Family & Relationships - 5 January 2007

hes showed it to me a lot and wants to show it to someone else, hes getting bored of showing it to me. What should i do? should i let him?

2007-01-05 18:26:01 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

he always wants me to hang out with him and stay with him at his house cause its close to where he works. i'm more comfortable at home and don't live with other people like he does. how can i make him want to stay at my house? he will come over but never stay very long and has maybe spent the night once.

2007-01-05 18:24:29 · 2 answers · asked by anonymous 6 in Singles & Dating

I used to date this girl, in the summer we dated and did some stuuff wit eachother for about 3 months.. but wen school started up.. we knew things wouldnt work... b/c we were both too busy with other activites. But it was a harsh break up and we both ignored eachother. Long story short.. i had a party, we talked... and got back together durring X mas break , but a week and a bit later we came to terms and realized again this wouldnt work. (we go back to school on mon.) However this time, we promised that we wouldnt ignore eachother, and that we would remain best friends and always talk.. it was a firm agreement .. and we appologized for wut we did.. was this the right desicion? b/c i was thinking to try us out , b4 we say it wont work, (even thou it looks like it wont). If it was the right desicion.. wat are things i can say to her to keep her with me and on good terms (in case i want to do something in the future?) .. it almost seems to me like there'll b nothing to talk about now.

2007-01-05 18:23:05 · 4 answers · asked by david edwards 2 in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend and his parents birthdays are all around April - may time so I want to get the presents now in the January sales. but i've got no idear what to get them, his mum is in her early 40's and his dad early 50's. any suggestions please

2007-01-05 18:22:59 · 3 answers · asked by Hazel_Divine 2 in Family

OMG i caught my b\f cheating on me and i am still in love he keeps apoligizing and saying he is sorry but i mean he was totally $crewing like two other girlz in my bed and then i walked in on him and he jumps out and says he is really sorry then starts ki$$ing me right then and there and i mean i still like him and all but what do i do i mean i wan to forgive him but is that the right thing to do??
PLEASE HELP ME!!

2007-01-05 18:22:58 · 10 answers · asked by undecided 1 in Singles & Dating

Im 19 and my ex is 23, we were together for almost 2 yrs when he suddenly ended it. Things were fine leadin up to it, we were talkin bout our future together and makin plans, he cant have been scared off cause he would bring it up. Anyways he dumped me after spending the night at his parents house saying THEY werent happy with us and he suddenly needed to be alone! Now I have found out Im preg to him but he is really strange about it, one min he is caring and asking how im feeling the next he is accusing me of lying and says my sympstoms are just from stres (i did 2 tests, one said i wasnt the next said i was, im goin to the doc next week). I know im preg but he is being a real c#@t about it and its just stressing me out. Has any of you been in this situation or similar and what did u do? What happened? I really dont know what to do, i want to keep it and he doesnt...i dont think i could handle an abortion.

2007-01-05 18:22:26 · 11 answers · asked by Onie 4 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-05 18:21:42 · 15 answers · asked by mikeymilla12 2 in Singles & Dating

Me and My boyfriend normally watch porn together..But today was different, My boyfriend wanted me to f*** him the way some girl was f***ing some guy..Our sex life is great so I was confused that he even asked that..Anyways, we try it and I fail miserably, he put me down because I couldnt do it the way she did..I still dont know how to react..This hurts and I feel terrible..What should I tell him?

Serious Answers Only!!

2007-01-05 18:20:34 · 30 answers · asked by ~Love is Blonde~ 1 in Singles & Dating

ive been with my boyfriend for 6 months and it was soo hard to get him.. i even fought a ***** for him.. (and won) well now were in love and everything is well but sometimes we fight... and i just think that hes too into me.. but sometimes ive been thinking that i dont really think that things are gonna work out you know.. but i cant end things cause for one he gave me a promise ring and idk what changed between us?? do you think that maybe i want something new?? but what?. thats the case.. and ive also been talking alot to my best friend which is a guy...(we sometimes kid around and talk about "us" butmost of the time we talk good things bout the bf) and idk if maybe hes the reason why i feel diff. bout the bf.. im so confused!!is there a way to change the feelings back to normal?? but with out not talking to my bff?? hes my only friend (just to add) cause ever sense ive been with my bf i lost ALL my gal friends.. so mainly besides my bf hes the only person i could talk to... idk help

2007-01-05 18:20:25 · 4 answers · asked by little woman 1 in Singles & Dating

i am a bachelor guy i want to a girl but i have no guts to say i love u. what i do ?

2007-01-05 18:19:37 · 8 answers · asked by raj k 1 in Weddings

OK...this guy i met has been calling me but i havent had the chance to pick up my phone whenever he does..we exchanged numbers.i only have his friends number cuz his phone is not workin..after 3 times of calling me, he stopped..i can only contact his friend...and mind you, i did call back...help! im rlly attracted to this guy

2007-01-05 18:18:50 · 5 answers · asked by baby a 1 in Singles & Dating

About two months ago I realized that I had developed feelings for one of my best friends. I don't know when these feelings came about, I just looked at him one day and saw him differently. When he smiles at me it makes my heart skip a beat. i think about him all the time, little things that don't matter to other people remind me of him. When I hear his voice it makes me smile. I don't know everything about him, but what I know tells me that he is a genuine person and makes me want to know all of him. All of our friends see something between us and declare we should be together. I want to tell him how I feel, but I am scared. There are signs that shows he has mutual feelings, but they are not obvious. He is kind of shy, so even if he does feel the same, I don't think he would ever say anything. I would have to be the one to make the move and I have never been the aggressive type of girl. I don't want to lose out on something great because of fear. What should I do you? Help, please!

2007-01-05 18:17:36 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

all i want to do is go off to college and just relax before i settle down. I know what's the real deal in life but i've been trapped in my house for 20 years my parents are way 2 protective of me and i want to become a nurse, which isnt easy. My parents are sayin its a big mistake but to me i just want to enjoy my life. I'm going to be living with a firend and then get a dorm room but they think its a bad idea for me live with a firend when my unlce doesnt want me living with him because "i dont listen." i'm a good girl who is focused on becoming a nurse, but my parents put me down and they are not being supportive. I'm forced to stay somewhere im very uncomfortable and driving myself crazy. I dont think i will survive in that world.

2007-01-05 18:17:33 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2007-01-05 18:17:32 · 21 answers · asked by Danielle 2 in Weddings

i'm a 20 year old girl completing her engineering and my man is 21 well placed in an IT firm.he is a muslim and i am a hindu.i will be placed in 5 months in a company.we will be independent as soon as we start working.when will it be the right time to disclose our affair to my parents since it involves two different religions.but we our determined to make this relationship work.my family is quite broad minded and we hav inter religious marriages in the past but a hindu muslium relationship is the first of its kind in our family history.pleasde do help me out.my parents are my strength but i just cant decide when i should tell them this..

2007-01-05 18:17:25 · 9 answers · asked by nainaa 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I dont mind him at all wearing them, but i know if my girlfriends find out they will make fun of him and me constintly. Should I ask him to change to boxers and if I am planning on that how do i bring that up? Or should I just let him wear his tighty whities and not care? I know it sounds petty but im curious?

2007-01-05 18:17:06 · 6 answers · asked by jessdean840 1 in Singles & Dating

we met right after school started and i never thought anything about him til' he started to talk to me and i figured we had alot in common and then i thought he was hot. but we been friends for about 4 monthes and i can't keep my mind off of him. but i need to know does he like me or not? because i can't keep asking me that question.

2007-01-05 18:15:32 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

how does a guy show that hes confident?
what other things makes a girl want a guy?
please help meh here
answer me with a lot of tips and u r best answer right away.

2007-01-05 18:14:14 · 11 answers · asked by Jay a 2 in Singles & Dating

I have been with my boyfriend for 2 years. Things aren't how they use to be. He use to come over everyday when we first got together, now it's maybe three times a week. I'm in college and I work and he also works. We hardly talk on the phone when we do it's short. I don't talk on the phone anyways. I want to be with him but then on the other hand I don't know why I am staying in this relationship. We have a good time when we are around each other most of the time. He is always having girls call his phone and he probably calls them when I'm not around, of course. One of the girls that calls him is cool but I hate her for calling him. I trust him I just don't trust girls around him. I wanna say things to him that I keep inside me. I don't know how to express my feelings to him because I don't know what he is going to think or say. I wish I could not care about what people think, and just speak my mind. I don't know what to do. I need advice!!Thank u!

2007-01-05 18:13:29 · 20 answers · asked by atcblue05 6 in Singles & Dating

She broke up with me. She says that she wants me to see another girl and then get back together with her. I dont know what to say. I dont want anyone else. She says she wont get with another guy. This is/was my first girlfriend. Shes had 2 before. I dont understand whats going on. Is she trying to get me to see another woemn so she can get a new guy? She said thats not it though. Its breaking my heart and I dont know what to do. Should I say enough with this?

2007-01-05 18:12:19 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

What can i do to have a good time. I don't want to be that girl again that stays home...having another one of those bleak period. How can i convince myself he's not worth crying for?

2007-01-05 18:12:12 · 12 answers · asked by Ramona S 1 in Singles & Dating

Should you plan for a wedding if you are still married to your first husband. When your wedding is in July?

2007-01-05 18:12:08 · 8 answers · asked by ms.hunnipot32 2 in Marriage & Divorce

My husband is great! BUt he works all the time. 7 days a wk 10 hrs a day. We've only been married 2 months and its already going down hill because we never get to be together and when we are together it seems like we cant get along very good. He always comes in in a bad mood. What can i do?

2007-01-05 18:12:01 · 12 answers · asked by .::in [love]::. 1 in Marriage & Divorce

im a tomgirl - often mistaken for a boy. short hair- boy shorts and sports sandals summer through winter, bike everywhere, bikelock constantly around my neck. i free climb rocks and trees and like extreme dangerous sports. i also like "boyish" subjects like math and science and computer science and all that crap.
im athletic, and if i dress like a girl, not unattractive. but im modest in dress at least. ive never even worn a tanktop in public. and also, my politics and values tell me that showing of physical parts of my body with dress is extremely sexist and encouraging guys to date for the goods.
it seems like the only cool guys i've met are hormoneless too. or, if not completely hormoneless, more interested in other stuff, namely academics.
so what do i do to get their attention? i am unwilling to contradict my own politics.

2007-01-05 18:12:00 · 5 answers · asked by tomgirl 1 in Singles & Dating

Marilyn did it, and alot of women do it in hollywood....I wonder if I could pull off the blonde look..what do you all think?

2007-01-05 18:10:22 · 12 answers · asked by ? 3 in Singles & Dating

by itself? I mean I saw this in a magazine, and it was fine lace and handmade. But really would you get it if you could afford it? Isn't this crazy?

2007-01-05 18:10:18 · 24 answers · asked by Born Valentine's Day 5 in Weddings

Where in CA, South Orange County, can you hook up easily?
I am 40 and good looking, and need to have some fun

2007-01-05 18:08:06 · 5 answers · asked by ebiz1@sbcglobal.net 2 in Singles & Dating

My hubby & I were split up for a year. He says I cheated on him but I say it was n wasn't. For about 2-3 years before we seperated, he never kissed me, never said he loved me, no matter how much I begged him 2 tell me. we never talked . When I tried his words were "f*ck off!" or "leave me the Hell alone. He wouldn't go out with me. We would occationaly have sex, when he wanted to but it was only that, no touching no kissing. He never payed any attention to me & was always talking down 2 me. I would try 2 talk 2 him but he would get angry or make stupid comments like "go F the nieghbor." He quit his job & moved out of state (I own a house there) While he was gone I met some guy. We were only friends, but he treated me nice and I started talking to him a lot, not doing anything. My hubby came back about 4 months later and I told him. He acted hurt. I moved by myself. N got w/him back in july. everytime he gets mad he thows last year in my face. does he have that right

2007-01-05 18:07:18 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

so boring. I am bored.

2007-01-05 18:06:42 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

im like with this guy who doesnt really like kissing or getting touchy in public and thats all me but i put up with it however ...one time i sent him this riddle and the answer was the flu but it sounded so sexual and it totally got him going at work he took the day off

but lol what a surprise i dont know how to talk like that and it works so if some one can help that would be great

2007-01-05 18:06:39 · 8 answers · asked by mama penguin of destruxion 2 in Singles & Dating