25yrs lesbian dating 21 yrs lesbian for over two years. She lives with over-protective mum who doesn't accept us, who has constantly for our two years made her fight to see me as much as possible, she has told me she loves me but can't do this anymore and slowly been slowing down contact between us. In other words she is choosing her mum's wishes over her own. Denying her happiness with me. Since her mum threatened her with leaving her and not letting her see her little sister ever again if she stays with me I work with her and so do a bunch of my friends. They saw her at work today and said she looks miserable. She still loves me. I need to tell her how I feel from the bottom of my heart. I would marry her anyday. Should I let her figure it out or go ahead with my heart felt letter and what should I say. I want her back. I don't want to make her situation any worse than it is, I just want to help her with her choice and final decision. She needs to know how much i love her.
2007-01-05 17:44:44 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Sounds like a tough situation. No matter what you do, you can't make her see things from a certain point of view. I think your best option is to make sure she knows how much you love her and that you will be there for her and leave it at that. She has to figure out for herself what is most important to her.
I definitely don't think you should try to force her from her mother and family. Even if she chooses you in the short run, she may grow to resent you later. It's absolutely something she has to come to on her own.
2007-01-05 17:55:22 · answer #1 · answered by Justin H 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to let her know how you feel and see whether you can work out something for the two of you to be happy together. Her mom will not always be able to control her life and she needs to accept her for the person that she is. Good luck.
2007-01-05 17:56:26 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you should be honest with her and her mom.tell them both how important she is to you maybe mom will come around.if not let you friend make up her on mind.her mom will always be her mom but if she loves you and lets you go it wasnt meant to be,move on.im sure you will find someone who will return your feelings
2007-01-05 17:49:33 · answer #3 · answered by starr67 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you truly loved her, you'd stop trying to pull her away from her family, and just support her and be there for her when she needs you.
2007-01-05 17:46:16 · answer #4 · answered by janicajayne 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
fight for her
2007-01-05 17:52:21 · answer #5 · answered by iseemen 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋