how does a guy show that hes confident?
what other things makes a girl want a guy?
please help meh here
answer me with a lot of tips and u r best answer right away.
2007-01-05 18:14:14 · 11 answers · asked by Jay a 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
the problem is most immature girls can't see confidence.
You can be quiet, assured, and confident and they'll think you're insecure.
They see action. You have to act. Problem is the only action they percieve as confidence, we call arrogance. (which by the way more often than not is a result of insecurity)
Perhaps the only other exception would be a man who is obviously powerful or strong and doesn't use it. That they believe is confidence.
And...some little girls are immature until the day the die.
I believe most of the ladies who have answered here are grown up enough to know the difference. But that's not what you'll find readily available in the real world. Be patient, don't settle for less.
2007-01-05 18:30:38 · answer #1 · answered by mt_hopper 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not all goys with confidence are hot! Depends... you can be confident and hot or confident and cocky so dont over do it. You can take up a sport that you totally dominate in and invite her and some girls to come along and watch you. Step up to the plate when no one else will. The thing that makes a guy truly hot is just being himself. ...and having a beautiful smile! ...Me personally i like a bad boy... but one that doesnt get caught other wise they just look like idiots!
...hope i helped!
... x o x o !
2007-01-05 18:19:24 · answer #2 · answered by ♥..::Amy::..♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A guy can show that he has confidence by walking right up to a girl with out pausing or hesitating. Being a fun person to be with will help you out too. Don't talk down about anybody. That's all I can think of right now.
2007-01-05 18:20:26 · answer #3 · answered by Tasha 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Confidence is definately hot. No one wants a whingy guy who has no confidence or self-esteem. Focus on yourself and your self-esteem and self-confidence. Don't be a jerk or be arrogant, jost be sure about yourself and have a good solid understanding of your own values and morals. Be happy and busy and then you'll meet girls who are attracted to you for you. Other things girls want in a guy...... a good sense of humour, intelligence and good grooming. Also be respectful, a good listener and have your own interests as well. Good luck!
2007-01-05 18:22:53 · answer #4 · answered by Diana K 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes confidence is very sexy. I think it shows confidence when guys aren't afraid to talk to you and just be themselves. You shouldn't be arrogant or brag too much, but just be proud of your good qualities. Also, I think its confident when a guy can just be comfortable around a girl they like and be able to get to know her. I like when I guy shows interest by being interested in my life and caring about what happened to me that day or notices if I'm upset.
2007-01-05 18:21:15 · answer #5 · answered by emma 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not really. My sis like a funny and a gentle guy. For some other girls they might like a tall n' handsome guy or maybe a smart n' good looking guys. Its all depends on their observation toward guys. So u dint have worry about it. Just be u r self. That the best way.
2007-01-05 18:32:23 · answer #6 · answered by aizakid 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be a little mysterious...as in don't give everything away. Hold back a little. Be nice to her but act like you can take her or leave her and still be OK. That is confidence.
Never, never seem desperate. That is the #1 turn off for a woman.
2007-01-05 18:18:07 · answer #7 · answered by Jan J 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think confidence is all that great. I almost see some guys who are that way as cocky which makes me not like them at all. In my opinnion girls like someone that makes them think a little like they aren't too easy to get but somewhat play hard to get. Don't let a girl know what you are thinking it makes her wonder about you and therefore she is thinking about you which is your ultimate goal. Good luck!
2007-01-05 18:20:24 · answer #8 · answered by Golfr 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
-confidence is good
-but never get arrogant most girls h8 that
-be nice, and not pervy
-show thats ur diffrent than other guys
-be yourself
-dont try to be the "bad boy" it makes most guys look like fools
-and again BE URSELF
2007-01-05 18:26:06 · answer #9 · answered by Truth be told. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yah... but if you are confident about something you shouldnt be confident about, then no.
smart and confident.
we like people more knowledgable and decisive than ourselves.
im a girl by the way...
2007-01-05 18:18:46 · answer #10 · answered by tomgirl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋