Family & Relationships - 5 January 2007

I occasionally have people ask me if im anorexic, but when I tell them not I just have a high metabolism, they doubt me. Most of the time its girls who say I look anorexic, and not men. Why do people feel the need to make comments about my weight. It just makes me self-conscious. I would never make comments to anyone about their weight, because I KNOW im not anorexic.

2007-01-05 17:35:38 · 4 answers · asked by Tina 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-05 17:34:51 · 11 answers · asked by backinblack_125 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-01-05 17:34:50 · 22 answers · asked by bridget_frnkln 1 in Marriage & Divorce

alright, well there is this guy that i liked...and still do obviously...and we had a bit of a summer fling, and then all of a sudden he just up and stopped. It left me really confused, but he was obviously confused too, and told me that he was sorry, but he had just been trying to move on from the last relationship he had been in, in which his gf cheated on him. Anyway, the past few days we've been talking more and he's been making tentative plans (such as we are going for a walk at some point, and i'll give you a ride home one day so you can see my car etc...) with me. The problem is i'm not sure if he likes me for sure this time, and is now able to proceed because he is past his other relationship, or is he just trying to become friends again? he sounds sincere, but i just don't know. FYI...not actually talking, on MSN...but it's basically the same. I also say luvyaz to everyone when i sign out, and he said back at ya....so i don't know. suppose i shouldn't get my hopes up.

2007-01-05 17:34:29 · 4 answers · asked by dash! 1 in Singles & Dating

followed on from mmy early question, http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=AgRAYbrVT6miUcj8btUXxIrsy6IX?qid=20070105202242AAHhmXC

now the problem with us getting back together, that is if that is what she wants, is our parents, I am 25 she is 22 we both have strong ties to our parents. and mine have a strong hatred for her after the way our marriage ended and the fact she cleaned me out for every penny I had leaving me only with bills to pay, I am pretty sure her dad was pulling the strings here, making sure she got eveything she could leaving me with nothing we have never got on me and my inlaws. I also said some quite nasty things to her during the split and she has told her family the things I have said, although they were spur of the moment weapon type words designed to hurt and wound, but not ment, I have since appologised for what I said, and she understands, not sure her family would be so quick to forgive, our relashionship will be ripped at by everybody

2007-01-05 17:34:28 · 4 answers · asked by trincanniere 1 in Marriage & Divorce

a friend of mine is seein a girl and she has a friend and my friend told his girl about me and she told her frind she wants to talk to me but i want to see a pic of her i have a pic online and so does she.shes layed back from what i'm told she has a child which i'm cool with.i'm down too meet her even without seein her pic.but i get so nervous and shy at first what should i do and say to her when i do finally met her?

2007-01-05 17:34:06 · 4 answers · asked by delopoppa_2000 1 in Singles & Dating

so I'm at the gym today enjoying the steam room when this guys walks in to the wet area (it's an area in the men's locker room where the steam room, sauna, whirlpool and showers are located) with his 4 year old daughter!
Now keep in mind this is the men's locker room -- in a very large - very busy gym. In this part of the locker room nobody has on anything except maybe a towel.
He (the father) strolls in butt-***-naked. The kid was in a bathing suit. You should've seen the guys scramble! It was so uncomfortable. What really got me was that the father took a nice long hot tub while the kid stood around and asked "why don't you all have your swimsuits on?"!!!
I don't have kids but I think this is outrageous. Parents is this normal?

2007-01-05 17:33:55 · 21 answers · asked by Nate C 1 in Family

All i wanted to do was go to my grandma's house to do my homework but my parents didnt want to take me. i couldnt concentrate on doing my work thats why i asked. i was upset so i went to my room and i thrw my books on the ground, then my stepdad came in and demanded my cell, ipod, and told me i wasnt alowed to do to my winter formal that i have been talking about for the last couple of months. My younger brother was being far worse today( was talking back and cursing!!!) and he had nothing said to him.[BUMMER] i am just so mad but seriously what do i do. I really want to go to the dance. And i want my cell phone and ipod back as well.

2007-01-05 17:33:23 · 9 answers · asked by Angeleyes171 1 in Family

do things for you?

2007-01-05 17:33:22 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I was babysitting my gf son when he was sick and later in the day when he felt better I took him to the store and bought him clothes and took him to lunch with his mother. When we returned from lunch I and him over heard her BRAGING about haveing affairs with married men. I pretended not to hear and left with her son who is 11 years old and said nothing. A few weeks later when she came home late, 2 hrs. late from work and the son was with his father I exploded. I told her what she had said and also told her I would be moveing out the Belittleing was just to much and if she wasn't a whore she shur talked like one in front of me and her son. RIGHT OR WRONG?

2007-01-05 17:33:18 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Do they lose interest if women go right out and say I am attracted to you? Playful looks, very vague flirting etc is better? They prefer to go after the girl and make the first obvious move themselves?

2007-01-05 17:32:28 · 9 answers · asked by bebackhome_safe 2 in Singles & Dating

I met my wife in Europe and she came over for a month on a visitors visa and stayed with me, due to the immigration laws she had to return until a tempory visa was in place. Our love between us was fantastic but when she returned back after a seven month delay her love is now very distant and I once mentioned if she might have been seeing someone else during our seven months apart. She blushed but never admitted it. I now feel I lost trust in her and even loosing love for her. After two years of marriage Is there such a thing to forget about her past and get on with your life.

2007-01-05 17:31:59 · 22 answers · asked by maleinaus 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-01-05 17:31:44 · 8 answers · asked by Jasmine 1 in Family

I got most of the parts done (ceremony, signing of wedding license) but I still need "happy" or "elegant" songs for the RECEPTION and CANDIDS during meal. Any ideas what "happy" and "elegant" songs might be? Thanks for the help!

2007-01-05 17:31:21 · 10 answers · asked by ☑ gDübb¹ ® 4 in Weddings

to wat kind of gals do guys get attracted!!!!!!??????

2007-01-05 17:31:03 · 15 answers · asked by coolncollected 1 in Singles & Dating

I am 35 and have a 4 month old baby with a 34 year old man and haven't heard from him since Tuesday--shouldn't he care?? He hasn't paid child support--I am not a loser as I have a great job and education--just lost on how a guy can just leave his child. Do men really not worry about their kids?

2007-01-05 17:30:27 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-01-05 17:29:54 · 5 answers · asked by Yvette M 1 in Singles & Dating

i love my friends for ever but wat do you do if they lied to you wat if they told you that they had a baby in 5th grade with a guy she didnt know and she told you how much the baby weighed wen she was born wat she looked like and wat she was gonna name her and that then she gave he rup for adoption but she was lying to me and i dont know how easy or hard it is gonna be for me to believe her like i used to she lied to me about something i dont think is funny but she does i have my own secret reasons why i dont think it is funny but i cant even tell her that bkuz it hard to trust some one who broke ur trust so any ideas on ho wi can say this friendship i would die with out?

2007-01-05 17:29:20 · 3 answers · asked by 123456789 2 in Friends

2007-01-05 17:27:38 · 22 answers · asked by George J 2 in Family

I see married women flirt all the time - should married men flirt too

2007-01-05 17:27:33 · 26 answers · asked by happy 3 in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend and I have been together for over 4 years now and we both still love each other. We're best friends and we shared so much together. But recently we had a long and emotional talk and eventually decided to break up. I miss him so much and I know he misses me too. But the thing is, we aren't growing together which gets us frustrated at each other. He is working full-time and trying to get back into college whereas I am about to graduate and may have to possible move out of the city for a job. We both are financially limited. Is there a possible future for us together? Did we make the wrong decision?

2007-01-05 17:27:27 · 10 answers · asked by kr 1 in Singles & Dating

what are your most attracted to girls?
personalities?bodies?


thanks

2007-01-05 17:27:22 · 17 answers · asked by cutie_rockin chic23 1 in Singles & Dating

Well Ive known this girl for about 5 months now and we havent gotten anywhere. At the beginning it was all good we would go on dates, talk on the phone all the time and basically hang out regurally. we still talk but just not as much as before and I rarely see her. I thought at one time that she was avoiding me because she would not acknowledge me but we talked and I think I'm stuck in the friend zone. I think I basically messed it up when I said I liked her because we where always together and hanging out but once I told her I liked her everythimh changed. Im too cute to wait and I got other girls im talking to now so should I wait up for her and does she still like me ?

2007-01-05 17:27:04 · 3 answers · asked by datjerseykidd13 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-05 17:26:36 · 49 answers · asked by ashrafi_atoos 1 in Marriage & Divorce

okay some guys that i knew would "talk" to me,flirt,initiate contact and once it seems like your getting close they suddenly one day just snap and dont pay as much attention to you or ignore you or what they do at my school they flirt with your friend in front of you.its really annoying whats wrong,and how can i help this you think?

2007-01-05 17:26:36 · 18 answers · asked by beachbum090909 1 in Singles & Dating

The girl I love has a boyfriend. I haven't told her how I feel. What should I do?

2007-01-05 17:24:34 · 16 answers · asked by Valhalla2128 1 in Singles & Dating

I am always at home lately because I have winter break and my brother uses my truck for his work. My other brother thinks he is the best person in the world and that we are all blessed to have him around (at least he acts like he thinks that). He used to "pat" my butt saying that it was for good luck, like the football players. He does that with all his friends and them to him, so he thinks its normal. I would get mad and punch him in the arm...for good luck. He got the point and stopped, but now he scares me. He hides around a corner or sneaks up on me and screams at the top of his lungs. At first it wasn't so bad, but now he does it so often that I chase him and punch him in the arms and such. He continues to do that, untill he has work to do. Now I get mad if he is anywhere around me because he makes weird faces and stands there and annoys me. If I don't blow up, he will walk away, just to scare me. If that doesn't get me mad, he does other things to annoy me.

2007-01-05 17:24:28 · 15 answers · asked by Will Bleed For Kicks 3 in Family

Help, The church that my fiancé and I are members of is dreadfully ugly. I was wondering is it possible to rent a church and if so how do I go about it. I don’t want to ask my preacher because I feel it might hurt his feelings because of his unpredictable health we feel that it is best that we also have someone else marry us. Does this service come available with a church rental? please help so I can start planning and stop stressing.

2007-01-05 17:23:42 · 6 answers · asked by Amy T 2 in Weddings

I am 15 years old I look just like this korean singer his name is Park Hyo Shin. I swear I look just like him and i sound liek him too.
Except for my hair, i shaved my hair.

http://image.melon.co.kr/cm/artist/images/000/01/191/1191.jpg

2007-01-05 17:23:36 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-01-05 17:22:43 · 19 answers · asked by babygirl143_dk 3 in Singles & Dating