Friendship Question???

Question

I've had this friend for almost 6 years now, we're really close (I'm practically a part of her family). I recently got a job that now takes up most of my free time. My best friend has made two new friends to hang out with when i'm not around. We're still friends, but I feel less out and jealous. When all four of us try to hang out together It doesn't work. What should I do?

Answer 1

oh don't worry, I have a friend problem too, but if I wer u then talk to her and say how u feel. When u have extra time away from every thing else, then plan something together, like doing hw together or going to da movies. If that doesn't work, try to make new friends, its hard to let go uf ur friend but only if notin else works

Answer 2

I am not an popular guy, never was, that to know who answering you. First thing is first: you should know as having more friends is better, so you should not be jealous. You should be in fact glad. Also I do not know what the relationships are between all of you, but you can make a profit from this situation, anytime in life can come an moment when one of those two new friends is in position to help you with an service, so do not reject them, bring them into your circle of known people, or even into the circle of friends. This is a wise way, the bad way is to reject them and once at a moment in life you ain't gonna have that chance which could be prove benefic for your following time after. So know them better, find out who they are, their relations if they have some, etc.

Answer 3

i also has that same experience... my best friend and my enemy were friends... my enemy really says bad stuff about me and usualy tell my best friend about it then my best friend told me everything that i have to know.. then after 2 years i was really really really sh0cked y she said s0rry but then i accepted her apology... then after a while us 3 became best friends.. the 1st quarter of our sch0ol we were best friends but then on the next grading we changed our seats and my ex enemy became the person infr0nt of me so we got to hang out and talked w/ each other a lot.. then we were really close not knowing how my 1st bestfriend felt and she was really out of place..:( ..so what i did is pray and our teacher changed our seats and they were together leaving me lonely and hurt... soo.. wen all of us 3 will hang out together i can't understand what they are talikng about already because i was out of place..i felt that i did'nt belong so what i did is find a real friend hu will never leave me.. and thats what i suggest you do so")

Answer 4

Unless your friend is going to pay your bills, a job is part of life.. friends are forever.Just make time for her when you can.And the jealous feeling will go away in time.

Answer 5

i have a bestfriend she hangs out with her other friend and they are gothic,emo and punk and i just got along
just dont be shy and talk to her other friends get along with each other,i dontknow how to explain the rest tho

12,female,bc

Answer 6

growing as a person is hard on your time and friends but a true friend would understand and roll with the punches and stand by your side and you theres.

Answer 7

it is hard to keep friends as you grow old just still be there for her and don't get jealous you have a history with her

Answer 8

Have faith in yourself and in your friend. If U are true friends, it does not matter if you hang out in groups.

Answer 9

i have no idea but the same thing is happening to me and now she is not my friend andymore and she absolutelly h8s me caus of her new bestie. my ex friend (the one who now h8s me ) is now best friends with an 8 year old sl*u*t and she is nearly 13!
how gross is that

Answer 10

well explain to her that ur doing this and that and tell her even wen u r in work tell her to visit you. cause my friend always do that to me even when we donte have tym. :)