Family & Relationships - 5 January 2007

I have two grown sons 25 and 19. My oldest moved out about 18months ago and my youngest joined the navy a few months later( he is stationed in japan ). No more noise, no more loud music,no girls calling, no more getting up on the week-ends to a bunch of boys sleeping all over the house, not even a "MOM WHERES MY KEYS TO MY TRUCK!!! WHATS TO EAT!!!!'
Well I miss all of that and more. I love my husband with all my heart and soul we should be having the time of our lives. Missing my sons as much asI do is causing trouble In my marriage ,my job, just about in everything i do. Is there help?

2007-01-05 17:22:41 · 7 answers · asked by KITTEN 2 in Marriage & Divorce

My sister and I?
My sister asked a question about runescape and I dont even play that and she asked if " any body has a profile thats giving for free.. And everybody blamed on me like and said these mean things...she likes asking questions and answering them.. But you know sometimes... I understand at some point..
I asked her if she knew if she was on my profile... But if she saw my picture ( me being a girl looking really different ), How would she be able to know she's on the wrong profile.?.. I am really bad solving these questions lol.. Is there even any way?]
I understand it was by accident but I still want her to know she wont do it again.
Please do not say mean things...
Thank you :)

2007-01-05 17:22:22 · 4 answers · asked by sarah 4 in Family

I am 17 and when i was 15 or 16, i masturbated about my stepdad. He wasn't my stepdad yet but still ..they were engaged. I feel like i have to tell my mom because she is like more of a best friend than a mom and if you have a best friend she would most likely get mad at you for doing that about her boyfriend/husband. People keep telling me that i don't need to tell her. I know it is normal but i feel like i have to tell her and i don't know why. and ever since i have been obsessing over thinking i should tell her, i keep wondering if i would actually ever do something with him which i wouldn't but it's just thoughts since i am obsessing. What do i do? How do i get over it?

2007-01-05 17:21:59 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

My fiance and I have been engaged for about 7 months. We've known each other for 3 yrs. And because I believed him to be my true love we had sex and I got pregnant. We have a baby girl, now two months old. I had wanted to be married before our baby was born, but he was not ready. I think it was because of financial reasons. When I bring up wedding plans he seems to not really want to talk about it. We had plans to marry this Summer, but I don't want to rush him if he is not ready. Though I don't feel I should give myself to him anymore until I'm sure he is truly commited and that is in marriage. Is this fair to him? Or do you think that it would be likely he would cheat if he had to go without it for 6 months? Thanks in advance for any feedback.

2007-01-05 17:21:50 · 20 answers · asked by Only_1 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

anyways, today I hear that she's expecting her father to talk to me, she's not blaming him at all, but she wants an apology from me for not opening her gifts, she thinks that I should of handled things differently.. she emailed this to her father and I read it! She said, I know you said that Shania and you are not gettting along 'LIES' and that she needs to apologize to me. What the hell? Did she not hear what I said that morning that her father was verbally calling me down, VERBAL ABUSE!! ?? And I need to apologize to her??? over my dead body. HE NEEDS TO APOLOGIZE to me before anything. And he's acting like he don't remember..

Please, how would you handle this??? he's pretending he don't know what happend, or he's really that stupid?

2007-01-05 17:19:45 · 17 answers · asked by Jas 6 in Marriage & Divorce

He could have stopped by saying that he has a girlfriend , instead he said quite a few times that he was 'ENJOYING ' outdoor activities and travelling with his girlfriend .Wasn't that rude? Why should he do that?

2007-01-05 17:19:24 · 8 answers · asked by biologie 1 in Singles & Dating

Well, this guy and I have been talking for about 2 months and we're really feeling each other. However, he recently told me that he has been seeing someone else for a little longer than me but he says that he doesn't like her like he likes me and doesn't know what to do. He says that he want to end his relationship with her. I was kinda hurt b/c I really like him but I 'm not sure if I can totally trust him. On the other hand, one of my friends gave this other guy my number and we've been talking for a couple of weeks. We haven't really met yet and he's only seen my pictures, but he seems like a nice guy and I can tell he likes me. I am so confused. Can anybody help me out??

2007-01-05 17:18:56 · 17 answers · asked by ~BuBbLy~ 1 in Singles & Dating

Ok earlier today I asked, if your hot wife gained 25 pounds would you still want to do her? I got 43 suprisingly mature answers, some were funny or stupid, but NObody went overboard. I have seen some sickenling offensive questions AND answers on this board and they stay up. I ask a valid question and it gets removed because some puritanical christian wannabe decides that it was offensive.

Lets TRY to make this a decent forum with not too much seriously offensive crap and not too much bible thumping. Maybe somewhere in the middle this will stay a really good board!!
Thanks I'm done venting.

Wait, did you ever have a question removed that you really didn't think was offensive?

2007-01-05 17:18:07 · 13 answers · asked by Ade 6 in Marriage & Divorce

I keep thinking about my ex and I want to get back with her and I don't know how. can I even do it? when we broke up she said we would never be able to be together again. but I really want to be with her! I know she likes romeo and juliet story so is there a break up scene in that? lol

[Q 1] who broke up with whom?: i broke up with her
[Q2] were we serious about each other?: yes
[Q 3] Why did we break up?: long story and a bunch of things but here are some

1. her real parents devourced so she wanted me to call her real dad (which i don't know) to have permition to date her

2. she said that if i ever hurt her that her dad will hunt me down lol

3. she wanted me to dress like arogorn if we got married lol

and alot more.


extra details,
after i broke up saying we can be friends still she kept calling and stuff but like 2 weeks later she stoped calling

do you think there is a chance i could get back with her?

2007-01-05 17:17:26 · 7 answers · asked by me! 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-05 17:17:25 · 13 answers · asked by babygirl143_dk 3 in Singles & Dating

Or a hooker I should say? I really like sex and everything about it. I posted a question earlier regarding this guy I gave oral to and ended up ejaculating and being too tired to have sex afterwards. I consider some oral as foreplay before sex and the only reason I continued until he finished was because he told me that no girl could ever make him 'finish' from a bj and I wanted to be the first. Sorry, I was on a mission. What do you think? Does this sound like 'hookerish' behavior or just a girl who is very sexual? Oh yeah and i did swallow....all the water I drank afterwards :-) Player Haters need not answer this question.

2007-01-05 17:17:12 · 6 answers · asked by ? 2 in Singles & Dating

well there is this guy who i like but he is 4 yrs elder to me n he too likes me!!! but the prob is the age!!!!!!!
he keeps on tlkin bout his ex gf in front of me !!!! is he tryin to make me jealous???????
i really love him!!!!!!!!! please help!! wat do i do??????????
(rite now we r gud frnds but i want him to b my bf!!!)

2007-01-05 17:15:31 · 13 answers · asked by coolncollected 1 in Singles & Dating

I have a cousin that is 2 faced . Everytime her friend come around she act all different and be mean to me. Can someone tell me wat to do about this!

2007-01-05 17:14:46 · 17 answers · asked by Fergie/Black eyed peas 1 in Friends

12 years ago I was married a long time to a verbally and emotionally husband. I opened my eyes so to speak, and divorced him. After a long 10 year divorce before I seeked another relationship..lots of counceling I met another love. Moved in with him 2 years ago. He verbally abused me Dec 23 rd in the morning, I came out of the bedroom just steamed about it, his daughter was here, she was waiting for us to open gifts. While he sat at the kitchen table acting innocent, I freaked out that he verbally abused me, and I needed to get out of the house NOW, so I took off for the day to my daughters house. But while I was getting ready to go out, his daughter 'who is 26' said that I need to calm down. What the hell? here I'm freaking out cause of the names I was called, and called down, and she's telling me I need to calm down? I don't think so! I came back later in the day, and his daughter asked me if I will then open her gifts. I said no, I didn't feel like it, I'm sick. Well today I hear

2007-01-05 17:14:42 · 23 answers · asked by Jas 6 in Marriage & Divorce

He could have stopped by saying that he has a girlfriend , instead he said quite a few times that he was 'ENJOYING ' outdoor activities and travelling with his girlfriend .Wasn't that rude? Why should he do that?

2007-01-05 17:13:29 · 17 answers · asked by biologie 1 in Singles & Dating

LIFE CAN BE CONFUSING. GUYS CAN BE CONFUSING. LOVE IS CONFUSING...I MEAN WHAT IS NOT CONFUSING. Okay so being in college I am an out and out guy even though I 'm a girl. I'm like a total tomboy. If u look at me you can't say if I'm a girl or boy. I 'm a very good break dancer in my college, people think that I am the best break dancer cause I can do all these cool moves. We always have a school dance competetion which every year I win for most active dance and best break dancing. This year, Julie, the queen bee and best item dancer broke her leg and my teacher aske dme to replace her. Seriouslly, from a break dancer to and item girl, I am stuck now. Everyone wants to see me as a GIRL. and there hopes are this item number dance in the competion, but that all depends if I do it or not. I'll have to wear these idioctic Girl clothes and " short " clothes, and do a whole new thing. I'll have to open up my hair and shake it on the dance floor. People have their hopes up to me but I'me scared

2007-01-05 17:13:08 · 6 answers · asked by smartie-chick 1 in Friends

12 years ago I was married a long time to a verbally and emotionally husband. I opened my eyes so to speak, and divorced him. After a long 10 year divorce before I seeked another relationship..lots of counceling I met another love. Moved in with him 2 years ago. He verbally abused me Dec 23 rd in the morning, I came out of the bedroom just steamed about it, his daughter was here, she was waiting for us to open gifts. While he sat at the kitchen table acting innocent, I freaked out that he verbally abused me, and I needed to get out of the house NOW, so I took off for the day to my daughters house. But while I was getting ready to go out, his daughter 'who is 26' said that I need to calm down. What the hell? here I'm freaking out cause of the names I was called, and called down, and she's telling me I need to calm down? I don't think so! I came back later in the day, and his daughter asked me if I will then open her gifts. I said no, I didn't feel like it, I'm sick. Well today I hear

2007-01-05 17:12:39 · 11 answers · asked by Jas 6 in Marriage & Divorce

49 yo fiancee hasn't had much sex in 6 years. Has erectile dysfunction and premature ejaculation IF he does. Won't try testosterone, Viagra, or quit/decrease smoking. Doesn't want to engage in heavy petting, oral sex, mutual masterbation or anything. Only minimally affectionate in other ways. Sounds terrible, but is a really great guy in so many other important ways.
Anyone have a platonic marriage that works? I may be 50 but I enjoy lovemaking in all its caring forms and also could go for just a good f--k fairly often too ... sure hate to give it up ... this guy has so much else going for him, it is a tough ?, I do not want to just focus on sex, older couples get to the point they don't really want to do much after many years but geez starting out that way is tough ... any thoughts?

2007-01-05 17:12:28 · 22 answers · asked by Princess Fallopia 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Would you prefer a woman who knows how to cook or a woman who knows how to perform in the bedroom?
Women, who cooks the most you or your man?

2007-01-05 17:12:27 · 5 answers · asked by race1983 1 in Singles & Dating

We have observed that too many readers are becoming impulsive to break-up than to mend a relationship like marriage.
Why in this age we opt for quick fix solutions or rush through impulsive decision instead of keeping patience to mend things?

2007-01-05 17:12:19 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

lol yahoo is for sissy's

2007-01-05 17:12:16 · 4 answers · asked by Lawlz 1 in Friends

Me and my boyfriend have been going out for 2 years now and it's been going downhill kind of. He broke up with me once, for 2 weeks. I'm a very shy person and don't know how to get my feelings out when I really want to, I keep holding it in which is affecting me every single day. At first I could talk to my boyfriend about anything and we still talk about things just not nearly as much as we use to. A little after a year of going out he told me he loved me and I told him I loved him to because I did. After awhile the words "I love you" just kind of disappeared from our vocabulary. I still love him but I don't want to say it and have him not respond. About an hour ago we were having fun then he kept asking me to do something and I kept saying no and it makes me mad when he keeps asking me to do it. Then there was this long silence, then he just got his things and left without looking at me or saying anything like I wasn't even there. Help me please, I don't know what to do.

2007-01-05 17:11:44 · 5 answers · asked by atcblue05 6 in Singles & Dating

Ok, i was talking to my best friend the other day and she said she was talking to my boyfriend and he told her that he wants to tell me he loves me ( he hasn't yet ) but he's scared of what my reaction will be, or he's just shy. I want to tell him i love him too ( i really do ) but i was wondering what would be better. Should I wait for him to tell me, or should I tell him instead? what do you guys prefer? please help me.

2007-01-05 17:11:19 · 32 answers · asked by female optimus prime. 2 in Singles & Dating

There is a lot of history between my sister and I. Suffice it to say that we don't like the other and I am fine with this.
I have ALWAYS put these issues aside when a family crisis has occured. We have not spoken in over two years during which I have tried twice to be there for her and was hung up on.On Sunday she took our mother to the ER and left a message with no other info. I went to the hospital (40 mile drive), got in the room and she did not say one word to me about what was going on. She is a nurse and has the medical power of attorney for mom. Since then, she has not called my family to tell us how she is. Today I found out through a friend that she has put her in a home. We don't live near by and I've no way of finding anything out except through her. We are scared about my mom and I am PISSED at my sister for her behavior. Am I wrong to expect some maturity on her part? She has also let my mom know that she is not talking to us which can't be helping my mom's health.

2007-01-05 17:10:54 · 4 answers · asked by pollywog 3 in Family

I got the following email as a response of an email where I told a good friend I liked her. I also apologized for my treatment of her. What does her email mean?

Hey. I've read both e-mails, and let me put one thing to you up front - our friendship is not in danger. No need to worry about that.
We'll be seeing your family some time in the next couple of days - either saturday or monday, i don't know when, but when we do I think it is appropiate for us to have a talk and clear things up for good. What do you think?

If I go into detail now, and start explaining different things, you'll only answer with an e-mail that I would again have to answer back.

Just, let me clear up one point for you - oh, man-- yes, I know I said we'd talk in person, but being me I can't resist; that thursday when you admonished me and justin for throwing the sugar on the floor , i was not at all offended. If anything perhaps I was a little embarresed because you were right - it was immature. Throwing sugar on the floor isn't the most productive use of ones time -- but in my defense, it was justins idea *winks* so, I plead guilty.

let's talk in person
as the friends we already are,
Steph(y)

2007-01-05 17:10:35 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Does anyone know a website for very unusual wedding dresses? I would like something that is maybe flowy and backless (not poofy).

2007-01-05 17:10:28 · 14 answers · asked by xovenusxo 5 in Weddings

If they have trust issues and have been mis treated so many times?

2007-01-05 17:10:16 · 15 answers · asked by wendy g 3 in Friends

So I fell for my best friend. And she fell for me (I of course didn't find that out until some time later). But, she was seeing someone else at the time. Last fall, he moved away, but they tried to keep a long-distance relationship. Now, I tried my hardest, but with him gone it became increasingly difficult to control my feelings. We became closer, and then one day we kissed (my fault, but she did kiss me back). Long story short, they broke up, and then got back together a little while later. That was September-ish. Now this last month they broke up again, and things between them are rocky.

She is way sad, which makes me wonder if she's so sad she'll want to get back together again, leaving me in the dust (again). Should I wait to see if she'll get over him? How long should I wait? If she does get over him, how can I explain to her that it's O.K. to get together with her best friend (she's the kind of girl to worry about that). Bleh.

2007-01-05 17:08:53 · 7 answers · asked by Zen.Frank. 3 in Singles & Dating

several of my friends said to join a date site and maybe i will find someone interesting and got several hits and e-mailed them back and no answer from none , i dont think i said anything bad and i was i gentlemen and very nice . i dont realy know what they really want. they sound like somebody interesting but if i cannot chat with them how do u really know. so what should i do get a different additude and try that to see what happens. would really like some imput from women on this thanks hunterdoc

2007-01-05 17:08:13 · 5 answers · asked by hunterdoc 1 in Singles & Dating

onetime i was going to chruch i go shake 3 girls hands and go sit and i hear a lound wusper hes cute and her firend start looking at me for like 10 secs. then the girl looks at me when i look back she looks somewhere else fast. onetime i was so near her she plays whi her hair and look on the ground a little?

2007-01-05 17:08:05 · 18 answers · asked by zaheer a 2 in Singles & Dating