Me and my ex broke up about a month ago, becuase we thought when we were just friends, it was better, but he wants to hook up sometimes, I mean I dont mind, but would that make me a slut because we're making out but not going out?
2007-01-05 17:38:42 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I didnt see the stars, yahoo must have blocked it out... it was supposed to say sl**.
and another thing, neither of us are seeing anyone else either, if thatll help you answer or that makes a difference.
2007-01-05 17:40:01 · update #1
and were not planning on getting back together either, we just wanna have alittle fun when were hanging out, but i dont want to be known as a sl**.
2007-01-05 17:42:50 · update #2
when I say 'hook up' I mean making out/kissing, not having sex, sorry if that was misunderstood.
2007-01-05 18:01:23 · update #3
I like this question because I have been there. Don't do it. That is just his way of keeping what he liked about you without having to deal with you as a girlfriend. And he might not have someone else right now, but ya'll are not together. What are you going to do if he finds someone else, let him have you both? Its sucks to share a man, but it sucks even more to share a man you once had feelings for. I mean...it hurts. A lot. And I had to find out on my own, my ex lied to me just to keep getting in my pants. Its not what people might think, but how it will make you feel. Please keep it at a distance.
2007-01-05 17:46:20 · answer #1 · answered by pan2fly 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I don't think that makes you a sl**. He was your boyfriend once before and like you said, neither of you are seeing anyone else...so its not like your messing around with a lot of different people, its your ex boyfriend..sooo i don't see a problem.
2007-01-05 17:50:01 · answer #2 · answered by cHiCkEn SaNdWiCh 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
While such an arrangement might seem comfortable at first, you're only closing yourself off from future (and hopefully better) relationships.
Also, other guys won't see you as available if you keep hooking up with your ex, and --what's more-- you may not feel available yourself.
Move on girl...you owe it to yourself. :)
2007-01-05 17:47:44 · answer #3 · answered by elise 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If you like him start going out with him again that will stop anyone's idea of you being a ----
2007-01-05 17:42:51 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no it wouldnt just tell anyone that u got bak together caus u guys changed and u feel it is for the best
2007-01-05 17:41:04 · answer #5 · answered by rikku 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes. he's using you for his convenience. don't fall into this trap. it'll only make you less desirable to other guys who might be interested in you.
2007-01-05 17:40:19 · answer #6 · answered by Melody 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's called friends with benefits...your friends and you make out but have no true commitment to each other.
2007-01-05 17:40:49 · answer #7 · answered by conundrum_dragon 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋