when my mom is at work (she works night shift) her Bf is always grabbing me and telling me to come to his room for fun and always saying that I should let him be my 1st because he says he will love me better than any guy will in the future and if I wait for someone else to take it then i will regret it. (i am 14 by the way) Whats true, should i let him since he does care for me?
2007-01-05 17:48:12 · 17 answers · asked by Tasha from Ca 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
NO WAY!!! what he is trying to do with you is very wrong (not to mention illegal) and i pray you get away from him as fast as you can
you should tell your mother right now what her boyfriend is trying to do to you!! before he forces himself on you!!!
if she wont listen to you then tell your father, grandparent, teacher..even the police or.any adult that will listen to you!!!
2007-01-05 17:57:30 · answer #1 · answered by mother of teenagers 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This man is a PEDOPHILE!!! You need to talk to your mom (I know its hard, but just tell her what he's said to you), and then go to the police and report this man. It is not right that he is saying all this stuff to you. It is wrong, in many many ways. Not only would he be cheating on your mom, sex with a minor (which you are, since you're under 18) is wrong as well. Your mom needs to dump this man, and get a restraining order against him so he cannot come near you or your mom. This man is dangerous. Stay away from him!
2007-01-06 02:00:33 · answer #2 · answered by Flagstones925 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can understand why you would be tempted into accepting his offer. He's probably attractive and older, and you feel flattered by his offer and probably want love in your life.
But please don't do anything with him. First off, he doesn't "love" you because part of love is respect which he doesn't have for you if he's grabbing at you and cheating on his girlfriend.
Secondly, please tell your mom what is going on. She should know what kind of creep she is going out with.
Third, if anything were to happen, the consequences are horrible. STDs, pregnancy, not to mention legal problems since you are a minor.
Please tell your mom everything and don't give into that pervert.
2007-01-06 01:55:11 · answer #3 · answered by fire 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That man has some issues and personally I think you should tell your mom and then the cops. Don't let some fool talk you into doing something you will regret later in life. And if he "cared" for you he wouldn't be asking his girlfriend's daughter to have sex with him!
2007-01-06 01:54:21 · answer #4 · answered by melsmariposa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to let your mom know what kind of a bf she has.. Do not under any reasons let that jerk touch you. No don not listen to him, it is the male ego talking and if he really cared for your mom he wouldn't be touching you at all. If he did care for you touching you inappropiately, which is what he is doing and suggesting, would be the last thing on his mind. He is a pervert.....
2007-01-06 02:05:00 · answer #5 · answered by myninny54 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, you should report him to child services, you are a child and he is taking advantage of a bad situation of you and your mom. some men seek that kind of situation out and exploit it. he doesn't care for you if he wants to molest you. if he cares for you he would want to protect your innocence. if you passed this man on the street , would you consider giving it up to him if you didn't know him. the circumstances is what compels you to contemplate this. tell mom she needs a new caring b/f and enjoy your fleeting childhood.
2007-01-06 01:57:13 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call 911 Immediately.
2007-01-06 01:52:07 · answer #7 · answered by janicajayne 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What you should do is clue your mother in. Some guys pick woman with girl daughters so they can mess with her. Better still report him to Childrens protection services. Sure he allready has a few skeletons hidindgin his closet
2007-01-06 01:53:01 · answer #8 · answered by kitty_kat4602000 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you crazy or joking with us. Absolutely not!! Tell your mom, if she doesn't respond in caring way tell the authorities. You will not be in trouble
2007-01-06 01:52:38 · answer #9 · answered by rosebud 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yea he cares for you alright. You should tell your mom and the police as soon as possible!
2007-01-06 01:51:31 · answer #10 · answered by Heaven's Messenger 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋