I used to date this girl, in the summer we dated and did some stuuff wit eachother for about 3 months.. but wen school started up.. we knew things wouldnt work... b/c we were both too busy with other activites. But it was a harsh break up and we both ignored eachother. Long story short.. i had a party, we talked... and got back together durring X mas break , but a week and a bit later we came to terms and realized again this wouldnt work. (we go back to school on mon.) However this time, we promised that we wouldnt ignore eachother, and that we would remain best friends and always talk.. it was a firm agreement .. and we appologized for wut we did.. was this the right desicion? b/c i was thinking to try us out , b4 we say it wont work, (even thou it looks like it wont). If it was the right desicion.. wat are things i can say to her to keep her with me and on good terms (in case i want to do something in the future?) .. it almost seems to me like there'll b nothing to talk about now.
2007-01-05 18:23:05 · 4 answers · asked by david edwards 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
The both of you have made a wise decision about not ignoring each other.
You can never go wrong with being friends. It also sounds like you're confused about your feelings for this girl. How does she feel about you? Has she given any indication that she likes you as much as you like her?
Just continue spending time with each other and actually get to know each other. Just keep your options open.
2007-01-05 18:40:17 · answer #1 · answered by gipsy_queen99 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What are things I can say to her to keep her with me and on good terms (in case I want to do somethign in the future)? You mean keep her on good terms for a possible relationship in the future or so you can do her again in the future whenever you want?? You keep saying it looks like it won't work and there's nothing to talk about. So let it go. Tell it to the one legged man so he can bump it on down the road. If a relationship was supposed to happen from these flings, it would have already.
2007-01-06 02:27:40 · answer #2 · answered by Mel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You cant say it wont work without trying...tell her how you feel, you never know she might be thinkin exactly the same thing. If not then just keep in contact with her, but not too much cause then you might scare her off. Just make sure you keep up to date with whats goin on in her life and be there for her when she needs/wants to chat. Goodluck!
2007-01-06 02:28:47 · answer #3 · answered by Onie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know, what the hell do I look like?
2007-01-06 02:27:10 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋