Me and my boyfriend have been going out for 2 years now and it's been going downhill kind of. He broke up with me once, for 2 weeks. I'm a very shy person and don't know how to get my feelings out when I really want to, I keep holding it in which is affecting me every single day. At first I could talk to my boyfriend about anything and we still talk about things just not nearly as much as we use to. A little after a year of going out he told me he loved me and I told him I loved him to because I did. After awhile the words "I love you" just kind of disappeared from our vocabulary. I still love him but I don't want to say it and have him not respond. About an hour ago we were having fun then he kept asking me to do something and I kept saying no and it makes me mad when he keeps asking me to do it. Then there was this long silence, then he just got his things and left without looking at me or saying anything like I wasn't even there. Help me please, I don't know what to do.
2007-01-05 17:11:44 · 5 answers · asked by atcblue05 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
it really sound like both of you need to really sit down and talk
about what really going on in this realtionship after 2 years
it should be more stable then it may be time to take some
time to fiqure out if you want this to work or not. it may be
time to take a break from each other.that happen when
you in a long term situation. things change,, people change,etc.
2007-01-05 17:18:18 · answer #1 · answered by luckystar 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He likely doesn't feel the same about you as he once did. Now your being a tad vague about what he asked you to do, but from the way you made it sound he likely may just be in a mode where he wants pleasure and may be using you. You really need to get over this hump where you don't talk to him. Communication will be the key to saving your relationship.
2007-01-06 01:21:06 · answer #2 · answered by Zen.Frank. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like he just wanted one thing. Break it off fast, and give yourself mad girl time! Ice cream, makeovers and movies! DO give into him, cause your not gonna get ne thing back!
2007-01-06 01:19:44 · answer #3 · answered by dizziedupbaby0127 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds to me like he just wants you for your pleasure giving ablilty
2007-01-06 01:16:01 · answer #4 · answered by T-NutZ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
kill yourself, honestly. This is the only viable solution.
2007-01-06 01:20:03 · answer #5 · answered by anonymous 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋