i'm a 20 year old girl completing her engineering and my man is 21 well placed in an IT firm.he is a muslim and i am a hindu.i will be placed in 5 months in a company.we will be independent as soon as we start working.when will it be the right time to disclose our affair to my parents since it involves two different religions.but we our determined to make this relationship work.my family is quite broad minded and we hav inter religious marriages in the past but a hindu muslium relationship is the first of its kind in our family history.pleasde do help me out.my parents are my strength but i just cant decide when i should tell them this..
2007-01-05 18:17:25 · 9 answers · asked by nainaa 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
When you are sure that this relationship is what you want to do you should tell your family how you feel about him. They should be able to accept his and if not then too bad because its sounds like you love him.
2007-01-05 18:20:53 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, if you are close with your parents just go ahead and tell them. I am very close with my mother and there have been times when I have had to tell her something and was scared to do it. Probably because of the fact that I value her opinion so much and actually care about what she thinks. However, even with all this fear, I told her what I needed to tell because I know that she loves me and that she will always be there for me on any decesions I make in life. So, even though it may be hard and you maybe scared, tell your parents about your relationship. If they are your strength, they will always be your strength no matter what. Keeping this from them may only hurt them because I'm sure they want you to beable to always share anything with them.
2007-01-05 18:29:00 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hello, first u need to be sure of ur relationship. ask urself whether u r comfortable in this relationship. Think of all the pros and cons. When you are in love, you are sure of everything. The situation changes when you start facing real life. I am telling you this from my own experience. if you are absolutely sure abt the success of ur affair and if u r equally confident abt ur parents being broad-minded and ur source of strength, what on earth is stopping you? go ahead and let them know abt ur love. ALL THE VERY BEST TO U!!!
2007-01-05 18:26:10 · answer #3 · answered by lilac4u 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The longer you keep it secret, the harder it is gonna be. If you really respect your parents, then you should respect them enough to tell them the truth. If you REALLY love this guy...then you gotta tell them. NOW!!! I went against my religion, my dad didn't speak to me for weeks..but now he loves him becuase he sees how well my hubby treats me. Just don't make a big stink if this guy isn't the one for you.
2007-01-05 18:21:01 · answer #4 · answered by claireandmouse 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you shouldnt tell them until you know you want him for the rest of your life, but with regards to different religons theres no drama there its perfectly ok here in Australia for you to marry who you want to marry regardless so long as they are 18 or over.......tell them when you feel ready but remember they cant stop you from being with him because you are over 18
Mitch
2007-01-05 18:41:08 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
When the relationship is stable enough!
2007-01-05 18:25:37 · answer #6 · answered by Melon 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should tell them right away. weather they approve of your relationship or not you will be one step ahead of where you are now.
2007-01-05 18:19:54 · answer #7 · answered by crazymofo425 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell them straight away. it's better to just get it over with
2007-01-05 18:38:55 · answer #8 · answered by simiarah 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you feel you are ready, then tell them.
2007-01-05 18:29:02 · answer #9 · answered by Flagstones925 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋