We do everything a normal couple do... but we don't kiss is it wrong?
We've been hanging out together for a few weeks and known each other for 4 years.
The relationship is doing well, as we are talking about moving in together (meaning she will move to my country).
I love her so much but she is sometimes a bit cold toward me (very few hugs from her side mostly from my side and she doesn't kiss as well).
I understand its because it's how she was educated in her family but do you think she can change?
2007-01-05 16:32:24 · 14 answers · asked by theonoshi 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I wouldn't kiss a guy once and we dated for a long time. His breath was repulsive and I couldn't bare to tell him. Do you think it's your breath or maybe she thinks it's hers? Hmm....could be a cultural thing as well with the hugging and kissing. I'm sure you don't want to offend her by asking but you two are going to move in with each other. What's going to happen then? I think you should talk it over with her and find out what's going on.
2007-01-12 18:32:41 · answer #1 · answered by Cricket 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're just fine. You've been a couple for a few weeks. Not kissing by then is a little unusual, but certainly nothing to worry about. It sounds like you two are just the sort to take things more slowly, and there's *nothing* wrong with that. In fact, you may avoid many mistakes that the rest of us make--because of your caution.
2007-01-06 00:42:38 · answer #2 · answered by Holly 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, people can change; but 4 years is a long time to have not even kissed!
2007-01-06 00:35:54 · answer #3 · answered by grandm 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They key to a great relationship is conversation. I think your best bet is to ask her about it. I dont kiss my boyfriend as much as hed like. But in no way does it mean I dont love him. I just get sort of tired of it.
2007-01-06 00:36:38 · answer #4 · answered by Bunnie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she just needs to warm up to you...she may not be self-confident enough about herself, or she just might not be a kissie person...my sister's husband doesn't like hugs (from the family) it's not personal, just their personality! give it some time, maybe you need to make the first move (or kiss) for a while...
2007-01-12 12:34:51 · answer #5 · answered by cantthinkofauseridsohereitis 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some people are poor at showing affection. Have you talked to her about this? Yes, she can change but it might take awhile.
2007-01-06 00:35:29 · answer #6 · answered by bad_bob_69 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some people don't like to kiss....I've never been fond of it. There's this "germ" thing that worries me. Maybe she's like that...or maybe she's afraid she isn't a good kisser.
2007-01-06 00:35:00 · answer #7 · answered by buzzbait0u812 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is probably also very uncomfortable and perhaps she thinks she doesnt know how to kiss properly.
2007-01-06 00:34:21 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
yes lol, your relationship should be a sexual one
seems its only lust and theres no mutual lovey dovey feeling
so ur better off being F#@K buddies
2007-01-06 00:38:29 · answer #9 · answered by zesty 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do something wild and dirty... like maybe slip one down her pants and in the stink, when you're kissing
that might help open her up
2007-01-06 00:35:07 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋