So after you know you gained some weight. You know you look nothing like you did when you married them. Do really belive them when they say you look good and the weight doesn't bother them . When you know IN YOUR MIND YOU ARE LIKE ANNA NICOLE BEFORE TRIMSPA. What do you do?Do you not mind or do you work your a$$ off to get down to some comfortable weight that you like?
2007-01-05 17:50:35 · 8 answers · asked by fabulosity 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
i know i have gained weight!!! He just says you are not fat... and then proceeds to tell me why...ie look at his family they are all overweight, twice the size of me.....he has no right to even consider me fat because he isnt skinny himself......I gave him three beautiful children, and he knows that is why the pounds are there....He says he would rather be with a woman with some meat on her bones, instead of a stick hed break in half ! The weight also gave me some 38 DD boobs...so he reaps the benefit of that too........You just gotta trust that he loves you no matter what.
2007-01-06 06:52:43 · answer #1 · answered by sifford844 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all you go to the mirror, look at yourself and think "do I look good?", if the answer is no you should definitely go to jim.
You already answered your own question - you don't like the way you look, so why wait, do something about it! It's not that hard, if you really want to do something than you can do it!
I gained 50 pounds during my first pregnancy, then I lost 30 pounds, then I gained 60 pounds on second, can you imagine how I looked by than? - felt terrible! I didn't even want to go shopping because everything I liked in store did not good look on me.
But now I lost all that extra pounds, look like I've never been pregnant and feel wonderful!
Don't just accept things the way they are! it's your life and everything is up to you!
2007-01-06 03:25:35 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't put him on the spot by asking the stupid question to begin with. I have a mirror and a scale, I can look at myself and figure out if I look fat or not. I'm sure he notices the weight gain, I don't need to "ask" him to know that. Maybe one day both of us will start working out to get back to our healthy weight - but this day has not come yet.
2007-01-06 02:05:54 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I figure if you have to ask.Then you already know the answer.Hey if you look like Anna Nicole Smith before trim spa.Imagen.What you will look like with trim spa?If you have the look.Why not have the body to go with it?
Honestly I do not believe that weight has anything to do with love.He should love you for who you are?Not for the way you look!!If the weight bothers you then you should try to lose it.If he makes you feel bad over the weight then you should lose him!!
2007-01-06 03:10:51 · answer #4 · answered by noga 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i do what is right for me. and no i don't believe them. they are just saying that to make you happy or make you leave them alone. i try to lose the weight. because if you notice they do to
2007-01-06 01:57:02 · answer #5 · answered by jumiboo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop blaming your husband and lose some weight, fatty.
2007-01-06 01:54:52 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if your not happy with yourself then do something about it if your guy loves you he probably dont really care but that way he thinks no one else is interested in you either
2007-01-06 11:02:24 · answer #7 · answered by miss v8 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why are you asking your husband what you look like? Don't you have a mirror?
2007-01-06 01:54:53 · answer #8 · answered by janicajayne 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋