Family & Relationships - 5 January 2007

i've been with my bf for 3 years. we used to hang out a lot. but after he got this job, we started to hang out less. and now he just turned 21, he began to hang out more with his 21 and above friends. so i ended up asking him out most of the time. he generally agrees to it, but now he started to say that he hates to plan things ahead, so i don't know what to do. if i ask him out, he doesn't like the idea that i am PLANNING his precious weekend for him. but then if i don't do that, we probably won't be able to hang out at all... he does call me a lot and tell me to go over his house. but i feel that he was just trying to fill in the gaps with me while still have his nights out with his boys... what should i do?

2007-01-05 17:51:59 · 9 answers · asked by Deesa 2 in Singles & Dating

will be getting divorced soon. i have not changed my name on my social security to my married name. can i go back to my maiden name without any paperwork?

2007-01-05 17:51:29 · 8 answers · asked by dawn b 1 in Marriage & Divorce

What do you think about the whole 'friends with benefits' thing? Me and my ex((just friends now)) still want to make out when we're hanging out and stuff((not all the time, just sometimes)), but I dont want to be known as a sl**. and were not seeing anyone else, were both single.
Is FWB wrong, and would I be known as a sl** for kissing him when were not going out anymore?

2007-01-05 17:51:26 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

So after you know you gained some weight. You know you look nothing like you did when you married them. Do really belive them when they say you look good and the weight doesn't bother them . When you know IN YOUR MIND YOU ARE LIKE ANNA NICOLE BEFORE TRIMSPA. What do you do?Do you not mind or do you work your a$$ off to get down to some comfortable weight that you like?

2007-01-05 17:50:35 · 8 answers · asked by fabulosity 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-01-05 17:49:32 · 13 answers · asked by xo_Gabby 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

when my mom is at work (she works night shift) her Bf is always grabbing me and telling me to come to his room for fun and always saying that I should let him be my 1st because he says he will love me better than any guy will in the future and if I wait for someone else to take it then i will regret it. (i am 14 by the way) Whats true, should i let him since he does care for me?

2007-01-05 17:48:12 · 17 answers · asked by Tasha from Ca 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

he lives in kolkata, india. his d.o.b. is 15 jan

2007-01-05 17:47:51 · 1 answers · asked by r.s. 1 in Friends

2007-01-05 17:46:24 · 14 answers · asked by RAJ 1 in Singles & Dating

I and my recent bf have been very intimate but we have no physical reltn as yet . I'm afraid i want it from him and i know that in some corner of his heart he wants it too .. But somehow we are not committing it to each other and this is troubling me alot .

So can i have any great tips to show my love and the wilder side of it to him when he sees me tonight at my place ? we both will be all alone this time .

2007-01-05 17:45:48 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

he needs time to himself. we still see each other sometimes. just last night i went over his house and seen femine things around and a condom in his drawer, should i confront him about the things i seen

2007-01-05 17:45:15 · 16 answers · asked by caramelpop 1 in Singles & Dating

25yrs lesbian dating 21 yrs lesbian for over two years. She lives with over-protective mum who doesn't accept us, who has constantly for our two years made her fight to see me as much as possible, she has told me she loves me but can't do this anymore and slowly been slowing down contact between us. In other words she is choosing her mum's wishes over her own. Denying her happiness with me. Since her mum threatened her with leaving her and not letting her see her little sister ever again if she stays with me I work with her and so do a bunch of my friends. They saw her at work today and said she looks miserable. She still loves me. I need to tell her how I feel from the bottom of my heart. I would marry her anyday. Should I let her figure it out or go ahead with my heart felt letter and what should I say. I want her back. I don't want to make her situation any worse than it is, I just want to help her with her choice and final decision. She needs to know how much i love her.

2007-01-05 17:44:44 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

My good friend recently broke up with her boyfriend. I want to surprise her with flowers to let her know that i care yta know. What kind of flowers should i get and what color? I know certain colors mean certain things. I want something that says " I like you alot and want to be oyur boyfriend". So any responses will be appreciated.

2007-01-05 17:44:35 · 9 answers · asked by malcom1000 2 in Singles & Dating

I am 17 and when i was 15 or 16, i masturbated about my stepdad. He wasn't my stepdad yet but still ..they were engaged. I feel like i have to tell my mom because she is like more of a best friend than a mom and if you have a best friend she would most likely get mad at you for doing that about her boyfriend/husband. People keep telling me that i don't need to tell her. I know it is normal but i feel like i have to tell her and i don't know why. and ever since i have been obsessing over thinking i should tell her, i keep wondering if i would actually ever do something with him which i wouldn't but it's just thoughts since i am obsessing. What do i do? How do i get over it?
I just wonder, if i told her what her reaction would be ..mad or just akward how i feel ..i don't really know if i can picture her getting mad. We have a good relationship like best friends

2007-01-05 17:44:10 · 2 answers · asked by Ashley T 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

that I got him a job?

2007-01-05 17:43:10 · 14 answers · asked by PNK RAZOR 1 in Marriage & Divorce

guys how would u let a girlknow u are no longer interested. im currently ina realtionship and my bf is eing very cold and distant......he claims he doesnt hate me....but i feel as if he doesnt like me anymore....is h trying to tell me somethjing?

2007-01-05 17:42:49 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm a new student in this really 'funky' sort of school where people act all cool. I've come from aprivate sophisticated school in London. And guess what, since my mom put me in this ballroom dance lessons for a party she's having I had to do them and one of the teachers that puts up the internation world wide dance competition that travels to 12 countries asked me...directly... to be in it. I was just dum found. She said that she had already chosen a girl and guy break dancer, a attituded queen bee, a hot hunk, a super superstar, goth chick, and a waltz-specialzer guy to be in the group. She just needed one more girl with dance experience and she wanted me. This dance comp. is gonna be visiting 12 countries in 2 months and we are going to be doing 675 performances!!!!. 342 will be different, and its all for free for us, tomorrow is the day we sign the contract and the form that we will praticpate and make the effort in 233 groups that will also be in the competion to be best.Shoul I.

2007-01-05 17:42:24 · 15 answers · asked by smartie-chick 1 in Friends

i like a girl too much, but she's very genuine type of girl, she is very intelligent and creative, she considers me a good friend, but a general friend, i want her to consider me a special friend, then only i can go further. but, as i mensioned earlier, she is very genuine, 1 mistake and i m gone, she is from mumbai and doing MBA, we r in same campus. plz suggest me something to be close to her, i can't do a single mistake, i can't stay without her, she doesn't know this. she has a lot of friends like me, so what do i do to have her treat me specially, i really like her and i don't want to play any trick to get her, just tell me honest ways to be close to her. and she doesn't entertain typical romeo type of boys, she appriciates simple and creative ways to be her friend. i can't even tell anyone else about that, if she comes to know and dosen't like me then i m gone, so i have only one chance, i want to go slow and smooth, i can't take a chance to lose her, plz help me.

2007-01-05 17:41:27 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I've had this friend for almost 6 years now, we're really close (I'm practically a part of her family). I recently got a job that now takes up most of my free time. My best friend has made two new friends to hang out with when i'm not around. We're still friends, but I feel less out and jealous. When all four of us try to hang out together It doesn't work. What should I do?

2007-01-05 17:41:23 · 10 answers · asked by musicgirl 4 in Friends

2007-01-05 17:41:01 · 9 answers · asked by Texas Girl 1 in Singles & Dating

everytime i ask my girlfriend if something is wrong she says "nothing" when i know shes lieing, i asked i her if i could be there for her and talk to her about what is wrong, but she said "NO". what do i do??

2007-01-05 17:40:53 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I think that he is mad because normaly he always takes to me but know he never does want should I do should I talk to him or leave him alone I think he likes some one else please help

2007-01-05 17:40:08 · 6 answers · asked by jessica w 1 in Singles & Dating

Every time I find something out my husband lies about it and it can be the smallest things but he'll lie. He's claimed he wanted out of the marriage many times in the past, so why lie about anything? Why not tell me the truth so I can get mad and we can seriously fall out behind it and he can get what he wants - out. Opinions please.

2007-01-05 17:39:45 · 14 answers · asked by Kisses 2 in Marriage & Divorce

i cant tell if she has a bf or not but i think she likes me to cause we did spend some time together waking to the bus, and she turned red when my friend told her i want to take her out to the moives. but she has a bf and she doesnt really talk when we are outside and she only likes talking on the internet. at one point we both felt that we seem as bestfriends to each other. but i dont know how that can happen if she doesnt trust me to go out with her (cause she thinks ill kis her or something) and when we talk on the internet she mostly starts the conversations, and she has recently become more open to me like showing me more pics of her self and talking on the internet more. i asked her out but she says i dont have time or she says shell see and she never goes. and i try to help her in her math, she doesnt really sit with me though but she says hi. she really is an internet girl and she may have a piont about me making a move on her. DOES SHE LIKE ME OR IS SHE PLAYING AROUND WITH ME?

2007-01-05 17:38:46 · 7 answers · asked by art w 1 in Singles & Dating

Me and my ex broke up about a month ago, becuase we thought when we were just friends, it was better, but he wants to hook up sometimes, I mean I dont mind, but would that make me a slut because we're making out but not going out?

2007-01-05 17:38:42 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my friend give me a nickname calling me Juliz, when i call her we talk on the phone a long time btw she has a bf for 2 years what can i do ??? I have feeling for my friend :(

2007-01-05 17:38:39 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Alright my g/f broke up with me becuase she said she needed to think about what she has to do for herself..she said she dont want a bf right now at this time..But I really really love her sooo much she dont understand! How can she do this..I mean we was doing sooo good together intill she had to work alot cus of the holiday season..and now all of a sudden she dont want me anymore :( my freinds are telling me..just leave her alone for a while and if I dont then she will get mad at me..but why would she get mad at me? not fair what she did to me.Everything was going A-OK then BAM! says she dont want me anymore..says she stills cares about me but dont want a bf right now..She said she dont know how long it can last..But girls how long do u think it will last and I am such a sweet heart to her..I take her to movies I am there for her I talk to her when she needs me..Then she dont want me anymore.(( I cryed sooo hard that I thought I cant live like this anymore I thought I had to end it all

2007-01-05 17:38:01 · 24 answers · asked by Jeff N 1 in Singles & Dating

I am 13 and get spanked by my parents. For minor stuff its usually over my pants but for really bad stuff its pants down or naked. I am usually spanked standing up unless I struggle and then its in whatever position my mom or dad can get to my butt. They always spank with their hand.

I usually get spanked for direct defiance, sassing my parents or being rude. Sometimes I get spanked for not taking a bath or having dirty underwear which is really embarassing. After those spankins, I always have to take a bath too. I am usually sent to bed after my spankin no matter what time it is and I always cry myself to sleep.

I always cry during and after a spankin and my butt is usually sore for a while. My dads spankins are the worst. He can make my butt glow red like a firetruck and burn like a fire.

2007-01-05 17:37:25 · 8 answers · asked by aaab 1 in Family

We have never had boyfriends and we want to know how to get them.

2007-01-05 17:36:54 · 31 answers · asked by Jata 3 in Singles & Dating

but he doesn't listen to her or do right by her so eventually she leaves. Then after the relationship fails and they move on, he tells her how much he wishes he would have treated her right etc. Why do men do that? And why feel like doing the right thing after she's gone?

2007-01-05 17:35:54 · 26 answers · asked by Kisses 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Your opinion about age and a marriage?

2007-01-05 17:35:51 · 36 answers · asked by ? 1 in Singles & Dating