I've been alone for a long, long time, too long really, I try to keep a positive outlook on it, I know when it comes to solitude, it will end when it's good and ready and eventually you will find someone. But sometimes the patience required is a little to demanding, because of this I've been in a sort of depression for a couple of days now and I can't seem to shake it, normally when I get like this I think that eventually it will end and it helps and I feel better, but for some reason I can't get rid of this feeling now, it doesn't seem to help anymore. When do you know your done with the patience, when you can't handle it anymore, cause I think I'm beginning to get there.
2007-01-05 16:35:37 · 9 answers · asked by Sentinel 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I know exactly how you feel. Thankfully I have this great guy that I email with everyday.Even though he lives quite far from me I don't feel so alone when I read his emails.He always knows just what to say.Life is hard enough without having to face it alone...When you can't handle it try to talk to someone,if there isn't anyone around you could always talk to a friend through email or on messenger...Just remember you are not alone with your lonliness there are many of us out here...
2007-01-06 14:17:32 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First thing... talk to someone about the depression, please! Next, you can be in a relationship and be more alone than if you weren't. You have to learn to care about yourself, first. You sound like a really great person, and you deserve someone special in your life. But take your time. I've been through two marriages and in both, I was more lonely than if I'd been by myself! It may sound corny, but get involved in something. Do some charity work. What are you interested in? You can meet some really great people that way. Don't depend on the bar scene for a place to find love. When you do volunteer work, you meet people that really have a heart, otherwise most wouldn't be involved in that. If you like animals, go to a shelter and tell them you want to be a volunteer. Go to a hospital, go to a VA center. There are tons of places looking for good people like you. And believe me, when the time is right, you will find that special person when you aren't looking for them. And you'll be so glad that you didn't latch on to the first person you came across. Love comes when you aren't looking for it. It comes in the strangest places. Get up and get out. Do things you haven't done before. Forget about the bars. Do something you love and believe in. And please let us know how you are doing and what you are doing. Be patient. True love takes time.
2007-01-05 16:49:03 · answer #2 · answered by lucy7 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
DITTO. I can relate. Everything happens for a reason. So, you need to go online, and see how many women are feeling the exact same way as you. Talk to as many as possible, and when it's meant to be, you'll come across someone that fits with you. I don't believe in "one right person", there are many. You just need to make your presence known. Keep your chin up, and know that you're not alone in how you feel.
2007-01-05 16:39:49 · answer #3 · answered by Spiderman 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
experiencing so called middle life crisis.. i've been there at times and my depression lasted for about 2weeks. been alone and still alone..lol.. don't know what to do until i tried to get real rest, asked my self what i don't have that others had, have a vication, find something interesting. i'd tried those but some didnt work, some it did. i know there is someone that is really meant to be for us. so try not to think of being alone, though i my self also alone so i got my self 3 dogs and a cat i treat them special i think about them whats gonna happen if i'm gone who will take care of them... go out meet friends or what ever... don't waist it, you know what i mean.
Who know's maybe i'm the one that meant to be yours! "SMILE...!"
THERE ARE PEOPLE CARES ABOUT YOUJ think of that
2007-01-05 16:46:30 · answer #4 · answered by the choosen1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i know how you feel, just hang in there you'll find someone eventually. I wish you the best, and I hope you're not lonely for long. Take care, and try to have a little fun okay.
2007-01-05 16:40:07 · answer #5 · answered by rica 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-16 03:20:53 · answer #6 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just keep living life. Do things that are fun to get over it. Try to think what girls dont like about you and try to change it. And you will find someone. Just keep fighting. I did. Happy endings do exist.
2007-01-05 16:40:01 · answer #7 · answered by Dido 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are already taking steps away from that dark place. just by asking this question, you should already know that you don't want to be there. i don't know what your situation is, or if this is even possible, but you need to talk to someone. family? friends? therapist? anybody. it helps. don't give up. contact me if you want. ok?
"the wise person neither fears the end of life nor seeks to escape it."
take care.
2007-01-05 17:03:11 · answer #8 · answered by ? 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Stay close to your friends, and make more friends as often as you can. You will find someone soon, and it will be when you least expect it. I will think of you
2007-01-06 06:38:41 · answer #9 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋