i like a girl too much, but she's very genuine type of girl, she is very intelligent and creative, she considers me a good friend, but a general friend, i want her to consider me a special friend, then only i can go further. but, as i mensioned earlier, she is very genuine, 1 mistake and i m gone, she is from mumbai and doing MBA, we r in same campus. plz suggest me something to be close to her, i can't do a single mistake, i can't stay without her, she doesn't know this. she has a lot of friends like me, so what do i do to have her treat me specially, i really like her and i don't want to play any trick to get her, just tell me honest ways to be close to her. and she doesn't entertain typical romeo type of boys, she appriciates simple and creative ways to be her friend. i can't even tell anyone else about that, if she comes to know and dosen't like me then i m gone, so i have only one chance, i want to go slow and smooth, i can't take a chance to lose her, plz help me.
2007-01-05 17:41:27 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
OK first, BREATHE. relaaaax. I have been in your situation before. I doubt she's THAT selective. She isn't gonna stop being your friend over something small. She's genuine, so you need to be genuine. I don't mean gush all your feelings, I just mean don't fake it. I think you are over-analyzing things. Just try to spend time with her. You can't make someone like you. But you can try to be a great friend. Be there for her when she needs it, and just be sweet and nice. She'll probably figure out that you like her. Try and be friends with her friends. That's the fastest way to win over a girl. Also they can clue you in if she starts to like you. And dude. She's not going to stop being your friend unless you like, push her off a cliff! chill. Relax. Just enjoy being with her.
2007-01-05 17:48:54 · answer #1 · answered by Hawaii_girl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This going to be a veryyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyy risky one. So think, twice, thrice, as much as u can before u do that! U need to be extra smooth. Be nice, be a good listener; A GIRL LOVE THAT!! Be "the perfect one"! Sincere, faithful, etc. Give her gifts on special occasion. When she's in a hard time, be there for her. That would hit her and she might be interested. Invite her to places also. Be extra sweet! Best of luck! I hope u succeeds!
2007-01-06 02:59:03 · answer #2 · answered by r33 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if i were you i would be honest talk to her and tell her you like her. Ask her to somewhere special like a romantic restaurant or something like that. You don't want to overdo it so just try and maybe place your hands on the table and see if she does the same then you will know. just make sure you take it slowly and see what happens next. If she doesn't like typical romeos as you say take her somewhere that suits her style. if she likes to dance go dancing. find out what she likes before you try taking her somewhere. another good starter is maybe ice skating or just rollerblading especially if she sucks at it then you can help her if your okay at it. and bump into her "accidentally" so you can hold onto her.
2007-01-06 01:52:25 · answer #3 · answered by tiffers 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i guess you still haven't understood that there are no fail-safe plans to court a girl. the best you can do is to be sincere and show her that you really care. you don't need to write special letters or send flowers. just give much more attention to her than you would to your other friends. soon she will notice it and might appreciate your efforts.
don't worry about making a mistake. everybody makes a mistake. what matters is what you do after you make a mistake. if she really likes you, even if you're the biggest bumbling fool in the world, she would still go for you.
2007-01-06 01:47:54 · answer #4 · answered by Coolitz 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Firstly, you sound very insecure. Women are attracted to men who are confident, fair, not worried if the women are smarter that the man, and men who have something to offer to a relationship. Work out wheter you fit the bill first, then bring yourself to her attention in a sensual way, e.g; a compliment, a rose, a chance to meet irrisistible you.
2007-01-06 01:46:39 · answer #5 · answered by Wendy 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
as u r saying,she is very intelliegent and so on.
she have alot friends like u.just a little think why she has a lot of friends like u.why u don't have friends like her.because she is better than u.
i few lines for u.
dusra khud b khud nicha ho jayega,
pehle khud ko us se uncha kijiye.
may be if u was on the place of her.u never think about that,as u r felling now about her.
else best of luck.
2007-01-06 03:33:23 · answer #6 · answered by pooja d 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she is with you & she is not using you ,You will not find such a good friend in life.
You can ask her as if she loves anyone.
If she will not love you ahe will tell someone name,otherwise she will demand you to guess.
this can be indirect way to know.
you can propose her directly for marriage , that is noway wrong,nither the relation will damage
2007-01-06 02:42:39 · answer #7 · answered by sk 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey guess what? you answered your own question. you exactly know what to do...be genuine, be yourself ...find the same interests in sports maybe and invite her to join you.that way, it will be very casual and you will be doing it slow and smooth and you can go from there. read your own question and the answer you're looking for is right there.
good luck
2007-01-06 01:48:41 · answer #8 · answered by toffee-ettes 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find out what hobbies she has, what kind of music she likes or what books she reads, then use of these to share an interest and get to know her better. A subtle approach that usually works.
2007-01-06 01:47:02 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am sincerly answering ur question, may be she is eagerly waiting for ur call & reply as she already expressed her feelings to u through mails & Messages , her love towards u is for ever wheather ru understand this are not . the rest have left to u.
If u are interested u can continue ur relation , through mails i thinks.
2007-01-06 06:33:00 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋