Well, this guy and I have been talking for about 2 months and we're really feeling each other. However, he recently told me that he has been seeing someone else for a little longer than me but he says that he doesn't like her like he likes me and doesn't know what to do. He says that he want to end his relationship with her. I was kinda hurt b/c I really like him but I 'm not sure if I can totally trust him. On the other hand, one of my friends gave this other guy my number and we've been talking for a couple of weeks. We haven't really met yet and he's only seen my pictures, but he seems like a nice guy and I can tell he likes me. I am so confused. Can anybody help me out??
2007-01-05 17:18:56 · 17 answers · asked by ~BuBbLy~ 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Give guy #2 a shot before you worry too much about the first guy. He sounds like he isn't really serious, espicially if he's been keeping a secret like that from you.
2007-01-05 17:25:15 · answer #1 · answered by Zen.Frank. 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hi dlee05 !!!
I know you know, what you should do. If you are so confuse, that means that there is something wrong about it.
When we have this feelings, we often ignore them, because is NOT what we want to do!!! But the fact that you are willing to give someone else the chance to know you, is a good sign.
Never start a relationship with someone that is seeing someone else; and is confuse himself. If he wants to end the relationship he should have done it before.
He will still have guilty feelings, and will try to be seeing this girl, because of that, then you will be involve in a triangle of feelings and lies.
Be careful with this other guy, and as an advise, don't be to eager in getting to serious with him. Treat him as a friend, know him better, and then decide.
GOOD BLESS YOU & HAPPY LIVE!!!
ALLIV Z
2007-01-06 01:44:15 · answer #2 · answered by Alliv Z 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok the first guy is showing that he is a likely cheater because he is with one girl yet talking to you as well. So obviously if you don't want to be with someone who is likely to do the same thing to you don't go for it. Yeah he can say he likes you better but he can also say that to the next girl he talks to. The nice guy seems better suited to get to know and possibly consider in terms of a relationship, since it started on solid grounds.
2007-01-06 01:48:49 · answer #3 · answered by Only_1 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If the first guy has been lying to you you should give the other guy a try. Relationships only work on trust and honest. They go hand and hand. If the first guy has already lied to you about such a big thing he will probably do it again. You should atleast take time to consider your options. If the second guy is a good person and yu get along with them, he probably deserves a chanc. Being un fateful should never be rewarded. good luck
2007-01-06 01:25:04 · answer #4 · answered by tomuchthinking 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok, if you and this guy have been kicking it for sometime, then whats the problem with telling him how you feel? If he's dating someone else and claims "he doesn't want to be with her anymore, because he's feeling you" then you don't need him, trust me. You 2 can start dating, but as soon as the next pretty face, big but, and nice breast comes along he'll be telling her the same thing and leaving you out to dry. Think about it, once a cheater always a cheater.
2007-01-06 01:23:34 · answer #5 · answered by miss info 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well it seems like the guy you like is not really sure about what he wants and until he finds out and puts an end to w/e relationship he had going on with the other girl, you should go out and have fun and get him off your mind. meet the other guy to so you have options. then once you gotten to know both of them and if the other guy really stuck by you and ended connections with the other girl, then make your decision. but once you choose a guy, stick with him...you can't have them both. just be careful to make the right choice...and who knows at the end it might be neither one of them.
2007-01-06 01:24:07 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm confused. Who do you like? If you liked #1, you wouldn't have gone out on him. If there were any hope, I doubt if you would have been talking with someone else. Dump #1 and see what #2 brings.
2007-01-06 01:22:42 · answer #7 · answered by lucy7 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should date both of them. He is not serious with you. Keep things on the lighter side and don't press him to be with you. Let him know that you will be dating other guys until you both decide if your relationship should go to another level. Remember young ladies should not chase guys. If he is not chasing you let it be. He is having his cake and eating it also. Step back for a moment. PEACE!
2007-01-06 01:27:21 · answer #8 · answered by Special K 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
People are impatient, but time is your friend. Use it to get to know your new firend, As a rule people flip guys every few weeks or months, so use the time to get to know him without preasure, it is better than dating andhigher self esteme.
Dating has been called institutionalized lying, anyway.
2007-01-06 01:24:12 · answer #9 · answered by ebiz1@sbcglobal.net 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All the feelings here are virtual. Coz I tried this 9 years ago. Nothing is true until you guys see each others (i.e face to face).
2007-01-06 01:37:10 · answer #10 · answered by Ocean 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋