followed on from mmy early question, http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=AgRAYbrVT6miUcj8btUXxIrsy6IX?qid=20070105202242AAHhmXC
now the problem with us getting back together, that is if that is what she wants, is our parents, I am 25 she is 22 we both have strong ties to our parents. and mine have a strong hatred for her after the way our marriage ended and the fact she cleaned me out for every penny I had leaving me only with bills to pay, I am pretty sure her dad was pulling the strings here, making sure she got eveything she could leaving me with nothing we have never got on me and my inlaws. I also said some quite nasty things to her during the split and she has told her family the things I have said, although they were spur of the moment weapon type words designed to hurt and wound, but not ment, I have since appologised for what I said, and she understands, not sure her family would be so quick to forgive, our relashionship will be ripped at by everybody
2007-01-05 17:34:28 · 4 answers · asked by trincanniere 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Forget 'Equality'. Under present sexist legislation, marriage - for a man - is a total rip-off.
Marrying once could be forgiven as youthful impetuosity and curiosity. Marrying a second time is simply stupidity.
As wise people all over the world have asked, 'Why buy a messy cow when milk is so cheap?'
2007-01-05 17:47:31 · answer #1 · answered by JeremyStrong 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all you both have to grow up, you both have to get a job and stop being dependent on your parents, don't you think it's time to leave the nest?
Then sit down and talk about everything, what you expect from each other, what "others" think does not matter, they have a life of their own and they have the right to get involved in your family problems only as long as you ask them to.
Try to give each other second chance, but only in case if you have feeling left for each other, don't do that just because you have two kids together, because instead of making their life better you will ruin their psychology, kids should not be raised in family where parents don't love each other!
Good Luck! Hope you will work everything out!
2007-01-05 20:12:37 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you not been burnt badly enough already? If it doesn't bother you that she may again take everything you have than go ahead and follow your heart and get back with her.
2007-01-05 17:40:25 · answer #3 · answered by ♨ Wisper ► 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No give it up
2007-01-05 17:39:24 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋