes to solitude, it will end when it's good and ready and eventually you will find someone. But sometimes the patience required is a little to demanding, because of this I've been in a sort of depression for a couple of days now and I can't seem to shake it, normally when I get like this I think that eventually it will end and it helps and I feel better, but for some reason I can't get rid of this feeling now, it doesn't seem to help anymore. When do you know your done with the patience, when you can't handle it anymore, cause I think I'm beginning to get there.

2007-01-05 16:35:37 · 9 answers · asked by Sentinel 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-05 16:35:17 · 1 answers · asked by Brie 2 in Singles & Dating

Two months ago I told this guy to stop talking about getting together with me. Although we still talked about personal stuff, we stopped flirting. In the meantime I started wanting to see him again. He works with me but lives out of State.

Last week, during normal work conversation, he casually tells me he is going to be in my town next month on work travel. I just continued our conversation and didn't say anything about getting together. I didn't want to appear to be pursuing him.

This week I told him that I was travelling to work in his city and asked if he was going to be in town. He told me he would be in town and then said maybe I'll see you.

By asking him if he is going to be in town, is it obvious that I meant that I want to see him when I am in town? Should I just assume that he isn't interested in seeing me?

2007-01-05 16:34:44 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

There's this girl (17) that I think likes me (not sure if she's just being friendly). She plays the piano and is pretty good at it. So this one day she played it with me watching her. We were talking when she played but then she said "you wanna become my #1 fan?? *laughs* just kidding just kidding" Do you guys think this means she likes me or is she just being friendly and normal stuff?
Thanks

2007-01-05 16:34:23 · 5 answers · asked by jai l 1 in Singles & Dating

My in=laws forgot my daughters birthday. I was very upset about it, she turned 2, i sent them pictures from her 2nd birthday and even the invitation to her birthday party, even though I know they couldnt come. Should I saw something, its almost a month later, and if so, what should I say? I dont want to be rude, but I dont want it to happen again?
Thanks!!

2007-01-05 16:33:02 · 14 answers · asked by etrombetta41402 1 in Family

2007-01-05 16:32:40 · 6 answers · asked by 7 black roses 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-05 16:32:30 · 11 answers · asked by Ashmita 1 in Singles & Dating

I love ya does NOT mean the same thing as "I love you."
Why can't he just say I love you?

Does "I love ya" basically mean...as friends?

:(

2007-01-05 16:32:29 · 23 answers · asked by Kortney 1 in Singles & Dating

We do everything a normal couple do... but we don't kiss is it wrong?

We've been hanging out together for a few weeks and known each other for 4 years.

The relationship is doing well, as we are talking about moving in together (meaning she will move to my country).

I love her so much but she is sometimes a bit cold toward me (very few hugs from her side mostly from my side and she doesn't kiss as well).

I understand its because it's how she was educated in her family but do you think she can change?

2007-01-05 16:32:24 · 14 answers · asked by theonoshi 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

ssshhh
My husband has turned so insensitive...what can i do to stop hurting myself?
we have been married since 2 yrs...we fell in love anf married with lots of hardship...now i wonder attimes why did we marry....we constantly keep fighting and he has been very insenstive lately....
i recently have had real bad health...i am on many medications and i have been having all the sideeffects from all the meds...i have been really upset and all i needed was his complete support....back in those days he used to be there atleast assuring me that its going to be ok...but now he just looks away even i am suffering...and when i ask abt this,,,he says why r u sticking to me if it bothers u....today we had a big fight...he didn't want to talk abt it but i was going on asking him and what changed....he said its me who constantly nag him and thats what changed...
well...i really am hurt...u know it has been so hard for me this time of my life to accept all the medical problems,i am awayy from all my family and friends,and i am going through rough time with career and all i needed was

Additional Details
6 minutes ago
his love and care and be a listener for my comlains asit has been hard...
b4 he used to help me and be with me for most of it..he has never ever shown me any extra ordinary care but i don't expect much other than few soothing words....
now if he helps around also he just have to mention that not any one helps arund and stuff...well he has been my supporter financially for my medcns and few of my exams but he has always pointed out to me...
i don't think i can ever trust him again with anything again...he has hurt me when the time is so wrong ...all i needed was love and support and he made me feel i am a nag..and being a doctor he just doesn't even care abt my medical condition..i have hypothyroidsm ,insulin resistance and poly cystic ovaries and i am on many harmonal pills which make me feel so crazy...i feel so bad,,,i feel i should just stop expecting anything anymore...i am so hurt and i feel there is no love anymore..
i don't want to lead a life like this...
any advices please..
4 minutes ago
i don't want to be married to him if this is what my life is going to be...i really don't wnt this life....i would rather be divorced than being with him...
how am i supposed to be in controll...i feel i am being so stupid by asking him all the qs..all he did was turn aside and sing some song...i have never been treated like this way at all ever....
i miss my family...i feel bad to call and tell them all thse...my dad has heart condn and i don't want to worry him by talking all these,...help me please...we stay ina differnt country,,,
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2007-01-05 16:31:54 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My girlfreind of a 2 months recently broke up with me. Its been about a week since I've talked to her and just yesterday I asked her to hang out as freinds.I know that 2 months isnt a long time but I still really like her and wanna get back together with her but she said she just wants to be friends, and I dont want to be clingy.And I tried getting over her but everything thats around me reminds me of her .And I only like wanna see her b/c I miss her like crazy. So what should I say , act like and do when we hang out.

2007-01-05 16:31:36 · 16 answers · asked by Titans 1101 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-05 16:31:05 · 9 answers · asked by sallienjim 2 in Singles & Dating

My uncle is missing and I am very worried but
we think he committed suicide.
He lost a daughter ( my cousin) in the summer.
He left his wallet and money @ home.
He took his company car.
I live in Winfield,KS.
Pls give me advice .
He has been missing for 2 days.
Police have not found him!
HELP!

2007-01-05 16:29:22 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

My fiancée is always making me insecure with her comments. I just want her to promise me that she won't lie or cheat or anything of the sort. She can't promise me that we'll wed, yet she's sporting a beautiful diamond ring. I hate this insecurity and want to know if there's anything I can do. I try trusting but don't want my heart broken. Also, she is somewhat immature and doesn't want me to want to hang out with females and if that's the case, isn't it fair for me not to want her to not hang out with guys? sigh*

2007-01-05 16:28:57 · 15 answers · asked by baby_wrestler 3 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-01-05 16:28:37 · 12 answers · asked by Miss D 7 in Singles & Dating

i feel stuck because i have a child with him but he beats me and calls me names and uses what ever money comes in i hate this life

2007-01-05 16:28:12 · 42 answers · asked by christin 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I was involved with a man for a few years. We broke up and within less than 2 months he was seeing someone else and rumor has it (our local paper) they were married. He swore up and down that he was not involved with anyone else when we were together. Why is it so easy for men to move on?

2007-01-05 16:28:06 · 5 answers · asked by Nan of Many 2 in Singles & Dating

I was very upset but saw the neighbors gf the next day and told her what happened. We decided to have sex also to get back at them. That was 100 meetings ago and we don't want to stop. Should I tell my wife or just keep having these lunchtime meetings and act like nothing is wrong. I have begun hiding money and assets so if we divorce she will have no idea about the $$$$. She is a who*e and deserves to be treated that way.

2007-01-05 16:28:05 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

were teenagers so no old people above 18 and we only like black boys and maybe mixed ones with black in them or puerto ricans but dats it our emails for i.m is starbabygurl16@yahoo.com and sisterasb@yahoo.com me starbabygurl perfer tall boys 6ft and taller my friend sisterasb perfer boys 5'5 and above light skin or brown skin so hit us up we waiting...........................

2007-01-05 16:28:02 · 4 answers · asked by it's HG !! 2 in Singles & Dating

About most of the important things anyway.

2007-01-05 16:27:55 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I have a "friend" will call em, that for along time has asked people about me, made up stories about my doing not so nice things, just all in my mix. Mostly in a bad way, but then when he is around me he is always talkative and seems too interested in what I am talking about. There is obvious friction but is it chemistry. Is he acting like a 1st grader on the playground who hits the girl he likes. If he doesnt like me, why do I think this

2007-01-05 16:27:14 · 13 answers · asked by Miss Green 2 in Singles & Dating

I've been seeing this guy for 2 months. I am 22 and he is 28. He is the most wonderful and generous guy I have ever come across! I recently moved away but plan on returning to his area within the next 6 months. We haven't really talked about what we are going to do about the future. He has a personal family issue to deal with right now so a relationship is something he is not ready for, but he assures me that he thinks I am great and loves being around me. He has told me that right now it wouldn't be fair to start a relationship because he has to spend a lot of time with his dying father. Which I completely understand. When we are together its like time stands still. I really could see myself settling with him which scares me because I have had a past with being "flaky" with men. Should I still work on seeing him and waiting for when he is ready? I hate to let him go because of bad timing with me moving and his family issues. I really really like him! ahh help!

2007-01-05 16:26:53 · 12 answers · asked by mambo209 1 in Singles & Dating

In my intire life I have been people before my on feelings. To me if I make other people happy than that is fine with me but lately i've been trying to make myself happy and eerybody is saying that I have let them down. I really don't like feeling that I have let people down. It makes my sad when I do to the point to where I want to cry. I realy want to make everybody happy but I don't know how any more. Everything that I have done in my life has lead to me not being happy because I have let people down. Im trying so hard not to do that but it neer fells me doing that. People have always trusted me to do everything but as soon as I can't help or do something they always get mad. Im never just not letting people down. I have to always help always be the one to help. I don't know what to do without it. What's wrong with me? Am I suppose to be happy? Do I have to make other people happy to be happy? I don't know what im suppose to do any more. I just......???????

2007-01-05 16:26:50 · 9 answers · asked by chinquittia_john18 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-05 16:25:53 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating