boyfriend?

Question

ive been with my boyfriend for 6 months and it was soo hard to get him.. i even fought a ***** for him.. (and won) well now were in love and everything is well but sometimes we fight... and i just think that hes too into me.. but sometimes ive been thinking that i dont really think that things are gonna work out you know.. but i cant end things cause for one he gave me a promise ring and idk what changed between us?? do you think that maybe i want something new?? but what?. thats the case.. and ive also been talking alot to my best friend which is a guy...(we sometimes kid around and talk about "us" butmost of the time we talk good things bout the bf) and idk if maybe hes the reason why i feel diff. bout the bf.. im so confused!!is there a way to change the feelings back to normal?? but with out not talking to my bff?? hes my only friend (just to add) cause ever sense ive been with my bf i lost ALL my gal friends.. so mainly besides my bf hes the only person i could talk to... idk help

i love my bf but theres just somethings that i like more bout my bff... i cant hurt him ya know

Answer 1

From what i gather. Seems to me as though you are at a crossroads. Commitment or Lust. Since your boyfriend gave you a promise ring you feel trapped now. While feeling trapped you realize what you could have. You faught for what you wanted won and now its time for another fight. Now its a struggle to get out of what you initially started. Just to end up loosing what you thought was a prize in the first place.

Answer 2

By the fact that you lost all your girl friends, it is a sign of trouble.
Ask if loosing your friends is fair, and why you lost them, was it because your boyfriend, or was it your choice? You need to keep friends and have a relationship too, if you don't , you will resent him for that, and the love will not be love but just a routine. Will you be able to live this way? Maybe, some time apart will do you both good, and make you let him know, what is going on, he needs the truth, that way both of you can work on change, and then you can decide on staying together, or drift apart. Be open with yourself, and him. Just try to avoid telling him about your best friend (the guy), it won't help but it might bring you more headache, just explain to him that you have this dilemma and you want both to talk about it to see if together it can be worked out. Good Luck.

Answer 3

First of all, go get your gal friends back..never ever lose your friends for a guy, its true what they say bout guys coming and going but your friends are there forever and if u meet the one then he will get along with your gals. You need to have a bit of space to think about what you really want, this means not seeing your best mate too seein he is part of it now. Just take some time to think about it all and decide if its worth continuing, jus cause he gave you a promise ring doesnt mean u have to stay if your unhappy

Answer 4

it somewhat is stressful for you, yet your mom is only keeping you and does not desire something to happen to you. Age difference does not count number she will have the skill to continuously assume a guy is to previous for you considering the fact which you're her daughter. And sure your mom could have met your father a similar time you met yours and your mom in all probability made some errors that she only does not desire repeated to you. only hear to her with the aid of fact interior the top if something does happen to you, you will experience undesirable for no longer listening and you will remorseful relating to the end result.