everytime i ask my girlfriend if something is wrong she says "nothing" when i know shes lieing, i asked i her if i could be there for her and talk to her about what is wrong, but she said "NO". what do i do??
2007-01-05 17:40:53 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
she knows that you are there for her!!!!!!!! MAYBE she just wants to get over it and says nothing to try to forget about it! MAYBE she doesnt want to tell you because she KNOWS that you will blow it up WAY out of proportion! and put yourself down . . . . when really . . . . she knows that you are there for her more than anyone else . . . and she loves you
2007-01-05 18:55:04 · answer #1 · answered by me . . . 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd say leave her alone. Just let her know that you are there for her if and when she needs to talk about something that is on her mind. Some people just need a little space to sort things out for themselves. Do not take it wrong, it is most likely just her personality. Asking her over and over if something is wrong will only annoy her and push her farther away. If she does disclose what is on her mind, don't try to fix her problem. She may just want to vent.
2007-01-06 01:49:05 · answer #2 · answered by red_rx7_girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
umm...is she really your girlfriend? like officially?
first, if you asked if you could, that's kinda tacky and if someon said that to me i would gt annoyd and walk away or something
second, you have to make her feel like you can relate, like you have a sensitive side
2007-01-06 01:45:28 · answer #3 · answered by omygosh 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
well tell her that you are there for her when ever she needs anything at at. open up to her so she can sense that she can trust you.
2007-01-06 02:22:18 · answer #4 · answered by Angeleyes171 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋