he needs time to himself. we still see each other sometimes. just last night i went over his house and seen femine things around and a condom in his drawer, should i confront him about the things i seen
2007-01-05 17:45:15 · 16 answers · asked by caramelpop 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
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2007-01-05 17:52:00 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
No, you should not. After all, you two are broke up. The condom in the drawer may have been there for a while. But I gotta tell you, if you don't want to worry and wonder, don' be snooping in his drawers again.
2007-01-05 17:52:51 · answer #2 · answered by rosey 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sorry to say, but personal experience says generally when people say they need time to themselves as the logic to a breakup, there's somebody else, usually. If you know you have something great, why would you leave it anyways?...unless you don't think you have something great and said person is already out looking without letting you know. Some people have some big brass ones. I wouldn't worry about it in that I would just leave him alone, stop hanging out with him, and go on without him. The longer you stick around, the worse it's going to get. Sorry and hope that helps.
2007-01-05 17:54:29 · answer #3 · answered by That Guy! 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
no, you should stop seeing him and move on, to do otherwise is asking for a world of hurt.
Is is obviously stringing you along, just in case he needs someone to hang out with once in a while on a Thursday night.
You deserve better than that. If you stop seeing him now it will hurt but for a lot less time than if you keep believing him or tell yourself that you can handle being FWB's.
Stop now on your terms, and you'll be better off in the long run, you can't be open to new relationships while you are still seeing him.
2007-01-05 17:53:04 · answer #4 · answered by jrnwy 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I agree with the others. He broke up because he wished to. Simple as that. What he does 8 months down the road isn't your business.
If you cannot handle it then stay away from his house, or make it a point to stay away from him. You lost all claim to him.
2007-01-05 17:48:52 · answer #5 · answered by ??? LadyBoyd ??? 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You need to stop seeing this guy. There is no point in staying with someone who doesn't want you back. You are worth more than that! Get out of this relationship and find someone better than this guy. You are worth more than you know.
2007-01-05 17:47:35 · answer #6 · answered by miyshoe 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
When you say you still see each other you mean to say your just a booty call right. Why confront him he don't won't you like that.
So stop sleeping with him better yet leave him alone it's not a healthy relationship.
2007-01-05 17:55:06 · answer #7 · answered by mia w 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Question!!! How is that any of your business if you are not together? So what if he is interested in someone else? All that matter is he is no longer interested in you. I mean...it has been 8 months.
2007-01-05 17:49:15 · answer #8 · answered by pan2fly 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
ppl, shees. leave this gurl alone!
i've been in this situation before. bf broke up with me bcoz he played me. I cried and cried, got over it, then met someone new even tho i still had feelings for him (i let him go). And then one day he came up to me since i had dumped my now newly exed bf, he confronted me and comforted me, and said that me and him were the same and that there was no other girl in his life that he's intrested in.
But turns out, the next week, i saw him with this girl talking besides his car, and then they left off. And when i went to myspace later on the enxt day, i found out that his newly met 'friend' was making comments lyk "that was fun, gosh ur funny, thx for the kisses, i still owe u", and other stuff like, "do you wanna take me out on friday nite too?". and it was so hurtful, because at least he shouldve been TRUTHFUL to me. and not lie about it.
I wasn't jelous or stuff like that, it's just that i hate being lied to. If he wouldve said , "yes there is a girl that i like and im going to try to ask out...." , then that would've been okay with me. But i cannot stand liars. And i'm guessing since he's good at 'playing'. He's probably playing diz girl too.
God Bless you girl!
2007-01-05 17:47:35 · answer #9 · answered by prEppy_rOxy 1 · 1⤊ 2⤋
Nope. He's not your boyfriend any more. He broke up with you. He's probably trying to be nice and not hurt your feelings. btw, what were you doing in his drawer?
2007-01-05 17:48:02 · answer #10 · answered by Baby'sMom 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋